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#2415
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hargleblarg ONLINE (06/11/2012) [-] This is a serious post so if you want to make jokes...go ahead and make them, it might cheer me up.
Four years ago I had my first girlfriend (I was 16). Four months later we split up because she was becoming incredibly clingy and possessive. She then continued to stalk me for over a year, literally following me everywhere and trying to get others to spy on me for her.
Skip ahead two years and she'd calmed down and hadn't stalked me for around six months. She was moving to Bristol so I'd never have to see her again, so obviously I was happy. She then called me and asked if I could come round because she wanted to tell me something. I thought she wanted to apologise for stalking me, or just say good-bye or something so I agreed.
I got there, went into her house, and she locked the door behind me. She then pinned me down and started..doing things to me. I tried to throw her off but I suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome so I couldn't get her off. I had sit there and take it as a girl was forcing me to have sex. I lost my virginity to her that day..
It turned out she was still obsessed with me and wanted to trap me with her by making me get her pregnant. Luckily she never did get pregnant and I stayed right the hell away from her until she left to Bristol.
Fast forward to today and what I want to ask is this:
Can a guy be raped by a girl, and how do I deal with this? I'm still haunted by what happened and I've been too scared to have sex again. I know FJ isn't the best place to ask, but I can't trust my friends (nobody knows what happened) and some of you guys are truly amazing.
Four years ago I had my first girlfriend (I was 16). Four months later we split up because she was becoming incredibly clingy and possessive. She then continued to stalk me for over a year, literally following me everywhere and trying to get others to spy on me for her.
Skip ahead two years and she'd calmed down and hadn't stalked me for around six months. She was moving to Bristol so I'd never have to see her again, so obviously I was happy. She then called me and asked if I could come round because she wanted to tell me something. I thought she wanted to apologise for stalking me, or just say good-bye or something so I agreed.
I got there, went into her house, and she locked the door behind me. She then pinned me down and started..doing things to me. I tried to throw her off but I suffer from chronic fatigue syndrome so I couldn't get her off. I had sit there and take it as a girl was forcing me to have sex. I lost my virginity to her that day..
It turned out she was still obsessed with me and wanted to trap me with her by making me get her pregnant. Luckily she never did get pregnant and I stayed right the hell away from her until she left to Bristol.
Fast forward to today and what I want to ask is this:
Can a guy be raped by a girl, and how do I deal with this? I'm still haunted by what happened and I've been too scared to have sex again. I know FJ isn't the best place to ask, but I can't trust my friends (nobody knows what happened) and some of you guys are truly amazing.
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xblooddrunkx **User deleted account** (06/11/2012) [-] I've been in almost the exact situation, it's uncanny.
But you have to understand that there is meaningless sex (one night stands, crazy bitches, etc.), and there is actual love making. Up until you find the right person, all sex is just pointless fun. Don't let one bad experience ruin all the good ones to come.
But you have to understand that there is meaningless sex (one night stands, crazy bitches, etc.), and there is actual love making. Up until you find the right person, all sex is just pointless fun. Don't let one bad experience ruin all the good ones to come.
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Drunk **User deleted account** (06/11/2012) [-]
Oddly enough, I remember reading a couple articles a few weeks ago where men had been raped by other women by being tied up and forced to have sex for days. One was a russian shop lifter that got the tables turned on him during a robbery and the shop keeper (some butch ass woman) drugged him up with viagra and had her way with him for a couple day I believe. he turned himself in, but got her for rape as well.
anyway, I'm sure you could charge her with rape. idk if that helps ya.
anyway, I'm sure you could charge her with rape. idk if that helps ya.
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sozmonkey (06/11/2012) [-]
I don't think too much time has passed to do turn her in. In fact it would probably be the most responsible thing to do. I'm sure that your experience with the being unable to talk about it, or maybe ashamed (not saying you are, but I understand that's normal) is what a lot of rape victims go through. I wish you luck with whatever you chose to do
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hargleblarg ONLINE (06/11/2012) [-] I just don't know how to even bring up the subject.
"Hey mum, two years ago I got raped by my first girlfriend. Cool story huh?"
And yeah, I am ashamed. I could have avoided the whole thing if I'd just said "no" and not gone over to see her...
"Hey mum, two years ago I got raped by my first girlfriend. Cool story huh?"
And yeah, I am ashamed. I could have avoided the whole thing if I'd just said "no" and not gone over to see her...
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sozmonkey (06/11/2012) [-]
You shouldn't be ashamed, you didn't ask for it to happen, and you obviously didn't know it would happen or you wouldn't have put yourself in that situation. It's never going to be a comfortable conversation, so you need to be prepared for it, whether it goes well or not. I would start by sitting her down and tell her you have something to tell her, and why you didn't tell her before. Just make sure she's prepared for some bad news, rather than just blurting it out.
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Drunk **User deleted account** (06/11/2012) [-]
The difference between sex and rape is one is consentual, while the other isn't. I'm pretty sure they'll understand that too when you tell them how serious this is. If it's haunting you and preventing from moving forward in your relationships, then it's a serious enough matter for them.
Also, your 20. Sex is a little less of a shock at your age now. =P
Also, your 20. Sex is a little less of a shock at your age now. =P
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hargleblarg ONLINE (06/11/2012) [-] Sex is less of a shock, yes. But imagine discovering that your 20 year old disabled son was raped two years ago and is only just telling you now that he's not a virgin.
How would you react to that being brought up out of nowhere?
How would you react to that being brought up out of nowhere?
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Drunk **User deleted account** (06/11/2012) [-] <mfw. I'd flip some shit. I'd wish I'd heard about it sooner rather than now, when something could've been done. But I'd do what I could to help with the aftermath now.
I'm just saying you need to say something soon. The longer a wound goes untreated, the worse it's condition becomes. It's been a couple years, but it's still not too late to do something. talking about it is a start. Going to somebody you trust is another step closer. If you're friends are too untrust worthy, then you need to get past the fear about confronting your parents.
I'm just saying you need to say something soon. The longer a wound goes untreated, the worse it's condition becomes. It's been a couple years, but it's still not too late to do something. talking about it is a start. Going to somebody you trust is another step closer. If you're friends are too untrust worthy, then you need to get past the fear about confronting your parents.
