I dont think thats what he meant - #109293895 added by wrathful at faith in humanity

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(01/07/2014) [-]

"Don't kill yourself!"
"Why not?"
"Because OTHER PEOPLE will be VERY SAD! And that sadness will be YOUR FAULT! You dont want to make them sad do you?"

Basically most people only wants you alive because it would be such a strain on them if you killed yourself. So dont kill yourself.

But if you decide to live then you can go **** yourself, they dont really care.

"HE TOOK HIS LIFE! HOW COULD HE DO THAT TO ME!"

CUNTS

**** I HATE PEOPLE

#398 to #53 - equivalent

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You are right imo; you should live for your self and not for others.
The only reason to not suicide in a horible situation is becouse you can turn it around with willpower, hard work etc......

Remember: nothing worth living for comes for nothing (except love from family and stuff but yeah in most of these horible situations ther isnt a loving family or friends)

#370 to #53 - pkrbarmovie

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You're an angsty teenager. Shut up.

#338 to #53 - crowsnest

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That's not what he meant at all.
I had a suicide in my family recently.

I hadn't seen her since I was little, but I knew her father really well. He was the one that found her. His own daughter. He was the most outgoing family member I had, and I, for the first time in my life, saw him as something completely different. Defeated. Suicide is selfish and cowardly because NOTHING that you leave behind is positive. People are forced to forever ask themselves if there was anything more that they could have done, but they will never get that answer. I have not seen her since I was 4, and even I still have trouble with myself. Maybe if she would have known me more, she wouldn't have done something so horrible and left her family behind....

To pick up the pieces

#283 to #53 - armenhart

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(01/07/2014) [-]

this is exactly what i think about suicide. i get that some people will be genuinely hurt, but i hate when people say that suicide is selfish.

#304 to #283 - crowsnest

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I had a suicide in the family recently... I never thought that suicide was selfish until it happened. It might be harsh words, but that doesn't mean that it isn't the truth.

#319 to #304 - armenhart

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well perspective changes when it's personal. another point i'd like to emphasize is that i think suicide is stupid if you do it for the wrong reasons. for example, if i heard that a guy at my school killed himself because he couldn't handle the stress during finals, then i'd say that it was stupid. but if you're at a point in your life where everything is stripped away from you and you have nothing and no one to turn to and you've tried (actually tried) to make a change and you are stopped at every point, then i think it's an okay decision. not the greatest decision, but i wouldn't be mad at the person. i can't imagine the emotional distress a suicidal person has. and i've thought about killing myself multiple times. but i came to the conclusion that i'd never be able to do it. when i get low, i usually just wish death upon myself.

#343 to #319 - crowsnest

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I'm glad that you are strong enough.

It's really hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel sometimes. We all have our trials, and we both know that we can't be for sure which one of us has gone through worse, but I'm going to share with you something that saved my life a while back.

It isn't about what we've been through, its what we do with what we've learned in our trials. I might have my demons of my past, but wishing them to go away won't help anybody.

But maybe.
Just maybe.
I can use those past demons to better the people around me. I'm not sure if I deserve improvement, but everyone else sure as hell does. And I hope one day someone else is better off because of me.

That's why my death just isn't an option to me. Before I leave this Earth, someone has to improve because of my life. It might not be till I am 80, or it might be tomorrow. If I'm one of the lucky few, I will change the world. But I will be fine with one, because one is all it takes.

Hope. It is the only thing stronger than fear.

#358 to #343 - armenhart

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(01/07/2014) [-]

thank you for sharing that. i'm mentally stable at this point in my life, but i appreciate you sharing that nonetheless.

#362 to #358 - crowsnest

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No problem, it makes me feel better every time I get to share that haha

#279 to #53 - homebray

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(01/07/2014) [-]

Yeah and it just makes it ******** because your depressed state is hurting people even more

#137 to #53 - onewithpokerface

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Honestly, that's the exact reason I decided not to kill myself. I mean too much to my friends and family, I didn't want them to be sad and have this horrible trauma haunt them for the rest of their lives because I couldn't cope with my emotions for a year or two.

I'm better now though. I still hold it dear to my heart that I live for my friends and family though, because without them, you're not really living are you

#65 to #53 - wymlan

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(01/07/2014) [-]

This is so right

#60 to #53 - wrathful

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(01/07/2014) [-]

I dont think thats what he meant

#59 to #53 - Blargosnarf

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The point is if you can't think about yourself, then at least think about the people it will affect. You've given up on yourself, but don't give up on others.