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#157451 - angelious ONLINE (1 hour ago) [-]
forgive me for bad english but i need some help with my computer.

i just bought,installed and formatted a new hard drive for my computer,but despite doing everything every guide on the internet told me to do.i still did not get any extra memory or such for my computer.

the hard drives(namened g and f) read as having 100 % free space. but i cant use it anyway?


i just wanted more space to install some more games on steam
User avatar #157456 to #157451 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (25 minutes ago) [-]
Anyhow, go into Disk Management to create a Volume on the hard drives.
Delete any pre-existing partitions, make a new volume, and select what type of volume you wish for it to be.

(I know there's MBR and something else. Don't go with MBR. Go with the other option.)

Do that and you'll be able to use it.
User avatar #157455 to #157451 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (29 minutes ago) [-]
Which operating system?
#157457 to #157455 - angelious ONLINE (13 minutes ago) [-]
windows 8 or something im afraid...also ill do what you said i should do. thank you for help
User avatar #157458 to #157457 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (10 minutes ago) [-]
Windows Key + S
"Disk Management" > Enter
Find drive G or F
Right click > New Volume (Or Delete volume, if there; Then go and right click and select New Volume. Again, be sure it IS drive G or F and not anything else.)
Choose which type of Volume. You'll have two options. If you want, you can go with MBR. MBR won't work for hard drives over 2tb. The other option works for anything.
#157461 to #157458 - angelious ONLINE (4 minutes ago) [-]
rough translations on the choises i have are:

open
resource management

mark object as active(grayed out)

change station letter and path

platform(most likely means something else.but the word to word translation would either be.platform or to set a bottom..)

expand station(greyed out)

minimize station

delete station

properties

hint
#157462 to #157461 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (1 minute ago) [-]
resourse management
#157459 to #157458 - angelious ONLINE (7 minutes ago) [-]
ok i tried to go google translator and everything for the volume thing.but no such option seems to exists for me...
#157445 - swonnr (3 hours ago) [-]
Not sure where to post this, so here we go.
Long intro/context, wich might be usefull to anyone looking to save money:

Programming School, a friend show me a trick to get hardware at factory price:
Contacting a bulk seller, saying that you are opening a business, and order a sample.

Tried it with a few other peoples, it worked out well (nice keyboards/mouse/headsets for 1/3 of commercial price).
We even thought about organizing a real bulk order, since nerd hive and everyone needs new hardware. Didn't happen - yet.

But it ended up giving me another idea:
What about actually ordering stuff in bulk?

Right now I'm thinking soda, canned food, non perishable stuff. That kind of things.
They sell and deliver in paletts (1m3), and it's 3/4. 2/3 of the shelf price.
I have the space to store it, it would cost an investment at first, but I would spare money on the long run.

I don't know, I'm used to have what seems "genius" ideas, only to realize latter how retarded that was.
So I'm asking you, FJ, What could go wrong with buying year-long supply of food bulk prices?
User avatar #157454 to #157445 - ipostcp (1 hour ago) [-]
You could eat it really quickly or not at all.

I mean to make it work you would have to eat the same meal every day for a long time. You would get sick of it.
User avatar #157448 to #157445 - makotoitou (1 hour ago) [-]
Assuming it's food and stuff that holds (toothpaste, water bottles, shampoo, ect) nothing can go wrong really.
#157427 - dehumanizer (6 hours ago) [-]
Friendly reminder that the beta uprising starts in less than 24 hours.

