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#7 - sequel [OP](01/11/2016) [+] (12 replies)
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Damn I was hoping people would be smart to check the DESCRIPTION.
Because I was legit asking a question.
#103 - sequel [OP](20 hours ago) [+] (50 replies)
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Guys what's the difference between bisexual and pansexual?

I mean I know bisexuals like dudes and chicks only and pansexuals can **** any human.

But where does a bisexual draw the line? I mean you got a feminine female, then a masculine female (tomboy I suppose), you got your reverse traps and cuntboys, and then you also got your trannies and other odd things. Where does a bi person draw the line? Are bisexuals only into mainly feminine females and masculine males? Do they not like it when you place sex with the opposite gender? Do bisexuals have a spectrum between straight, gay, and pan? Like some bisexuals can like women more right? or men more right? Then there must be bisexuals who like it when gender/sex mix up more than others, and the ones that do are more 'pansexual' than the others right? Or is it the moment you like tomboy chicks mean you're a light pansexual instead of a bisexual?

I mean pansexuals can't be into EVERYONE right? I mean there's such thing as being ugly.

Seriously man I keep getting corrected in the difference, and google doesn't help because I'm basically asking where's the borderline between bi and pan. I don't even go to tumblr except for porn.
User avatar #20 - theism ONLINE (01/11/2016) [-]
Reading the comments I had no idea how many FJ users were licensed psychiatrists.
#41 to #20 - anon (23 hours ago) [-]
Yep. +1.
I'm about 6 months away from my degree in psychology.
User avatar #257 to #41 - pokemonstheshiz (17 hours ago) [-]
psychology != psychiatry
You need an M.D. to be a psychiatrist
#410 to #257 - anon (10 hours ago) [-]
They do the same thing, psychiatrists can just prescribe medicine to fix you
#342 to #41 - anon (14 hours ago) [-]
Having a degree means **** all. I'm nearly done with my degree in Biology but it doesn't make me a biologist.
My job defines my title, or my post graduate studies.
I'm trying to be a genetic toxciologist, therefore I would be just that.
For now and after I do my degree, I'm still some dude with a degree in Biology, like you're just a dude with a degree in psychology. Means **** all.
User avatar #322 to #20 - platinumaltaria ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
*psychopaths.
User avatar #323 to #322 - theism ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
Licensed psychopaths?
User avatar #325 to #323 - platinumaltaria ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
Yeah, none of those freelancers, ******* noobs always leaving evidence.
User avatar #327 to #325 - theism ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
That's certainly some impressive credentials.
User avatar #24 to #20 - Einsty ONLINE (01/11/2016) [-]
I happen to be a licensed chiropractic with a degree in particle physics and I have written several memorandi on how to treat cranial lobus with pincther maximus extract, for which I undertook numerous expeditions into South America, namely the Congo delta and Toulouse.

I also have over 20 published articles in multiple renowed magazines cited all over the world.

I am fluent in mandarin, french, german, portugese and svahili and I am currently researching the language of ancient Sumerian empire. My primary source of information on the subject are preserved stone tablets, eyewitness accounts and data retriaval of solid state drives rescued from roayal tombs.
User avatar #25 to #24 - youngneil ONLINE (01/11/2016) [-]
Nerd.
User avatar #50 to #24 - mesocorny (22 hours ago) [-]
Ok, Laura.
#397 to #24 - vehnum (11 hours ago) [-]
**vehnum used "*roll picture*"**
**vehnum rolled image** is this the nerd version of the 300 confirmed kills meme?
User avatar #254 to #24 - saytwaa ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
so how about those annunaki
#95 to #20 - anon (20 hours ago) [-]
I can confirm this. I am a license.
In all seriousness, I'm in medical school and considering psychiatry
#49 to #20 - geeky ONLINE (22 hours ago) [-]
User avatar #39 to #20 - traceirving (23 hours ago) [-]
Licensed Psychiatrist, licensed Gun-Specialists, licensed Political advisor's... We have it all on funnyjunk.
User avatar #299 to #39 - dakkenly (16 hours ago) [-]
I am a licensed Licensologist, and most of these people don't really have their licenses. I should know, I studied Licensology in the Sumac
#355 to #299 - oosulley (14 hours ago) [-]
******* underrated comment right there
#78 - reinbowxdash ONLINE (21 hours ago) [-]
This offends me greatly.

My name is Firedash and I'm a tri-gender pyrofox.
#37 - anon (01/12/2016) [-]
I drew a dick on this picture.
it isn't funny, but, neither was the post.
#473 to #37 - anon (1 hour ago) [-]
Well, like the post, being right isn't always supposed to be funny. It's supposed to be right. Something tells me you flunked out of middle school.
User avatar #45 to #37 - sequel [OP](23 hours ago) [-]
Thanks anon.
User avatar #53 to #45 - alarubra ONLINE (22 hours ago) [-]
How often do you get randomly mentioned?
User avatar #83 to #53 - sequel [OP](21 hours ago) [-]
Like at least 5 times daily.
User avatar #273 to #53 - sgtmajjohnson (17 hours ago) [-]
Sequel Make it six.
#350 to #273 - rickardur (14 hours ago) [-]
Sequel ? Seven.
User avatar #363 to #350 - thegreentornado (13 hours ago) [-]
More Sequel (s). Eight.
#10 - anon (01/11/2016) [-]
Labeling one self as anything but male or female (unless you have a birth defect), simply means you think you're a special snowflake and that you deserve a lot of attention. You're still either male or female, nobody gives a rats ass about what you "identify" as, you're not special, you're not interesting. And that goes for morons who claim to be part whatever animal, mythological creature, or robot as well! You are not! Well, maybe part human part idiot, but that's it! Kids these days...
#434 to #10 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
You sound like a republican conservative. "I've got no experience in anything involving this, but I've heard something about it I don't like, so I can say with total confidence that this is how things are. If you don't agree with me you're clearly inferior!"

Congratulations, you're a ******* idiot.
User avatar #324 to #10 - platinumaltaria ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
Then by extension you aren't special either, right? which means your opinion on the subject is just as valid. GG
#388 to #324 - anon (12 hours ago) [-]
You don't have to be special to speak facts, but you do to not understand them. Congratulations on being special
User avatar #392 to #388 - platinumaltaria ONLINE (11 hours ago) [-]
Congratulations on being dropped on your head.
#36 to #10 - anon (01/12/2016) [-]
I think that might be a bit short sighted.
When people introduce themselves they often say something like "i'm a scientist/teacher/gamer/reader/addict". That doesn't mean they are looking for attention, it's about sharing something with yourself that you can talk about or to look for others that you have that in common with. It can also mean you feel the need to share some quirk about you that is out of the norm, something that people have to take into account when interacting with you (IE i sometimes introduce myself as having aspergers, because people expecting weird interactions will be better at handling them.)

Introducing yourself as male even though you have boobs can be explained as trying to share that you act in a manner that is seen traditionally as female. IE less agressive/competive and more caring.
There is a lot of recorded examples that are exactly this. I've forgotten the exact name, but indians (native americans) had a name for men who weren't just gay in the sense that they liked men, but also had feminine traits and were not as much into hunting/war/whatever.

