GIRLS - ifyou hit, slap, belittle, kick, punch, choke, throw things at, incontrol
your boyfriends, you are the abuser. You are not a "strong woman",
empowered", or anything similar. You are hurting him. Even if his muscles are
strong enough to take it, a hit or slap from someone you love is an emotional
Written by a girl who' d never hit a guy.