Time for normies to die.
User avatar #157443 to #157427 - sugoi (4 hours ago) [-]
I think the whole thing is kinda moot.
#157428 to #157427 - fistfireace (6 hours ago) [-]
>Beta uprising
>Time for normies to die
#157431 to #157428 - dehumanizer (6 hours ago) [-]
Its happening weather you want it or not.
#157432 to #157431 - fistfireace (6 hours ago) [-]
Will it at least be entertaining?
#157433 to #157432 - dehumanizer (6 hours ago) [-]
>implying you will live through it
#157434 to #157433 - fistfireace (6 hours ago) [-]
But I will live through it.
But I will live through it.
User avatar #157436 to #157435 - fistfireace (6 hours ago) [-]
That drawing is so horrible.
#157437 to #157436 - dehumanizer (6 hours ago) [-]
for you
User avatar #157438 to #157437 - fistfireace (6 hours ago) [-]
The thing that really bothers me is why are they shooting tomato juice?
#157439 to #157438 - dehumanizer (6 hours ago) [-]
Its spaghetti.
User avatar #157446 to #157440 - ipostcp (3 hours ago) [-]
Fistfireace and dehumanizer. Can't you see? You two are a couple.
User avatar #157447 to #157446 - fistfireace (2 hours ago) [-]
No, but I wish to see your C heese P izza .
User avatar #157452 to #157447 - ipostcp (1 hour ago) [-]
Do you wish to see my p ee p ee
User avatar #157453 to #157452 - fistfireace (1 hour ago) [-]
I think that's reserved for dehumanizer. He's the one who needs someone.
User avatar #157422 - rokkai (8 hours ago) [-]
yo pussyhunters, need some advice for my face.
i like a girl whom i met like a week and a half ago. our habits are alike she loves to do what i like to do and vice/versa and the first time we talked privately she talked about what she went through in her previous relationship. (which happened in the second time i've seen her [the first time i've seen her was for like half an hour]) so i tihnk we're good but im not sure. and there will be a concert tonight and im driving her with my bike. last time we went to a concert was with her friends and this time we're going alone. and the area is near a beach so im thinking about asking her out on the beach at night.

whadya think?
User avatar #157442 to #157422 - Fgner (5 hours ago) [-]
I can't think of a better way. You are going to suffocate in her pussy.
User avatar #157449 to #157442 - rokkai (1 hour ago) [-]
do you really think so? i memorize songs for her i dont even really like. but honestly, i have a feeling that she doesn't think of me that way. im kinda nervous.
#157450 to #157449 - rokkai (1 hour ago) [-]
fuck this im nervous as fuck
fuck this im nervous as fuck
User avatar #157420 - badsamaritan (10 hours ago) [-]
So I've been getting bug bites on both feet and lower legs at an alarming rate since last week. I doubt I'm getting these from outside considering I always wear shoes. Can some one tell me how to spot signs of bed bugs. Most online sources are to generic (ie. Small spots of blood) considering I get nose bleeds in my sleep sometimes.
User avatar #157409 - ferrettamer (11 hours ago) [-]
I'm bored should I get drunk off of mouthwash
User avatar #157417 to #157409 - fistfireace (11 hours ago) [-]
Nah, gasoline would be better. Trust me, I'm an expert.
#157404 - homotastic (12 hours ago) [-]
Boy Scout Question:
If I'm 15 going on 16 and close to Life scout (just need 6 months job time) can I still make Eagle?
User avatar #157407 to #157404 - makotoitou (11 hours ago) [-]
where did the scout master touch you?
User avatar #157394 - thisistheguy (12 hours ago) [-]
Alright I came to the conclusion that I was a total faggot in the sense of talking to chicks up until this year in college, so understand where I'm coming from when I say this - I know it's less of a big deal in college but realistically what do you guys think the chances of a sophomore has with a senior within the span of a semester? There's this chick in one of the clubs I'm in and she seems pretty fucking awesome but I feel like I'm biting off more than I can handle being my first time and all with women.
#157402 to #157394 - homotastic (12 hours ago) [-]
Dude, go for it.
User avatar #157387 - thecondor (12 hours ago) [-]
can someone help me write a paper about people not taking enough time to "smell the roses" in a college setting
#157401 to #157387 - mr skeltal (12 hours ago) [-]
What do you need help with?
User avatar #157406 to #157401 - thecondor (12 hours ago) [-]
a strong thesis statement
User avatar #157408 to #157406 - makotoitou (11 hours ago) [-]
what are your reasons?
User avatar #157412 to #157408 - thecondor (11 hours ago) [-]
I don't know man I'm freaking out because its due tomorrow and thought I could bullshit it but i cant right now
User avatar #157413 to #157412 - makotoitou (11 hours ago) [-]
well why should we smell the roses?
User avatar #157414 to #157413 - thecondor (11 hours ago) [-]
kids get so caught up with their studies they start to stress out i witnessed a kid not even notice a girl saying hey to him
User avatar #157415 to #157414 - makotoitou (11 hours ago) [-]
Every student should spend just a few moments to just be.