Now, i do think 99 of the 100 people you see saying this stuff is in it for the attention or because of rebellion or whatever ******** reason, but i also firmly believe that that 1 in a 100 or 1 in a 1000, whatever the numbers is in fact "legit" the other gender.
#222 to #36 - dislikinator (18 hours ago) [-]
you're right.
A hormonal birth defect can give you too much estrogen and too little testosterone as a man, or the opposite as a woman, but not enough to physically change you, but because this has been going on since the moment you started producing hormones in the womb, your brain has grown to be more similar to 'the brain of the opposite sex'. This is scientifically proven. The funny thing is that this proves that, even though men and women are equal, they're NOT the same. I know we on FJ all know this, but the irony is in those SJW feminists who claim that females are exactly as good in everything as males, also usually support transgenderism (but not transgenders themselves. A friend of mine is transgender. She explained this double hypocricy)

Something that isn't scientifically proven, but not too far fetched once transgenderism is scientifically proven, is genderfluidity. These are people who sometimes have severe gender dysphoria (panic attacks because you're 'trapped in the wrong body'. Imagine 'existential claustrophobia' for gender), but other times are completely fine with their body and even like the sex they're born with. I think they were born with a brain basically on the border of 'male brain' and 'female brain' and that the monthly cycle of estrogen and testosterone and the at that time most abundant hormone determines the gender.

Anyone who can change their gender on will is cisgender, lying and crying for attention since you simply can't control your hormone levels so fast as a human being. That person isn't trans either since, if he knew the horrors of gender dysphoria, he wouldn't act as if he could change gender.

but then again: while there are 'women hormones' and 'men hormones', there are no dragon hormones or fox hormones. Anyone who identifies as something not-human and is serious about it has a whole different problem that is not related to gender.

So that's my stance on it:
The sex are 'Man, woman, and the occasional chromosomal oddity'
The genders are 'Man, woman'
The relations between them are 'Cis, trans, fluid'
Everything else either is a lie for attention or something that has nothing to do with gender identity.
User avatar #250 to #222 - SuperWeapons (18 hours ago) [-]
See, the problem with this is that no one knows what terms like that mean, and in turn makes them useless and annoying to the people who are talking with those people.
#258 to #250 - dislikinator (17 hours ago) [-]
You mean that I wasn't clear with my terms, or that tumblrettes aren't clear with the terms?

If it was me, here is some extra vocabulary:
biological gender = the gender corresponding with the genitals you're born with. Often shortened to 'sex'
gender identity = the gender that the brain perceives itself to be despite the reproductive organs. Often shortened to 'gender' in contrast to 'sex'
cis(gender) = someone who has the same gender as sex
trans(gender) = someone who has the opposite gender to sex
(gender)fluid = someone who fluctuates between being cisgender or transgender.
existentialism = the act of existing
claustrophobia = fear of being (trapped) in small spaces, and getting panic attacks when you are trapped in such.
User avatar #391 to #258 - godisbert ONLINE (11 hours ago) [-]
You know, this is a very good comment.
#439 to #250 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
No, the problem is that this is not considered 'normal', and the human social exclusivity factor thus drives people to view anything not normal that they do not personally ascribe to as inferior, twisted, and worthy of contempt.

Case in point, the original post in this... ah. Thread? Tower? Not sure what you call it on FJ. Here we have an example of someone who could be enlightened or simply leave it at "That's not for me and I don't understand it, but as long as you don't try to **** me over with it I don't care." he's decided that everyone 'different' is just an attention-seeking moron who is more or less human scum and probably doesn't deserve to live.

Rather than overcoming this with logical consideration and rational thought, his process stops at 'this different, me no like, me hate', and unfortunately it's distressingly common.
#17 to #10 - therealjojomaster ONLINE (01/11/2016) [-]
What the **** dude, you don't know what they're feeling and neither do I, so basically you're just getting all pissy about other people's lives. Even if it is some kind of brain defect, I don't give a flying **** unless their decisions will mess up my life.
#46 to #17 - teddybrosevelt (22 hours ago) [-]
I don't see why you're catching reds for this, couldn't agree more. Whoever really gives a **** about this protesting this **** and publicizing it more is just wasting time.
User avatar #4 - kothaex ONLINE (01/11/2016) [-]
sex is binary
they can have their gender identity **** though because it doesn't ******* affect me
#59 to #4 - guanyu ONLINE (21 hours ago) [-]
What about Klinefelter syndrome or chimeric hermaphroditism?
#236 to #59 - anon (18 hours ago) [-]
An infertile genetic dead end of no particular significance. The closest we have to a third gender is when something goes horribly wrong at trying to be one or the other, and no one actually wants to have that, not even the most tumblr of people.
User avatar #1 - Sethorein (01/11/2016) [-]
You're describing sex, not gender. Gender IS a spectrum seeing as men can be feminine as **** and women can be rather butch.

Gender is a spectrum between male and female though, Pyro foxes don't exist.
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#474 to #1 - anon (1 hour ago) [-]
You do realize it wasn't until 2004 that "Gender" and "Sex" meant two different things, right?
User avatar #117 to #1 - youregaylol (20 hours ago) [-]
no
#284 to #1 - anon (17 hours ago) [-]
it's called their PERSONALITY
User avatar #338 to #1 - shadowkingdr (14 hours ago) [-]
nah man, that terminology for gender was created by these ******* in to give themselves backing, before this gender was a polite way of saying sex
#442 to #338 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
Transgendered people and such have existed long before you were born, long before most of your ancestors were born. But it was even MORE ignored and spurned back then, and even less was understood about the issues surrounding gender situations by both specialists and the people suffering from the particular issue.

Anyone who was transgendered was just thrown under the label 'gay' and told being gay is wrong and they should die for it.

Now that (many of us) are more intelligent, we better understand these issues and continue to make progress in mastering the studies. Sadly it is hard to tell them apart from the horrible SJWs running around being ******* retards, but do not attack and demean people who are having a harder time at life than you are as if you were somehow superior and worthy of looking down on someone. I'm sure there's quite a bit about you people wouldn't like, either.
#470 to #442 - shadowkingdr (6 hours ago) [-]
why are you talking to me? all im saying is that gender used to be synonymous with sex and now its been hijacked, nothing to do whether or not they exist
#475 to #470 - anon (1 hour ago) [-]
Hey one punch, if you're wondering, it was hijacked in 2004. So this whole "gender is what you feel!" is a younger concept than anyone on this thread.
User avatar #476 to #475 - shadowkingdr (1 hour ago) [-]
not that im against you or anything but how the **** do you know it happend in 2004?
#263 to #1 - ragged ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
I understood the reference.
User avatar #348 to #1 - ImmortalBaconEater (14 hours ago) [-]
Except you don't have to be masculine to identify as male you ******* .
User avatar #373 to #1 - durkadurka (12 hours ago) [-]
You can be more masculine or less masculine as either a male or female, but you're still one or the other.
#133 to #1 - zaphodcoolfrood (20 hours ago) [-]
Well I mean there also intersex people. And they are a considerable apart of the world population.
User avatar #63 to #1 - captainprincess (21 hours ago) [-]
A feminine man is not a woman, hes a man
his gender remains male

no spectrum involved
User avatar #223 to #63 - ninjaroo (18 hours ago) [-]
Whatever your personal views on whether or not it makes sense, is justified, or is even a thing, it is useful to think of sex and gender as distinct things. In psychiatry, psychology, sociology and even just interpersonal relationships, having the extra category gives you an extra data point to work off.

