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#10015
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zombiesurfer (07/04/2012) [-] Hey advice board, I'm in a dilemma.
I posted a while back about a girl i liked who seemed to hate her boyfriend. To give you the short version, he treated her like shit, they had a big fight and almost broke up but then decided to "work things out".
Anyway, after that things continued as normal, our yearly prom is on tomorrow and last week i was helping her find a dress online (the shop she looked at online had sold out so i used reverse image searching to find a place that sold it) and after going through lots of dresses (that her boyfriend hated because he was fixed on one dress that was too formal for the event) she finally decided on one. She then asked me if she can "steal me for a dance" as well.
fast forward to last friday, we were at a party and both drunk. she was getting very close to me but i didn't realise it until the morning, i never let her kiss me because i knew she had a boyfriend who hadn't been a complete asshole to me but she was holding my hand to drag me places and wanting to dance all night. when i realised her boyfriend was a bit pissed that she had gotten so close to me, i apologised as i felt bad for what had happened but he forgave me and now we're all cool.
So heres my dilemma. After this incident, she thought it would be best if we wern't as close as we normally are for a little bit, i agreed as i thought it would be best not to risk upsetting her boyfriend again. On the bus today she mentioned she wasn't thrilled about going to the prom (because of her boyfriend hating the dress) and said she needs someone to dance with because she can't dance, i didn't know what to say, I want to dance with her but i don't know if it would be overstepping the mark.
I really like this girl, but I feel like if i stay interested in her then i'm playing with fire. Their relationship is always rocky and i can't make any advances because she has a boyfriend? do i risk waiting for this to end? or try to move on?
sorry for the long post.
I posted a while back about a girl i liked who seemed to hate her boyfriend. To give you the short version, he treated her like shit, they had a big fight and almost broke up but then decided to "work things out".
Anyway, after that things continued as normal, our yearly prom is on tomorrow and last week i was helping her find a dress online (the shop she looked at online had sold out so i used reverse image searching to find a place that sold it) and after going through lots of dresses (that her boyfriend hated because he was fixed on one dress that was too formal for the event) she finally decided on one. She then asked me if she can "steal me for a dance" as well.
fast forward to last friday, we were at a party and both drunk. she was getting very close to me but i didn't realise it until the morning, i never let her kiss me because i knew she had a boyfriend who hadn't been a complete asshole to me but she was holding my hand to drag me places and wanting to dance all night. when i realised her boyfriend was a bit pissed that she had gotten so close to me, i apologised as i felt bad for what had happened but he forgave me and now we're all cool.
So heres my dilemma. After this incident, she thought it would be best if we wern't as close as we normally are for a little bit, i agreed as i thought it would be best not to risk upsetting her boyfriend again. On the bus today she mentioned she wasn't thrilled about going to the prom (because of her boyfriend hating the dress) and said she needs someone to dance with because she can't dance, i didn't know what to say, I want to dance with her but i don't know if it would be overstepping the mark.
I really like this girl, but I feel like if i stay interested in her then i'm playing with fire. Their relationship is always rocky and i can't make any advances because she has a boyfriend? do i risk waiting for this to end? or try to move on?
sorry for the long post.
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screamingdemon (07/04/2012) [-] I had pretty much the same problem not long ago, and it ended in great depression for me. I told her my feelings and we kissed, the same day she broke up with her bf. We dated for two weeks then she told me she got her feelings for her boyfriend back and dumped me.
Maybe a month later the same thing happened and I was stupid enough to go out with her again. Again, after two weeks she said she wasn't sure about her feelings for me so I ended the relation to prevent further pain. Now I'm really depressed because I lost my best friend and gf at the same time.
What I'm trying to say is that even if she said that she loved me, she got back to her asshole of a bf because she just couldn't let him go or something, and I don't want you to make the same mistake.
IF you decide to tell her about your feelings (witch isn't a bad idea), wait at least like a month or something after she breaks up with her current bf.
Maybe a month later the same thing happened and I was stupid enough to go out with her again. Again, after two weeks she said she wasn't sure about her feelings for me so I ended the relation to prevent further pain. Now I'm really depressed because I lost my best friend and gf at the same time.
What I'm trying to say is that even if she said that she loved me, she got back to her asshole of a bf because she just couldn't let him go or something, and I don't want you to make the same mistake.
IF you decide to tell her about your feelings (witch isn't a bad idea), wait at least like a month or something after she breaks up with her current bf.
