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lassek (07/16/2012) [-]
Hi advice. This is hard to explain.
Some time ago i started talking with this girl from my class. We sat next each other in class, and we began to get closer. We talked to each other everyday, talked about everything, she was really cool. She became a really good friend. But after some time my friends said it was annoying that i talked to her all the time. My grades also started to drop. I got a new seat (because in my class we just randomly changes it) next to my other friends. We talked alot like we used too before her, and it was fun and stuff. I also got kind of more popular (if you can say that), and she got more disliked in our class. People for some reason started thinking she was wierd and annoying. We didn't talk anymore. She tried to talk with me but i ignored her. Now recently we just started talking. She made fun of me or something i donøt really remember. It made me mad, and i said some things about her. We began to argue. We both said some mean things. She started to cry. She doesn't wanna talk with me anymore. forever. It's my own fault. And she was the only friend i could show my feelings too, and talk about everything with.
If you read this, thanks. It feels like what ever i write no one will ever understand. Just call me a faggot if want.
So what would /advice/ do if they were me?
Some time ago i started talking with this girl from my class. We sat next each other in class, and we began to get closer. We talked to each other everyday, talked about everything, she was really cool. She became a really good friend. But after some time my friends said it was annoying that i talked to her all the time. My grades also started to drop. I got a new seat (because in my class we just randomly changes it) next to my other friends. We talked alot like we used too before her, and it was fun and stuff. I also got kind of more popular (if you can say that), and she got more disliked in our class. People for some reason started thinking she was wierd and annoying. We didn't talk anymore. She tried to talk with me but i ignored her. Now recently we just started talking. She made fun of me or something i donøt really remember. It made me mad, and i said some things about her. We began to argue. We both said some mean things. She started to cry. She doesn't wanna talk with me anymore. forever. It's my own fault. And she was the only friend i could show my feelings too, and talk about everything with.
If you read this, thanks. It feels like what ever i write no one will ever understand. Just call me a faggot if want.
So what would /advice/ do if they were me?
Judging from what I read, you fucked up. Badly so.
So what would I do if I was you?
I'd tell her exactly that. That I was mean, hurtful and acting out of idiotic hurt pride. That I could see that now, but just couldn't at the time, and that I was sorry for what I did.
I'd say I was wrong and arrogant and that I'm sorry and wished I hadn't been such an idiot.
Also, and very important, that I really hope she'd forgive me, because "she was really cool. She became a really good friend" and "she was the only friend i could show my feelings too, and talk about everything with.", basically because I actually valued our friendship very much, but I'd also say I know I can't force her and understand if she'd really never want to see me again.
Huh, when did this turn into a novel?
tl;dr: Just get the truth out, say you're truly sorry and be ready if she decides not to forgive you.
Not much more you can do, rest is on her part.
So what would I do if I was you?
I'd tell her exactly that. That I was mean, hurtful and acting out of idiotic hurt pride. That I could see that now, but just couldn't at the time, and that I was sorry for what I did.
I'd say I was wrong and arrogant and that I'm sorry and wished I hadn't been such an idiot.
Also, and very important, that I really hope she'd forgive me, because "she was really cool. She became a really good friend" and "she was the only friend i could show my feelings too, and talk about everything with.", basically because I actually valued our friendship very much, but I'd also say I know I can't force her and understand if she'd really never want to see me again.
Huh, when did this turn into a novel?
tl;dr: Just get the truth out, say you're truly sorry and be ready if she decides not to forgive you.
Not much more you can do, rest is on her part.
Yeah, I know that sucks, swallowing your pride and standing up to mistakes. People always go on about how it's the right and noble thing when it feels more like poking around in still open wounds; painful and rather humiliating, to be honest.
Still, you're not doing this solely for her. You'll remember and think "Yeah, I fucked up, but at least I stood up to it." instead of hating yourself for just fucking up.
Still, you're not doing this solely for her. You'll remember and think "Yeah, I fucked up, but at least I stood up to it." instead of hating yourself for just fucking up.
Only thing you can really do is apologize and say you feel like an ass for it and hope for the best she'll most likely talk to you again eventually if you give her some time but you gotta start off small till she warms up to you again
Yeah these situations suck, but you just have to try to understand her feelings about it and hope for the best. I mean same thing happened to me but it was with an ex of mine and she and all her friends completely hated me, but i started off slow again and now we're all friends again