This doesn't mean that some people don't use it in retarded ways. It just means that you're wrong for refusing to even entertain the possibility that it could be a thing.
User avatar #225 to #223 - captainprincess (18 hours ago) [-]
I guess
but seeing as I am not a professional in those fields I cannot see it as having any use to me

So I don't see the point in entertaining the idea when I see no use that I could gleam from it, and outside of that I see nothing to tell me it should be thought of that way

Only that people want to
And if they want to use a term in a way I see as wrong, that's on them
They can do that

"You're allowed to be wrong if you want to"
User avatar #226 to #225 - ninjaroo (18 hours ago) [-]
So you acknowledge that it could be a thing in certain fields, but you simply have no reason to care about it?
User avatar #228 to #226 - captainprincess (18 hours ago) [-]
I acknowledge that if people have reason to consider it a thing
then that's on them
User avatar #229 to #228 - ninjaroo (18 hours ago) [-]
I don't understand.

The reasons that I have suggested don't come from inside the person accepting them. From a utilitarian perspective, it's inarguably a good thing to have sex and gender be different things. Everyone has reason to accept that, especially people who work in the previously mentioned fields.

It doesn't even make sense to say it's "on them" to have a reason to believe something. Such a reason would have to be given or found. If it's generated internally with no bearing on the real world, it's both a **** reason and not utilitarian, which is the reason I'm suggesting.
User avatar #231 to #229 - captainprincess (18 hours ago) [-]
Ive as yet not been given a good reason to see it that way
The only argument I have so far been presented with, excluding your separate data point (which, not being a professional in the relevant fields means next to nothing to me) is that it would make the gibberish surrounding the "extra genders" beyond male and female make more sense

But Im not invested in making those things make more sense
User avatar #235 to #231 - ninjaroo (18 hours ago) [-]
I wasn't talking about you, but you've acknowledge the point I wanted you to acknowledge. That point being that it is useful in certain fields.

How then, can you deny it's a thing? There are many things that have literally no bearing on how you act, but would be stupid to deny. The world being round -ish , for example.

The fact that you're not invested in understanding it has no bearing on whether or not it's true. I don't understand quantum superposition, and have no intention to learn about it, but that doesn't mean that I deny it's true simply because it doesn't make sense to me.

Besides which, I find it odd how you say you're not invested in understanding it, but I've seen you comment in these discussions like half a dozen times by now. Like, why involve yourself in discussions when you're not going to make the effort to inform yourself about the topic? That's sorta #Rood to everyone involved.
User avatar #238 to #235 - captainprincess (18 hours ago) [-]
I can deny its a thing because I do not see those people with their reasons to see it as a thing as being an authority on the thing, or on anything outside of their field

What I mean is that
their decisions are, as yet, not relevant to me and my life
They havent yet had any reason to dictate my view on the world
So whatever use they have for it, is irrelevant to me, and so I see no reason to change how I see things to suit their uses

As for why I talk about something Im not invested in:
That's easy

I felt like it
User avatar #246 to #238 - ninjaroo (18 hours ago) [-]
I genuinely don't understand how you can acknowledge that it is a useful and true thing in some situations but not accept that it is a useful and true thing.

This is like saying a doctor isn't an authority on how your body works so you don't accept that you have an immune system. Or that a physicist isn't an authority on how the universe works so you don't accept the idea that stars aren't on fire. Or any other such retarded thing.
User avatar #253 to #246 - captainprincess (17 hours ago) [-]
I never said it was true
I said they see it as useful
THATS what I recognize

This does not make it true

I have to be convinced of it's truth and if the only reason to have believed stars are on fire is so that it makes more sense when some lunatic talks about his star-blisters I wouldnt have believed it

But noone has given any actual good reason for why gender and sex are any different, and of those who try, their only explanation for what gender suddenly means is "Your self identity"

Ok
My "gender" is a sentient latex buttplug
And you need to believe it because gender is a thing
User avatar #260 to #253 - ninjaroo (17 hours ago) [-]
It's unambiguously useful. Whether or not it is a correct usage of the word depends entirely on whether or not it is used that way in the language. Which it is, to the point that it's now recognized as such in dictionaries.

Gender is the state of being male, female or some variation thereof with respect to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones.
User avatar #287 to #260 - captainprincess (16 hours ago) [-]
You keep saying it's useful
And nothing else

Not, for instance, any way in which it is useful, only that it is
Ok

Now you say it's unambiguoously useful

uh huh
how

Gender is Sex
User avatar #292 to #287 - ninjaroo (16 hours ago) [-]
For sociology? Gives an extra variable we can use to track statistics in a population. Are people who experience a difference in their gender and sex more likely to suffer from certain ailments, or commit crimes, or suffer prejudice? You can't track that without distinguishing between the two, and you can't combat it without tracking it.

Psychology/Psychiatry? Aforementioned knowledge of whether they're more likely to suffer from certain ailments extends to those of the mind, too. Sure, you might say that gender dysphoria is a disease in and of itself, to which I would respond that that kind of thinking is at least just as bad. In any case, it's easier to treat someone when you're not ignoring aspects of their personality. How does this affect you? Well, it'd be better for you if there were less psychotic people wandering around, surely. An extreme example, but not the only one.

Interpersonal relationships? People are less likely to think you're a prick if you're not baselessly outright rejecting things they say about themselves. By all means, call them out if they're being attention whores, but not everyone is. Not even most people are.

Let me turn it back around on you, now. Why is gender the same as sex? Despite the fact that the English language can only be improved by adding meaning to words that were previously synonymous, despite the fact that it is a thing that people all over the place are experiencing, despite the fact that it's useful in various situations, and despite the fact that the dictionary no longer supports your definition, you say they are the same thing. Why?
User avatar #294 to #292 - captainprincess (16 hours ago) [-]
Sociology:
Im not convinced of that
Not that I hold the highest regard for sociology in general but that in particular sounds like bunk to me. You have at it but Im not buying that. Especially when you frame it as the only variable by which these things can be studied, which I understand was not your intent but your focus on somehow proving this focus to be of critical importance has given you that air.

Psychology:
See above, though I have a little more faith in the field but again, this sounds like some gum-flapping. I do not buy that these things are personality aspects in the first place, specifically because I am as yet convinced that every instance of such claims is a bid for attention by vapid and delusional individuals who want to stand apart from the crowd as they are incapable of handling the idea that they are insignificant or not special.

