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#12572
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thehandofgod (07/12/2012) [-] 
Hey guys, i'm here for some legitimate advice.
So, I've been talking to this girl, about 2 months, who's from my school. Her and i both write, like the same music, like the same movies, have the same humor, everything.
We stay up till 1:30 many nights, just shootin the shit and i help her with her writing. We're going to the movies next week and I think this is the second time I've think I've ever really been in `LOVE` (sorry, just wanted you to see that word vividly)
Anyway, there's something under her skin that i want to help her with. Everyone at school, all year called her emo and lesbian. I know she's not lesbian, but I think she may have troubles. She acts sometimes like she is sad about stuff, but not really, not good to use titles, but "emo".
I feel like if we were to ever have anything to happen between us, i need to be able to talk about the shit that really bothers her. Any suggestions on trying to get her to open up her real feelings so that, if she needs it, i can comfort her.
That's her
Face: 7/10
Body: 8.75/10
So, I've been talking to this girl, about 2 months, who's from my school. Her and i both write, like the same music, like the same movies, have the same humor, everything.
We stay up till 1:30 many nights, just shootin the shit and i help her with her writing. We're going to the movies next week and I think this is the second time I've think I've ever really been in `LOVE` (sorry, just wanted you to see that word vividly)
Anyway, there's something under her skin that i want to help her with. Everyone at school, all year called her emo and lesbian. I know she's not lesbian, but I think she may have troubles. She acts sometimes like she is sad about stuff, but not really, not good to use titles, but "emo".
I feel like if we were to ever have anything to happen between us, i need to be able to talk about the shit that really bothers her. Any suggestions on trying to get her to open up her real feelings so that, if she needs it, i can comfort her.
That's her
Face: 7/10
Body: 8.75/10
#12585 to #12581
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humpaba (07/12/2012) [-] Not so much as just exchanging secrets or anything like that. What you're attempting to accomplish is essentially trying to figure out what makes her tick. The only way to do that is to get her to talk. To get her to talk, sometimes all it takes is, "If there's ever something bothering you, you can always come to me and I'll hear you out."
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thehandofgod (07/12/2012) [-] Sadly, I tried that but she seems pretty closed up. Also, the only thing is, is that her turn ons are things that I'd rather not do. I don't want to change myself so drastically just to be with her. i think she should like me for what I am.
Her turn on btw are toms and skinny jeans and thor. I'm kinda bigger, so i couldn't pull off skinny jeans and I'm not going to wear shoes made for women.
Her turn on btw are toms and skinny jeans and thor. I'm kinda bigger, so i couldn't pull off skinny jeans and I'm not going to wear shoes made for women.
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sphighderman (07/12/2012) [-] Step 1: Don't rank her appearance. That's almost a guarantee you don't truly respect her.
Frankly, if this person is so important to you you would go so far to say you /might/ be in love with her, you need to show her some damn respect. Start really respecting her, and she will open up to you because she will admire you. Behave like a man, not a boy.
Frankly, if this person is so important to you you would go so far to say you /might/ be in love with her, you need to show her some damn respect. Start really respecting her, and she will open up to you because she will admire you. Behave like a man, not a boy.
#12586 to #12579
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sphighderman (07/12/2012) [-] I'm a rude person.
Also, I'm not sure what I meant by "REALLY open up to her" either, because I never said that.
Yes, in regard to your response to the other guy, make her feel like she can trust you because you trust her. Mutual trust is an absolute requirement for a stable relationship. Without it the relationship is doomed.
Finally, wait for the retard to ask you, don't just do it. Makes you look like a tool.
Also, I'm not sure what I meant by "REALLY open up to her" either, because I never said that.
Yes, in regard to your response to the other guy, make her feel like she can trust you because you trust her. Mutual trust is an absolute requirement for a stable relationship. Without it the relationship is doomed.
Finally, wait for the retard to ask you, don't just do it. Makes you look like a tool.
#12595 to #12593
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sphighderman (07/12/2012) [-] Wow, and I was being relatively nicer than usual.
Another key step to getting her respect is not to be such a bitch when confronted with a tiny bit of bluntness. Seriously, don't over react to things, it makes you appear weak.
Another key step to getting her respect is not to be such a bitch when confronted with a tiny bit of bluntness. Seriously, don't over react to things, it makes you appear weak.
#12599 to #12595
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thehandofgod (07/12/2012) [-] Hey, hey. This isn't regarded to the ask for help. And i don't act like this, i just find that you're being a dick. All i wanted was a little help on how to get to know this girl better, which you guys did.
but you don't even know me and you're judging me on a few, not-so-choice words that i said. I just wanted a little help. That's all.
but you don't even know me and you're judging me on a few, not-so-choice words that i said. I just wanted a little help. That's all.
#12600 to #12599
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sphighderman (07/12/2012) [-] Well OP, I don't have much else to judge you by.
Speaking of poor choices of words, be careful with the words you choose because often times you will only get one chance to use them.
Also,
"This isn't regarded to the ask for help."
"I just wanted a little help. That's all."
Dafuq?
Speaking of poor choices of words, be careful with the words you choose because often times you will only get one chance to use them.
Also,
"This isn't regarded to the ask for help."
"I just wanted a little help. That's all."
Dafuq?
#12605 to #12600
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thehandofgod (07/12/2012) [-] Actually, the first thing, about it not being regarded to the ask for help, that was commenting about how you said i looked like a tool. But yeah, just please don't be so quick to judge.
However, you turned out to be not that bad after all.
However, you turned out to be not that bad after all.
