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#2925 - Zaivia (06/13/2012) [-]
I'm not gonna go in some huge back-story because you see it a lot here, but, long story short, a girl I liked a year ago found out I like(d) her, she told me she liked me too (present) but she didn't think I liked her back (we had a mutual thing). She stopped liking me because she thought I didn't feel the same way. (In other words we stopped the relationship because neither of us confessed our feeling [I'm shy I guess...]) She started liking some other guy, he doesn't like her, she's still all over him, he's gross, me and her are great friends, Doctor Who, Sherlock, and music are our little shared interests. I still want her, she doesn't see it. What do Funnyjunk, what do?
User avatar #2997 to #2925 - loveyameanish (06/13/2012) [-]
Sack the fuck up and tell her. Pretty much the worst case scenario is she says that she doesn't feel the same way anymore, it would hurt but you'll live, and it's better than a million "what ifs" running through your head. What ifs gargle monkey balls, I hate them.
#3010 to #2997 - draukenkind (06/13/2012) [-]
True. You save quite some time, effort and I mean once you've asked tadaa!. If she happens to say no, you'll be awkward with her for a really short time and then you can go back to being good friends. YOU HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE.
#2927 to #2925 - derpiomonstercock (06/13/2012) [-]
What did she excatly say to you? She said that she liked you. And you said that you still like her.. but she won't give it a chance because she likes another guy?
What did she excatly say to you? She said that she liked you. And you said that you still like her.. but she won't give it a chance because she likes another guy?
User avatar #2929 to #2927 - Zaivia (06/13/2012) [-]
Well I tried to point out that fact that we were both interested in each-other, and instead of seeing my point she just kind of agreed that it's ridiculous we aren't dating. It's not that she won't give me a chance, I just don't know how to approach it, because everyone knows she likes this guy. He's a nice guy he's just not the dating type and I don't know what she sees in him. Whenever I try to get closer to her in our relationship by asking to hangout, she invites other people, even when I just want to spend time with her, but the main point, is I don't know how to pop the question of "Hey, we used to like eachother, what happened? Why aren't we dating and why did you stop liking me" When I asked the one time she just said she moved on because she though I didn't like her anymore and I tried point out that we did like eachother. She knows it, I just don't see why she "moved along". gahhh It just confuses me ._.
#2940 to #2929 - derpiomonstercock (06/13/2012) [-]
this is a damn tricky situation. hard to get out.. i failed. but i have some tips for you.    
   
you don't know how to ask her about that.. but you know the question, thats good.   
if she don't want to meet you alone, "force" her to talk privat to you, i don't mean like in a aggressiv way. just come over to her place when you know she is alone and just say something like : "i was around anyway, do you wanna hangout?" - or do it on facebook? just ask her what happend and if she sees any chances forgetting about this new guy and give you a chance.. again, this is a fucked up situation.. hope the best for you. just try to talk open about your feelings..
this is a damn tricky situation. hard to get out.. i failed. but i have some tips for you.

you don't know how to ask her about that.. but you know the question, thats good.
if she don't want to meet you alone, "force" her to talk privat to you, i don't mean like in a aggressiv way. just come over to her place when you know she is alone and just say something like : "i was around anyway, do you wanna hangout?" - or do it on facebook? just ask her what happend and if she sees any chances forgetting about this new guy and give you a chance.. again, this is a fucked up situation.. hope the best for you. just try to talk open about your feelings..
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