Relationships:
Cry me a river

The reason i still thing Gender = Sex is the same reason I don't pray to a god
I've no reason to. I have yet to be convinced that it is necessary or there is any good reason to do so. I also don't believe in a spectral pink teapot that floats around in space and will determine the future of the universe based on the fashion choices of a lesbian from newyork city. What reason have I to buy into it, when the only argument for it so far as been "But you gotta!"

Youve given me some reasons yes
And they havent been very good ones, so I am not won over
Failing that I am left at square 1, people want me to believe in this thing because...
because they want me to? because it makes them feel better? because it gives them more to whine about when their super secret space gender in their head is somehow slighted?

Under more ordinary circumstances I wouldnt be so opposed, but the last several months have given me pause for thought on why I should simply accept this and that because why not. Well there is a 'why not', and it is that this **** is being used to drive peoples lives to ruin over invented slights and hurt feelings. Institutions of education being turned into stepford culdesacs of feefees and comfort, professionals stripped from their jobs and humour being stamped out.

Ofcourse this isn't everyone but these occurences have given me a reason to stop and seriously consider if I want to accept something, simply because why not?

That's my why not, and that means something which might have previously slid past on "yeah sure I cant see any problem with that I guess" now has to prove its worth being accepted, that there's a good reason to take it in.
User avatar #300 to #294 - ninjaroo (16 hours ago) [-]
Sociology:
Then you're wrong.

Psychology:
Then you're wrong.

Relationships:
Fair enough. You're not obligated to give a **** .

Everything else:
That's ludicrous. Besides the erroneous comparisons between the actual behavior of human beings and the hypothetical possibilities of a deity, you've ignored every reason presented to you for no discernible reason.

Here's the cool thing however: Language isn't determined by the individual. Whether or not you choose to recognize it, for all the reasons I've presented and more, gender is not the same as sex. You ignoring that makes you factually incorrect. The language has evolved, like it or not.
User avatar #302 to #300 - captainprincess (16 hours ago) [-]
You say so
But I dont care that you say so

So we're at an impasse there

I mean I can do it too
look

Everything else:
Youre wrong tho
User avatar #304 to #302 - ninjaroo (16 hours ago) [-]
Your failure is in having not presented a single reason as to why anything I have said is wrong, or why it's not enough, besides your feelings.
#354 to #304 - mrsauce (14 hours ago) [-]
I can't reply to your comment c'mon Addy make threads bigger
But at what point would one draw the line between "arbitrary preference" and "gender"? That line and those categories are entirely subjective. I for one don't see reasons for a feminine or masculine trait. It would be like asking a tomboy why she's a tomboy. The aspects of her personality that make her a tomboy have been subjectively defined as masculine and then objectively accepted by society as masculine. For that matter, what line is there between any of the identities that people give themselves? The problem I find is that the differences are just too minor to be noteworthy, which is why it's only been male and female (and both) up until this last few years to decade. At least that has been the general assumption.
I spent so long typing that paragraph that I forgot what I was going to say next. Oh right, identity. The word is self-explanatory to my point. Many of those who make these identities for themselves are at the age in which they are trying to find who they are (teenagers to young adults; Identity VS Role Confusion) which may be a factor in the creation of these terms. Nobody wants to be undefined, and everyone wants something or some term to use that captures their specific situation, or their specific self. Psychologically speaking, it creates a sense of security and well, identity! But as you pointed out, these examples may not represent the correct way to use what you are describing, and while I agree, it should be considered as an important sociological factor among the aforementioned age group (teenagers to young adults).
I guess to sum up my points, I don't feel that these masculine/feminine tendencies are any more than personality traits. There are of course, major exceptions that push people to get sex changes, but in the end those are still either male or female. There will always be exceptions. The more specific term creation is, in my opinion, currently attempts to define oneself, which is typical human behavior. It's not abnormal at all because people have done it in different ways for a while now. Probably going to head off after this. It's always fun having an intelligent discussion once and a while.
#336 to #304 - mrsauce (14 hours ago) [-]
How does it feel talking to a brick wall? Apathy = Bias.
Not to say I disagree with him on the Gender = Sex thing, however. If one is a man with feminine traits, then one is still a man. There should be no special label for non-masculine traits because everyone is going to have character traits that are one or the other, regardless of gender. I typically keep my fingernails longer than normal, which is an arguably feminine trait. Does that need a label? Absolutely not. Having masculine-oriented personality traits as a woman does not make someone anything other than a woman with masculine traits / oriented personality.
As for the psychology / sociology reason, of course it's useful. Studying these traits can be very useful in diagnosing disorders, and the thought processes of individual people. However, I don't believe these differences should be categorized and treated as anything more than minor divergences from the norm, unique from person to person.
It would be stupid to assume that there's one reason for why so many people create these identities for themselves, so I'm not going to do that. However, I personally feel that some people create such labels in an attempt to explain their behaviors in a way similar to how a teenager would self-diagnose themselves with disorders because they see symptoms of said disorder in themselves. From a personal perspective in this case, it may just be the need for an explanation.
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User avatar #345 to #336 - ninjaroo (14 hours ago) [-]
Lol I totally ****** that up. I meant to say they get distracted easily, not want things to be straight. Got my OCD and ADD mixed up.
User avatar #340 to #336 - ninjaroo (14 hours ago) [-]
Arguing is like crack to me, so on one level it was fun. On another it was ******* awful.
In my mind, that's a categorically different thing to the gender/sex thing. Gender is inherently about feelings, which is why it's really only useful in the fields where mentality is a factor. The distinction I would make about the nails is the reason. If you had long nails because of arbitrary preference, it's unrelated to gender. If you chose to keep your nails longer than usual because you are feminine, it'd be related to gender. But I agree that it in itself doesn't need a label - The gender thing is related to identity, and your identity isn't determined by a single factor. It's the sum of your parts.
They would need a label in any study or conversation, saying "The way a person feels about their sex" is both tedious and carries none of the subtext that "gender" would. For the same reason, we say "quarks" instead of "pieces of a proton"
Some people definitely do that, but it doesn't change the reality of the matter. To use an example I feel we'll agree on, the fact that some people say they have ADD or ADHD when they want things to be neat doesn't detract from whether or not those are real things. Further, I see no problem with having labels, should they be correctly applied. People seem to take issue with being labelled, I think it's a good thing provided everyone involved is smart enough to know that a label doesn't describe a persons identity in totality and the label is accurate.
Walls have arrived.
User avatar #307 to #304 - captainprincess (16 hours ago) [-]
So be concerned
User avatar #305 to #304 - captainprincess (16 hours ago) [-]
That you think so is your problem
#407 to #305 - anon (10 hours ago) [-]
#448 to #305 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
So, the world doesn't fit into your narrow view anymore and you're upset because of that fact. What a joke.
User avatar #306 to #305 - ninjaroo (16 hours ago) [-]
That you think I'm wrong is concerning.
#444 to #231 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
So literally your argument is, "I don't agree with it so it's not real." I think you're an extreme rarity. A trans-denying homosexual.