Something like that?
User avatar #157416 to #157415 - thecondor (11 hours ago) [-]
i can work with that thank you
#157377 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
give me advice
User avatar #157384 to #157377 - imnotkickthecat ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
find something heavy and pick it up until you can pick up heaver stuff.
#157396 to #157384 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
dude im more lifted than admin. you dont question my heavy
User avatar #157392 to #157384 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
Appending to this:
Find something big and/ or heavy and walk around with it -- People will think you're busy.
User avatar #157378 to #157377 - sugoi (13 hours ago) [-]
Go away
#157397 to #157378 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
i dont know that team
User avatar #157398 to #157397 - sugoi (12 hours ago) [-]
I take that back.
Go to school.
#157400 to #157398 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
sorry i dont know back. as you can tell by my username. its a hard language
User avatar #157355 - cycloneclone (13 hours ago) [-]
Is there anyone who is an Eagle Scout willing to answer some questions of mine?
User avatar #157386 to #157355 - thisistheguy (12 hours ago) [-]
What do you need?
#157364 to #157355 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
i got kicked out of boyscouts for being a rebel
User avatar #157361 to #157355 - zomaru (13 hours ago) [-]
Sure, what's up?
User avatar #157354 - budgeting (13 hours ago) [-]
This ma seem like a stupid question, but how to i end my account?
I have another account i use now.
User avatar #157389 to #157354 - thisistheguy (12 hours ago) [-]
post porn
#157358 to #157354 - dronenortle (13 hours ago) [-]
This account is sealed with your blood, they will find you if you delete it.
User avatar #157359 to #157357 - budgeting (13 hours ago) [-]
But others have deleted their accounts in the past.
User avatar #157360 to #157359 - awesomerninjathing (13 hours ago) [-]
cant anymore
User avatar #157362 to #157360 - budgeting (13 hours ago) [-]
Well thats dumb.
User avatar #157379 to #157362 - sugoi (13 hours ago) [-]
Blame Admins poor budgeting.
User avatar #157382 to #157379 - budgeting (13 hours ago) [-]
Hah!
User avatar #157353 - oborawatabinost (14 hours ago) [-]
I've posted about this before here, but here's a more detailed, better synopsis that hopefully some of you guys can contribute to:

redd.it/2htuxz
User avatar #157390 to #157353 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
I do believe, last time you posted, I had replied to it.
Did you not see my reply?
User avatar #157393 to #157390 - oborawatabinost (12 hours ago) [-]
Yeah, I saw it. I figured I'd get a bigger audience on Reddit, and it's starting to get a little harder on me, now that I've started entertaining the idea of telling her.
#157365 to #157353 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
fuck off with your virus links
#157395 to #157391 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
its not uncommon. you reveal personal things. most people develop 1 of 2 emotions. they either grow to love their theripist while others grow to dispise them. for the simple reason you stated. you reveal personal info. stuff probably no one else knows about. and you probably feel safe with her. i dont recommend telling her because tbh shes a therapist and most likely she wont share you same "love" she probably thinks your ok though. and to further that if she did get in a relationship with her she would lose her liscence if anyone found out. if you cared about her and didnt just become infatuated with her you wouldnt want to put her in that position. my advice is let this go until shes no longer your therapist. otherwise you're an asshole
User avatar #157403 to #157395 - oborawatabinost (12 hours ago) [-]
Apparently this is a psychological phenomenon called "transference" (even though it doesn't feel like that, it just feels like I have a crush on a woman), and I really don't want to tell her, but I do want to be open with her. I don't know.
#157405 to #157403 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
whatever tell her. just as long as you not telling her to hear her say it back. cause honestly she wont. shes a therapist. but if you do tell her most likely she will refer you to another shrink for professional reasons. then you might be able to explore the relationship
User avatar #157419 to #157405 - oborawatabinost (10 hours ago) [-]
Oh, of course I don't expect anything back. Women don't want me, that's a universal rule that I've gotten used to. Then if a woman knows how fucked up I am like my therapist, then there's no fucking way. Believe me, I'm pretty level-headed about this.
#157421 to #157419 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (10 hours ago) [-]
yeah dont self depricate to me. doesnt make me feel sorry for you. makes me want to kill you for being a beta. thanks
User avatar #157352 - thecondor (14 hours ago) [-]
whats the best free antivirus software

User avatar #157388 to #157352 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
Malbytes Anti-Malware.

