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User avatar #2952 - randomvillain (06/13/2012) [-]
Guys, my mind is seriously fucked up right now, or I wouldn't be here. Sorry, but that's the truth. To start off, I'm bi. That's not why I'm here, but it's part of the reason. I'm currently in a relationship that's been going on for a while. We're not too terribly serious. We could be if we saw each other more though. I'm lucky to see them once every two weeks and we don't seem to talk much. When we do see each other, it all goes well. We generally have a good time. But I've met this guy who, I'm not gonna lie, interests me. We've been talking for a few weeks, and we keep finding things we have in common, including sexual orientation. He lives a while out, but I'm actually able to talk to him. I like this new guy, but still like the relationship I'm in. I don't want to do the whole "leave for another, have things fail miserably, crawl back" thing. In all honesty, besides that, I don't know what the hell to do or not do.
User avatar #3104 to #2952 - sommerli ONLINE (06/13/2012) [-]
tell your mate how you feel. then you improvise by your heart.
User avatar #2978 to #2952 - filthyargonian (06/13/2012) [-]
you wouldn't feel emotionally about another person if you truly loved the person you are with. end of story.
User avatar #3028 to #2978 - randomvillain (06/13/2012) [-]
Makes sense. Sorry for the slow reply.
#2954 to #2952 - derpiomonstercock ONLINE (06/13/2012) [-]
are you with a boy or a girl right now? and well, if your not totally in love with your current partner it's not fair and it doesn't even make sense to stay with him/her. If there is someone who attracts more it's not fair to stick to your partner just because you don't wanne leave him/her. I say.. just go for it.    
It doesn't sound like you're deeply in love at the moment(with your partner), sorry if i see this wrong..
are you with a boy or a girl right now? and well, if your not totally in love with your current partner it's not fair and it doesn't even make sense to stay with him/her. If there is someone who attracts more it's not fair to stick to your partner just because you don't wanne leave him/her. I say.. just go for it.
It doesn't sound like you're deeply in love at the moment(with your partner), sorry if i see this wrong..
#2956 to #2954 - randomvillain (06/13/2012) [-]
I'm currently with a guy. And, well, I'm not exactly sure how I'm feeling towards him.
#2957 to #2956 - derpiomonstercock ONLINE (06/13/2012) [-]
i made this mistake more than once (tho i'm straight).. you really have to go deep inside yourself. Ask yourself what you expect from this new guy and from your current boyfriend. If there are more mutual interests with the new guy but more feelings with your boyfriend stick with your boyfriend. Srsly man, new people are always exciting but don't make the mistake if you're not 100% sure. And to be total fair you should tell your bf about this new guy, sorry but this is a serious issue and he has the right to know it. If you want to stick with him anyway don't tell him.. that would just be pointless.
i made this mistake more than once (tho i'm straight).. you really have to go deep inside yourself. Ask yourself what you expect from this new guy and from your current boyfriend. If there are more mutual interests with the new guy but more feelings with your boyfriend stick with your boyfriend. Srsly man, new people are always exciting but don't make the mistake if you're not 100% sure. And to be total fair you should tell your bf about this new guy, sorry but this is a serious issue and he has the right to know it. If you want to stick with him anyway don't tell him.. that would just be pointless.
User avatar #2958 to #2957 - randomvillain (06/13/2012) [-]
Makes sense. Thanks for the advice. I'll try to talk to my bf.
User avatar #2961 to #2958 - derpiomonstercock ONLINE (06/13/2012) [-]
oh and btw, it don't have to be a mistake. maybe is it the only right thing. hope the best for you.
User avatar #2959 to #2958 - derpiomonstercock ONLINE (06/13/2012) [-]
yea, do it. i hope you don't hurt him and find the right way.
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