That's like a unicorn!
User avatar #446 to #444 - captainprincess (9 hours ago) [-]
Actually my argument is "Im not convinced by your weak ass argument to believe in this nonsense"
User avatar #64 to #63 - Sethorein (21 hours ago) [-]
What is the difference between sex and gender to you?
User avatar #65 to #64 - captainprincess (21 hours ago) [-]
the same as the difference between Femur and Thigh Bone
User avatar #140 to #65 - Sethorein (20 hours ago) [-]
answer my question straight. Are you saying there is no difference?
User avatar #142 to #140 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
That was a straight answer

Im saying I would have to be a medical professional to know that
As far as I can tell there is only the word used

Is there a difference between a femur and a thigh bone?
User avatar #144 to #142 - Sethorein (20 hours ago) [-]
Your thigh bone is your femur. Are you saying sex and gender are the same?
User avatar #146 to #144 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
well one is also a verb

unless you know how to gender someone
or have hot steamy gender
User avatar #150 to #146 - Sethorein (20 hours ago) [-]
But according to you they are two unique words describing the same thing, albeit one having alternative definitions that are irrelevant..
User avatar #151 to #150 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
I dont know if the verb-half of sex is irrelevant
User avatar #154 to #151 - Sethorein (20 hours ago) [-]
You're literally arguing semantics for a definition of sex that isn't being questioned here.

Sex (noun) - your biological sex.
Gender (noun) - the sex you identify as independent of your biological sex.

Now from what I have been trying to understand, you seem to be saying my second definition is incorrect. Can you please answer me straight rather than dancing around irrelevant semantic arguments relating to the words rather than the things the words describe?
User avatar #155 to #154 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
actually Im dancing around the issue because it amuses me to deliberately avoid being straightforward and direct when someone tells you to be straightforward and direct
User avatar #156 to #155 - Sethorein (20 hours ago) [-]
You weren't being straightforward or direct before I asked you to be straightforward and direct either. What was the excuse then?
User avatar #157 to #156 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
The excuse was that even my initial indirect response is obvious enough
clarification is wholly unnecessary

so you needing clarification is silly and it amuses me to refuse you
User avatar #160 to #157 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
Are you intending to clarify at all or should I just move on with my life?
User avatar #161 to #160 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
Fine fine
I'll do it just for you bby

Sex = Gender
Gender = Sex

Except when sex is a verb
User avatar #162 to #161 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
and trans folks?
User avatar #166 to #162 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
They make the issue more complicated, but only with respect to themselves
Their complication does not affect others
User avatar #169 to #166 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
but they literally embody the asynchrony of sex and gender. Because of their exposure/lack of exposure to the appropriate levels of perinatal testosterone their brains did not masculanize/feminize properly.

Now perinatal testosterone is not an on/off switch. The reason why gender is considered a spectrum is because that perinatal surge can to varying degrees masculanize or feminize your brain, making you more likely to feel comfortable taking on the natural roles of one sex over the other. You don't HAVE to be trans to be a very effeminate man, you don't have to be trans to be a very butch woman. Does that make sense?
User avatar #202 to #169 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
And mine is that they are one and the same, regardless of a person's brain chemistry or mental issues

Your 'self identity' is just that
your self identity

label, even, if you like
signifier maybe, if you want to be flowery

title, perhaps
alter-ego

whatever you like

Hell Im not even strongly opposed to the mis-use of the term gender
I will simply continue to believe that this is a mis-use of the term and leave it at that
User avatar #214 to #202 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
why have two unique words mean the same thing? In what context is gender a better word than sex?
User avatar #173 to #169 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
No they embody a mental problem which has been given a physical solution
They do not exist as a seperate "gender" or anything of the sort, they are simply mis-aligned on the binary, and most societies have opted to allow one direction of alignment over the other
User avatar #177 to #173 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
Yes, they have a mental problem. Their brains received an inappropriate level of perinatal testosterone.

Essentially, just as men are born a HUGE influx of testosterone is released that masculanizes their brains. Imagine if this boost didn't happen? You said it yourself, we exist on a binary, if they weren't masculanized, by default they would be feminized. These are trans folks who transition from male to female. Now what if the surge happened, but only half as much testosterone as was necessary to masculanize the brain was present. Well, the brain would theoretically partially masculanize. This would result in a more feminine male.

The reverse is true for females. Does this make sense?
User avatar #218 to #169 - captainprincess (18 hours ago) [-]
I dont know Im not a linguist
User avatar #219 to #218 - Sethorein (18 hours ago) [-]
Welp, guess that's all folks.
User avatar #193 to #169 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
I said it makes sense
i.e I can see that it would happen
Brain chemistry is funny like that

However brain chemistry has no effect on what something means
It does not alter concepts, it alters people
And then those people alter themselves in an attempt to reach some kind of stability or personal equilibrium

And all of this takes place without impacting the meaning of a term and the concept it represents
User avatar #198 to #193 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
My argument is just that gender is not sex. Sex is the concrete thing, gender is the self identifier. What word would you use instead of gender to describe the self-identifiers we assign ourselves?
User avatar #189 to #169 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
I have made absolutely no assertion that sex and gender are separate
No agreement has been reached, not even the semblance of such
User avatar #191 to #189 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
yet you're agreeing with the logic behind the masculinization and feminization of the brain at birth altering how people identify?
User avatar #186 to #169 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
A disagreement isn't necessarily a problem
It's only a problem if you cannot handle differing views
User avatar #188 to #186 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
Allow me to clarify: what is your issue with my conclusion? You seemed to be agreeing with me. Sex is a concrete biologically determined thing while gender is label you give yourself based on the masculanization/feminization of your brain and how it influences your development.
User avatar #184 to #183 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
what's the problem?
User avatar #179 to #169 - captainprincess (19 hours ago) [-]
It makes sense but it doesnt suddenly liquify the concept of sex

It does not make a man a woman or vice versa
Nor does it allow for this to become the case

It explains only the reasons why someone would want to alter their body to emulate something they aren't
User avatar #182 to #179 - Sethorein (19 hours ago) [-]
Right, sex and gender are two different things.

^_^ Sex is what you are chromosomally, and gender is what you identify as.
#452 to #156 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
His excuse is he's a ******* troll with tolerance issues and demands that reality bow to his extremely narrow viewpoint. The sad part is that he's gay and still spitting on transgender issues.
#75 to #63 - lmrml (21 hours ago) [-]
I think he means there's a Masculinity Spectrum for men and a Feminine Spectrum for Females.

Further left we go on the masculine spectrum, the more "manly" the male is
Further right we go for the Feminine Spectrum, the more many the female is
or maybe I'm talking out of my ass, in that case sorry seth
User avatar #76 to #75 - captainprincess (21 hours ago) [-]
Ok
I can roll with thyat
But that's not gender

A feminine man is still a man

If it's gay to **** a trap then then no matter how feminine the man is, hes still a man
#77 to #76 - lmrml (21 hours ago) [-]
lemme rephrase that and make it simple.