This, Avast, and Microsoft Security Essentials are good.
I'd recommend only one of the two (Avast or MSE) and Malbytes. Not all 3.
#157366 to #157352 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
avast. awesomeninjathing is dumber than a cactus in winter
User avatar #157356 to #157352 - awesomerninjathing (13 hours ago) [-]
microsoft security essentials
#157348 - mr skeltal (14 hours ago) [-]
Does exercise make your voice temporarily deeper?

I mean you get more testosterone flowing so why not?
#157381 to #157348 - andrakian ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
Not really.
#157367 to #157348 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
ive never heard of it. but puberty does. if you do practice talking lower tone you can eventually develop a more deeper tone. do you sound like alvin and the chimpmonks?
User avatar #157340 - hopeadope (15 hours ago) [-]
Need a bit of advice here.
So earlier today I choked on some cake and my boyfriend had to perform the Heimlich on me. I had already been choking a while before they found me, and I felt like I almost died.
Everything went black, I think I may have passed out. I literally thought I was dead but then I could breath just a tiny bit and eventually I could breathe normally.

Im grateful to still be here and all, but every time I think about it I just want to cry and be by myself. Has anyone else experienced anything like this and has some advice?

My stomach is bruised, every breath hurts, and I feel horrible. My boyfriend was afraid I had died so I'm trying not to worry him any more than he was. I want to talk to someone about it but I don't think anyone else would take it seriously since everyone has some choking story that wasn't that big of a deal.
User avatar #157385 to #157340 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
My sister once strangled me.
Started losing my vision -- Not enough oxygen to the brain -- I honestly don't remember anything after blacking out. I don't ever remember getting her off of her. I don't remember getting up. I don't remember breathing again.

You should go to the hospital/ see a doctor right away.
Especially if you're feeling that bad...
#157369 to #157340 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
choked on some cake

aka gagged on some dick. you hoe
User avatar #157345 to #157340 - UNIQUELOL (15 hours ago) [-]
I almost choked on a fucking ramen noodle at a chinese restaurant, but it wasn't that serious. I don't think my life was in danger, but I always order rice now.

Other than that, there are 2 times in my life I can recall where I almost died.

First time was when I was about 6, I was taking swimming lessons and almost drowned. The instructor was having us do an exercise where he would drop those little pool toys that look like a little rope with 2 weights on each end, at the bottom of the pool. Then, he would have us dive down and pick them back up. He was supervising each of the kids. including me, while we dropped down into the deep end to do it; but he was only supervising us individually. I got confident in being able to do it so I dropped down to do it again with his back turned towards me. I tried hopping back up but couldn't grab the edge. I remember kicking and trying to pick myself back up, but eventually I just saw black and felt myself stop fighting. Luckily my mom's hawkeye saw me drop so she rushed in and saved me. Pretty sure the instructor got his ass fired too.

My second near death experience is short and simple. I was at this extra curricular summer camp thing for art, and in the class I was in, there was this heavy duck on top of this long piece of cloth on top of this shelf, above this window. There were many extra curricular classes for this summer camp thing, and one had to do with bottle rockets. So these kids and their instructor were firing their rockets, and I was looking out of the window to watch them do it. My dumbass pulled down on the cloth and dropped the duck, it barely missed my head. I was pretty shocked when it had happened because, I thought to myself, "Wow, that would have killed me."

I did get the chills when these things happened. I think it shakes us up because we realize that dying could happen so easily, but in my opinion it's probably best to let go of it. It will only weigh you down.
User avatar #157346 to #157345 - hopeadope (14 hours ago) [-]
My roommates were there for the entire thing and everyone though I was dying. They all asked if I have a new zest for life, or what it was like when I went unconscious. Like everyone has some epic story of lights and angels. I just felt like i was being crushed against a wall. (My boyfriend giving me the heimlich). Then just felt so weak and realized I wasn't going to breathe anymore. I just accepted it and then I could breathe again
Right now everything just feels like a dream, nothing feels as fulfilling or fun, even though I'm grateful for it all. I just don't feel like I'm supposed to be here.
User avatar #157347 to #157346 - UNIQUELOL (14 hours ago) [-]
Sounds like it really shook you up. I remember that feeling of despair when I was drowning, but it didn't affect me as bad, in the long run.

You gotta stop letting it weigh you down, it happens.
User avatar #157351 to #157347 - hopeadope (14 hours ago) [-]
It did just happen today, so I may just need time.
Thanks, man.
User avatar #157368 to #157351 - UNIQUELOL (13 hours ago) [-]
Oh shit, forgot that it just happened today.