Scale for men can be more feminine or masculine.
Scale for women can be more feminine or masculine.
The gender remains the same but the gender may have the tendencies of it's opposite because of personality, choices, etc.
User avatar #80 to #77 - captainprincess (21 hours ago) [-]
ok
but the gender itself has not changed
I repeat

no matter how feminine a man is, he remains a man
#89 to #80 - lmrml (21 hours ago) [-]
I'm saying that I agree with you...
User avatar #92 to #89 - captainprincess (21 hours ago) [-]
aight

idk "lemme rephrase that" sounds confrontational
#100 to #92 - lmrml (20 hours ago) [-]
<---- Autismus Maximus
User avatar #102 to #100 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
oh yeah those pink lines are pretty autismussy
#104 to #102 - lmrml (20 hours ago) [-]
that's the second time I fail at an arrow without realizing it at first god ******* damnit
User avatar #105 to #104 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
I mean
What else were you aiming at
#106 to #105 - lmrml (20 hours ago) [-]
myself...
User avatar #107 to #106 - captainprincess (20 hours ago) [-]
harsh
#450 to #80 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
The SEX has not changed. The GENDER has changed. Even if you don't agree, it doesn't matter because that's just how it is. You arguing your denial is just trying to force your narrow, outmoded view point on others who are finally waking up just because you fear comprehension.

As a homosexual you should honestly understand what these people are going through. The denial, the hatred, the offense, the fear of rejection. Instead you're just adding to it. A naturally ignorant cis-gendered straight person being insensitive is practically expected - but you've HAD to have shared some of their hardships and you're still this much of a putz on the subject? That's sickening.
User avatar #451 to #450 - captainprincess (9 hours ago) [-]
They are the same thing so, no
#455 to #451 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
Categorically different. Just because you think something is one way doesn't mean it suddenly precludes the experiences and hardships of thousands of other people and automatically makes everyone around you wrong.

You demand others to prove to you they're not the same. Prove to me that they ARE the same. I want incontrovertible evidence, with personal annotations of first and second hand experiences on the subject that conclusively proves that all the specialists, the untold thousands of people suffering now and perhaps even millions since the dawn of civilization who have suffered or simply couldn't live with that suffering any longer - are in all ways wrong, and that only your view is correct.

If you demand it of others, I demand it of you. If you cannot, then chances are highly likely that this is just your inexperienced opinion and that you've spread it around enough that it's time for you to stop.
User avatar #456 to #455 - captainprincess (9 hours ago) [-]
I don't buy that so you saying so means nothing to me
#460 to #456 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
In other words you are not only ignorant, you choose to remain ignorant, because knowledge scares you.

Maybe spending some time in Uganda would give you a better idea of hardship and the necessity of solidarity.
User avatar #461 to #460 - captainprincess (9 hours ago) [-]
You say that
but you saying so means nothing to me
#5 to #1 - anon (01/11/2016) [-]
I'd have to agree with this guy. You hit the nail on the head for sex, but gender can be a little bit trickier.
However there is a bubble for what "gender" can be. You don't get to be animal kin or a piece of toast as a gender.
User avatar #21 - scootabot (01/11/2016) [-]
I believe that biological gender is unchangeable. It's what you were born as. You were born with either a penis or vagina, and in some very rare cases; both.

However, gender identity is something else entirely. You can be a man who wants to be a woman, so you would undergo the proper treatments and surgeries, until you resembled what you wanted on the outside. Only rarely do these people turn out EXACTLY how they wanted.

Those who have a penis, but want to be a woman, while dressing as a woman, is a transgender. They want to be treated like a woman and adopt the womanly roles even though they're a man.

Those who believe they are another gender in another body clearly have some sort of mental illness. However, not all mental illness is bad. It's something that can be fixed or sorted.

I would call a man a woman if he dressed like a woman, acted like a woman, and adopted the womanly roles. I'd even refer to him as 'she', and 'her'.

However, those people who just want to be treated like some special snowflake and have the pronouns 'xir' and 'xhe' is retarded. There are only two genders, with some people having both, but normally identify as a man or a woman.

There's just way too much focus on gender/race now a days, can't we just call people idiots because of what they say/do, not by what they look like?
#459 to #21 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
Scootabot understands. People need to listen to Scootabot and accept this viewpoint. The SJW special snowflakes should be shunned, but don't hate the people that they stole their issues from in order to feel special.

Everything we scorn or laugh at the SJWs for is based on real people with real issues, even if the SJWs take it WAY too goddamn far and make it retarded. There's no reason to hate actual transgenders - they're people just like you, just with more problems than you've got to deal with. The ones who manage to make it through each day without killing themselves should be praised, if anything. That takes a kind of strength most of us won't ever know, because we don't understand how horrific it is to wake up, look in the mirror, and expect - even for a moment - to see a different face than the one looking back at you. Every day.
User avatar #204 to #21 - lateday (19 hours ago) [-]
If you cannot describe the mental illness or even name it, I find it a bit daring to say it to be clearly caused by that. A psychological disorder, in almost all IF not all instances, requires a "severe disruption of social, personal or laboral areas of life". If this person has this sexual identity issues but manages to function, there might not be any disorder.
User avatar #244 to #204 - scootabot (18 hours ago) [-]
I also said that these mental illnesses or psychological disorders, of this nature, can generally be treated easily. Sure, he wants to be a woman. Okay, make him a woman. He was born a man, but he wants to take on the gender roles of a woman. That's fine. Let him. He'll be happy, and we'll tolerate it and be happy for him.

Those with mental illnesses that go beyond an identity crisis, generally cannot function in normal society without forcing said society to change into a mold around their identity.

For example, those sorts of people who are transgender, but also wants to be referred to as 'xir' or 'xhe', or any other ridiculous pronouns, have a far more severe mental illness than those who are confused about their sexuality or identity.

I know you're probably angry with me by referring to transexuals or transgender people as having a mental illness, but having paranoia is also a mental illness. Depression is a mental illness. Being shy would be considered a mental illness.

It's not bad to have mental illnesses, as it just means that your social interaction is impacted. Everyone has one. Having an identity crisis is also a mental illness.

However, if that person figures himself / herself out and eventually leads on to having a healthy life doing whatever they decided to do, that mental illness wouldn't mean a thing.
User avatar #248 to #244 - lateday (18 hours ago) [-]
Look. I am a Psychology student, Senior as you would say in some places. It bothers me your misinterpretation of what mental illness is. The actual term is psychiatric (or psychological) disorder. All disorders (I think, don't know them all to the dot) need a clinically significant impairment to be considered disorders. If there is no impairment, there is no disorder. Some are disorders for the sake of legality, others for the sake of order and category, and others have an actual medical analogous (Alzheimer and the like).
User avatar #375 to #248 - durkadurka (12 hours ago) [-]
Wanting to hack your own genitals off is not a disorder?
Come on now.
#251 to #248 - scootabot (17 hours ago) [-]
I don't think it takes a psychology degree to understand this...
<--

Anyway, if your identity crisis influences your mood, thinking, or behavior ( which depression is always a common psychological condition within those with sexual identity crisises ), then it's considered a mental illness. At least by this definition.

I also took a psychology course, only a semester. It was just a little behavioral studying and a slight bit of how the brain works.
User avatar #259 to #251 - lateday (17 hours ago) [-]
You know how dictionaries now define "literally" as "figuratively" now? Same thing. Mental illness is just a layman term, just as how theory doesn't mean the same in different contexts. Not the point though...

"depression is always a common psychological condition within those with sexual identity crisises" (by the way the plural for crisis is crises, not trying to be a jerk, legitimately I want you to know for future occurences) This is a bit difficult to interpret, many might say the depression is a cause of the stigma some groups cough cough fj cough cough have against these people and not a direct causation of the desire to be another gender. not the point tho..

My point is, by itself, the incongruency between the desired gender and the natal sex is not a disorder. In the same manner alcohol is not a disorder, UNLESS they impair your life in a very big way.
User avatar #270 to #259 - scootabot (17 hours ago) [-]
Thanks, I actually had trouble with that word. I don't use it often, so I didn't know the plural. I almost said Crisi! That would have been worse, I think. Lol.

I think that we're both trying to say the same thing here, I'm not sure. I think that those who are happily living as another gender, or being homosexual, doesn't fall into a category of mental illness, or serious mental illness at least. I think that those who are suffering while trying to find themselves have a degree of mental illness.
User avatar #261 to #204 - twiceasfun ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
That's the key clarification and why gender dysphoria is an illness but being trans in itself is not, Which is a short summary of what it says in the dsm on the matter
User avatar #264 to #261 - lateday (17 hours ago) [-]
Gender dysphoria (as a phenomenon not a disorder proper) is most often than not an underlying cause of being a transvestite. How, according to you, the former is an illness but the latter is not, I do not know. I am not saying both are or not, I am just questioning your logic.
User avatar #275 to #264 - twiceasfun ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
Because gender dysphoria is essentially a state of depression over being trans, and it is not a requirement of being trans because a lot of people aren't dysphoric over it so therefore being trans is not inherently an illness, it's just rather common for it to cause one
#233 to #204 - dislikinator (18 hours ago) [-]
The name of the mental illness is 'gender dysphoria'
User avatar #247 to #233 - lateday (18 hours ago) [-]
My statement applies. As of DSM-5 (the legal compendium of psychological disorders by the American Psychiatric Association, 2013) there exists two Criteria for Gender Dysphoria in Adolescents and Adults. Criteria B specifically says: " The condition is associated with clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational or other important areas of functioning." This means, you can have incongruence between gender and sex, and not have a disorder.
#110 to #21 - plantain (20 hours ago) [-]
You sound like a cool guy. I'm glad not everyone on here gets so irrationally angry about stuff that doesn't affect them.
User avatar #237 - thirdjess (18 hours ago) [-]
The left side is correct for SEX, as you said in the description. However, transsexualism is often referred to as Gender Identity Disorder. Not Sex Identity Disorder.
#255 to #237 - anon (17 hours ago) [-]
Thirdjess quit trying to convince us you're not a man. You have 3 penises, and that's one more than addy has.

Also hey it's catburglarpenis. Too lazy to login on my phone. I won't be haunting this post so drop me a line sometime.
User avatar #265 to #255 - thirdjess (17 hours ago) [-]
You're a brave soul for even bothering to browse FJ on a mobile
#266 to #237 - Elk (17 hours ago) [-]
Shut up.
User avatar #269 to #266 - thirdjess (17 hours ago) [-]
Read your own definition, you ******* cervus
User avatar #272 to #269 - Elk (17 hours ago) [-]
I'm actually just playing about the retard thing, but seriously, shut up.
User avatar #274 to #272 - thirdjess (17 hours ago) [-]
We've had this argument before, and I won. I think it went something like 'ok but here's another definition' 'but synonym' 'here's another definition' 'but syynonyyyymm' 'here's another definition' 'SYNONYM'

The fact that it's a synonym to sex doesn't change the fact that the definitions of sex and gender directly oppose that fact. In fact, lets see how many more times I can say in fact.
User avatar #276 to #274 - Elk (17 hours ago) [-]
>but I won
>says synonyms don't mean they're the same
>BUT I WON
User avatar #278 to #276 - thirdjess (17 hours ago) [-]
if your position is sex and gender are the same because synonyms
My position is sex and gender are different because definitions
So if synonyms doesn't mean they're the same
I won

Also, google no longer provides sex as a synonym for gender. Just like their definition of rape is no longer 'a male penetrating a woman without consent'
User avatar #280 to #278 - Elk (17 hours ago) [-]
Synonym means the words can be used synonymously. That means that they have the same definitions. You lost.

Also, >>#266 was a fresh screenshot from Google. #StraightUpCaught
User avatar #283 to #280 - thirdjess (17 hours ago) [-]
No it wasn't, I'm looking at google right now.

The google definition of synonym is currently:
a word or phrase that means exactly or nearly the same as another word or phrase in the same language, for example shut is a synonym of close.
"‘the East’ was a synonym for the Soviet empire"

In this case, gender and sex mean nearly the same thing. But they don't mean exactly the same thing.
#285 to #283 - Elk (17 hours ago) [-]
In this case, they mean the same thing.

Sex: "either of the two main categories (male and female) into which humans and many other living things are divided on the basis of their reproductive functions."

Gender: "the state of being male or female (typically used with reference to social and cultural differences rather than biological ones)." Also, I'm going to point out again that it says they are typically used that way, but it does not actually say that it is the correct way.

Also, ???
#286 to #285 - thirdjess (16 hours ago) [-]
Ok, so, you're right, and the majority the entire population of the world is wrong?

If you google gender vs sex, there are many reliable resources explaining that they are different, and how they are different. Such as, an article from the medicine education wing of monash university.
User avatar #288 to #286 - Elk (16 hours ago) [-]
I just said that they can be used interchangeably. The only reason that anybody uses them differently now is to avoid the confusion, but they do still also mean the same thing.

I would like to make a correction on my part because I said "correct way", and I meant "original way". It kind of defeated my purpose, but my point stands.

It just irks me when people pitch hissy fits over something this stupid when they both have the same definitions.
User avatar #290 to #288 - thirdjess (16 hours ago) [-]
There are MANY MANY things that have evolved and changed over the years, with increased knowledge. When my mum learnt how to use a computer, the were warning all students that use of keyboards had risk of cancer.
#291 to #290 - Elk (16 hours ago) [-]
Doesn't really pertain to this situation, though, but it's fine. Anyway, you can have the last comment if you want. I know your ego needs it.
User avatar #293 to #291 - thirdjess (16 hours ago) [-]
Does your first name start with k?
User avatar #405 to #293 - Elk (11 hours ago) [-]
Are you being serious, or is that just a cutesie way if saying "k"?
User avatar #271 to #269 - Elk (17 hours ago) [-]
Define: typically
Define: synonym
Define: You are a retard
User avatar #239 to #237 - thirdjess (18 hours ago) [-]
My best buddy is actually FTM trans, presurgery. More than happy to answer any questions. As long as they're not extreme conservative hateful rhetoric like 'BUT DEY JUS INSANE, I HAS A PENIS AND I IS A MAN'.
#123 - supersixfourr (20 hours ago) [-]
Actually this is what I was taught in Sociology 101   
   
Sex: Biological identification based on the gentiles that we recieve at birth   
Gender: How we identify ourselves   
   
Dont believe me? That's your opinion and I respect it.    
   