Yeah it will go away soon, and np.
#157333 - bigshanner (16 hours ago) [-]
Ok so i need help taking out contacts (just got these little fuckers) they are a soft outer ring and a hard center. My fucking eyes are killing me so much atm, that i swear i'm going to start crying blood...........or i just might get a spoon.
User avatar #157423 to #157333 - megasharkman (7 hours ago) [-]
They're easier to take out when moist. Pour saline into your eyes.
#157370 to #157333 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
push into your skull as far as possible

lelel im typing small cause your eyes are fucked up
#157328 - imtryingmybest (16 hours ago) [-]
i have blackheads on my nose and i think theyre big pores on my cheeks where my cheek bones are. i tried all the popular brans like olay, clearsol, neutragena, and their generic brands just in case. i cant seem to get rid of them and i dont even put a lot of product to clog the pores. i just use the face wash and clearsol cream. what else can i do?
#157371 to #157328 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
exfoliate
User avatar #157332 to #157328 - newvein ONLINE (16 hours ago) [-]
I think the best way to deal with blemishes is to
a) drink a shitton of water hydration is key
b) keep to a healthy diet (lessen unnessary sugar, oils, fats)
c) DO NOT touch your face. like ever. no faceplaming!
d) sweat. workout or sauna. or just hot towel your face. be sure to clean your face afterwards with cool water to close your pores.

don't go the chemical route for clean skin, bro
#157334 to #157332 - imtryingmybest (16 hours ago) [-]
i need some kind of face wash for the dirt,i get dirt when i used cleansing pads. i can switch to a plantbase one
User avatar #157335 to #157334 - newvein ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
definitely something with as few reactive chemicals as possible
#157336 to #157335 - imtryingmybest (15 hours ago) [-]
keeps everything clean, goes natural, still gets bad complextion. bad luck brian
User avatar #157337 to #157336 - newvein ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
lol. sunlight and positive outlook are just as critical!

get that vitamin D and be happy!
#157338 to #157337 - imtryingmybest (15 hours ago) [-]
oh thats why, i barely get any sun and water
#157339 to #157338 - newvein ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
Comment Picture
#157342 to #157339 - imtryingmybest (15 hours ago) [-]
ill do that ass
User avatar #157343 to #157342 - newvein ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
Commas are important
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#157344 to #157343 - imtryingmybest (15 hours ago) [-]
im not calling you an ass so no comma
User avatar #157350 to #157344 - newvein ONLINE (14 hours ago) [-]
lol
User avatar #157323 - derpityhurr (17 hours ago) [-]
why do i keep finding a value equal to half the answer in these acceleration word problems
User avatar #157424 to #157323 - megasharkman (7 hours ago) [-]
You're forgetting a 1/2 in one of the formulas.
#157329 to #157323 - ilikelizards (16 hours ago) [-]
example of a word prob you havin trouble with?
User avatar #157331 to #157329 - derpityhurr (16 hours ago) [-]
A football player initially at rest accelerates uniformly as she runs down the field, travelling 17m [E] in 3.8s. What is her final velocity?
i found 4.47m/s [e] but its half of the given answer of 8.9
also
A child on a tobaggan sits at rest on the top of a hill. If he travels 70m downhill in 5.3s while uniformly accelerating, whats his acceleration?
i found 2.49199m/s^2 but the answer is 5.0m/s^2
#157372 to #157331 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
d=t/s

distance = time divided by speed i think is the formula. or maybe you supposed to change the formula to find her speed the formula would be speed = distance over time or somet shit. idk. i dont even know if thats the right formula. i dont give a fuck. im horny. do you have a hot sister?
#157319 - andrakian ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
Ok niggas, story time. Posting as user because fuck that.

Around one year and a half ago, I started dating this friend of mine. It went really great on the first six or so months. Our lives were falling apart at the time (I had severe anxiety attacks almost daily and her parents were getting an ugly divorce) but we could always find comfort on each other. However, everything started going to shit.

Anyone who went through anxiety/depression knows how it can turn you into a downer asshole, and I wasn't different. She also had a lot of bitch moments. She seems to have this... fear of commitment, I guess. Any commitment. Even putting my arm around her shoulders instead of her waist made her unconfortable. It was not that much of a deal in the start, but as the months went by it got worse and worse. She also tried to "make me have fun" by taking me with her friends when they went out, but the night was always great for her friends and shit for us both, and it only made us argue more.

Our anger at each other started to pile up, we started going out less and less, and after she got a full-time job it became even harder. Still, we talked through messages almost daily. But we seemed to have lost that "couple thing", and talked only as friends about trivial stuff. She didn't seem to mind.
We still went out one in a while and things went pretty well when we did, but I noticed I had lost interest. You know that time when the girl stops in front of her bus and kind of waits you to pull her in for a kiss? I just didn't felt like kissing her anymore.

cont.
#157321 to #157319 - andrakian ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
Some... two weeks ago, I would say, she sent me some photos of her in a corset. Some days later, she askes if she could come to my house so we would just "I dunno, walk around the block, talk and kill some time". She couldn't come because her bus pass was out of charge (brazilian problems, complex stuff, don't ask).

I gradually stopped caring. I stopped messaging her some 4-5 days ago and she doesn't seems to mind too.

The problem is... I like her. I may even still love her. But I just can't stand that bullshit relationship she wanted to have anymore. At the same time, I came to see that a great share of the fault in tearing it apart was mine. I could try and put it back in place now that my anxiety is much better and I actually am a better person, or I could just give up.

So.. mighty oracle of FJ, what do? You people think she's trying to reach out back to me? Do I try again or just give up?
#157373 to #157321 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
it honestly doesnt matter what she wants. if you want her and she dont want you you make her want you. end of story. be alpha. you think relationships start with women making moves? either you make a move or move aside
#157380 to #157373 - andrakian ONLINE (13 hours ago) [-]
That's kinda the whole point. I like her but don't like the kind of relationship she wants, do I don't know if should move or not.
#157399 to #157380 - baitdoesnttalkback ONLINE (12 hours ago) [-]
you should force her to shut up. push your agenda until you sure either way
#157322 to #157321 - themilkisdead (17 hours ago) [-]
Try again, try again and don't give up. If you love this person and you truly want this relationship, you are going to have to speak with her about this relationship. Perhaps take her to a doctor, see if any health or mental problems could be causing this strain (unless you've done this, or she's already diagnosed with something, for which I apologize).    
   
Try starting small, sending nice messages in the morning and asking her how she is throughout the day, keep a calm and friendly manner if you can. Then maybe go to some place or play videogames, find new hobbies, try and make life more interesting and fun for the two of you. It's your call.   
   
I truly wish you the best of luck, and if you need anyone to speak to about anything, you can always message me.
Try again, try again and don't give up. If you love this person and you truly want this relationship, you are going to have to speak with her about this relationship. Perhaps take her to a doctor, see if any health or mental problems could be causing this strain (unless you've done this, or she's already diagnosed with something, for which I apologize).

Try starting small, sending nice messages in the morning and asking her how she is throughout the day, keep a calm and friendly manner if you can. Then maybe go to some place or play videogames, find new hobbies, try and make life more interesting and fun for the two of you. It's your call.

I truly wish you the best of luck, and if you need anyone to speak to about anything, you can always message me.
#157324 to #157322 - andrakian ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
Yeah... It my work I guess.   
A part of the problem is that I'm not a fun person. Even though I stopped being a whiny kid after I went through anxiety, I am still a bitter asshole that simply doesn't know how to make life "interesting".   
   
But oh well, that's up to me to improve. Thanks.
Yeah... It my work I guess.
A part of the problem is that I'm not a fun person. Even though I stopped being a whiny kid after I went through anxiety, I am still a bitter asshole that simply doesn't know how to make life "interesting".

But oh well, that's up to me to improve. Thanks.
#157325 to #157324 - themilkisdead (17 hours ago) [-]
You don't have to do it alone. Everybody is a fun person, just in their own way. I mean what interests you, books, videogames, movies?
You don't have to do it alone. Everybody is a fun person, just in their own way. I mean what interests you, books, videogames, movies?
#157326 to #157325 - andrakian ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
Long walks at the beach laughing at the people who don't have legs.


Nah, I get what you're saying. I can think of interesting stuff to do, but I just don't have the personality to go with it, you know? I'm just boring and whiny, and have been like that for so much time that it kinda... stuck, I guess. Like an stinctive response that is hard to hold back.
But let's keep the public emoing to a minimum, shall we? I sent you a friend request.
User avatar #157327 to #157326 - themilkisdead (17 hours ago) [-]
I know, I've accepted it and I understand.
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