 It wasnt until I read the description that I realized that OP meant for this to be Sex
Actually this is what I was taught in Sociology 101

Sex: Biological identification based on the gentiles that we recieve at birth
Gender: How we identify ourselves

Dont believe me? That's your opinion and I respect it.

It wasnt until I read the description that I realized that OP meant for this to be Sex
User avatar #187 to #123 - garymuthafuknoak ONLINE (19 hours ago) [-]
took sociology this year, learned the exact same thing. people are trans gendered, and I have nothing against that. But people are born with a sex. They chose their gender later in life.
#29 - anon (01/12/2016) [-]
Gender is literally none of the seven. None of them even come close to being acceptable inputs.
Sex is defined by body parts. Sex is defined by chromosomes.

Gender is a dynamic social construct of expectations related to an individual's specific sex.
Gender is, succinctly, "expectations people have of you strictly because of your sex regardless of your personality or what you identify as". That means you're expected to not wear bras if you're a male or piss while standing if you're a female.
If you're a woman and only 70% of the things you do are feminine rather than the expected 90-100%, all it says is you're a slightly masculine female, nothing more.

When generic forms ask for your "gender" rather than your "sex", it's because the forms are wrong.

"Relating to yourself" is also perhaps the stupidest most nonsensical string of words ever uttered, inherently not being able to mean anything or even imply anything whatsoever, resulting in the literal impossibility to even come remotely close to expressing any information at all.
User avatar #377 to #29 - durkadurka (12 hours ago) [-]
Gender is more than a social construct. If this were the case you could socialize a male into behaving like a female.
I'm not saying that there's nothing socially constructed about gender; you can see it in things like preferences for the color blue versus pink. But ultimately if you could strip away the impact of our society from people and let them develop on their own, you'd still see a familiar differentiation between the men and women.
Our minds are set up to fit in certain roles because it was simply beneficial from a reproductive standpoint.
#413 to #29 - anon (10 hours ago) [-]
Is Gender really a social construct?

Isn't Society a gender construct? Do you really think this whole system was set up, and then we decided "men work women clean. Boys like fighting girls like dolls"?
No, societies are a construct of what males and females felt they individually should do in the societies they created. That is why there are differences, but in the majority of them males are fighters and providers, and women are nurturers.

I'm not saying that therefor nothing should change and we shouldn't accept people who want to go against the norm, and I'm also not saying that our current society as a result cannot change people who do go against the norm. But I don't think that somehow society has created a chemical and psychological stance in everyones head. Masculine traits in males and Feminine traits in females can be observed from birth, they don't just decide to start acting the way they do when people tell them to.

Sure, when a girl spits and her mother tells her that its unladylike, she is making an affect on that girl. But most of the time, when a girl goes to the toy store, it is the child leading the parent to the toy aisle to buy a doll.

I don't buy that gender is a social construct because the biology wouldn't make sense. Maybe I'm wrong, but I haven't exactly read any studies that can show that it is.
User avatar #121 to #29 - youregaylol (20 hours ago) [-]
"Gender is a dynamic social construct"

nah
User avatar #32 to #29 - novus ONLINE (01/12/2016) [-]
Agreed. I know this site hates SJWs, but this content is exactly as stupid as a lot of the trash that gets posted in Tumblr
User avatar #122 to #32 - youregaylol (20 hours ago) [-]
nope
#339 - tanitakavirius (14 hours ago) [-]
"Gender is a spectrum"
So what? Why are people so opposed to what they don't know?
Have you never seen a very masculine man, a somewhat masculine man, a not very masculine man, an androgynous man, a slightly feminine man, a very feminine man?
"No it's not a spectrum!!!!1!1oneSJW1!tumblreleven It's binary and anything inbetween is made up!"
#361 to #339 - anon (13 hours ago) [-]
You can balance a light switch in the middle but it is still either off or on.

also using bowie sympathy to get thumbs is a dirty move
#365 to #361 - tanitakavirius (13 hours ago) [-]
I used Bowie, beyond the sympathy, as an example of an androgynous male.

Do you know what a dimmer is?
#367 to #365 - anon (13 hours ago) [-]
Everything inbetweeen is either closer to on or off. there isn't a mysterious third setting, dillweed.
User avatar #371 to #367 - tanitakavirius (12 hours ago) [-]
It is on unless it is all the way to the left, the only off position. I'll ask again, do you know how a dimmer works?
If it's in the middle it's on, but dimmed.

You could also imagine a switch between a red and blue light, where you can change the intensity of both red and blue light. So you can get colors like dark red, bright red, dark blue, bright blue, purple, black (turned off), bordeaux, indigo, etc.

"But i can only see red and blue and everything inbetween is closer to either red or blue."
#312 - magicexplain (15 hours ago) [-]
**magicexplain used "*roll picture*"**
**magicexplain rolled image**Its stupid to be in a binary system for gender and its also stupid to care what tumbl yards identify as. Be yourself live your life and have fun
#378 to #312 - blowbags (12 hours ago) [-]
I wish that was an intentional image and not a rolled one - suits the comment ;)
#394 - subdainx (11 hours ago) [-]
GIF
I mean sex is a definite term. Gender should be as simple as it could get, but I guess people just like labelling themselves for a sense of individuality and uniqueness.

One one hand, people can easily be suited with "Male, Female, Other" as options. I'm totally fine with that, and I'm willing to argue that the rest of the populace would be too, as long as there is simplicity int he system. But when people want to abuse the labelling system and make their own term out of nowhere, I get bothered by it.

You can call yourself whatever you like, it's in your right but don't expect professionals or even anyone outside of your immediate vicinity to be accustomed to the term you pulled out of your ass for whatever reason.

Of course, I understand "trigender pyrofox" is a far stretch, there are still people who literally classify themselves in a similar manner. Of course, one could argue that this is alienating these people who genuinely feel they do not belong to a particular gender, however I feel that the "other" category should be perceived the same way as male or female.

I honestly don't understand the point of labelling yourself whatever you please, but even more so, I don't understand the overwhelming support people are giving to the concept of pulling out a name and more or less diagnosing yourself.

Honestly, if you call yourself a trigender giblet, then all the power to you. But you better mark it down as "other" in surveys and not bitch and whine about not having your made up label on the survey or whatever, nor is it the public's responsibility to not only acknowledge you, but to fully understand the concept either.

But even more so the concept of gender shouldn't even bother anyone anymore. The only real world use of gender concepts that I can think of would be for marketing purposes, and commercialism, or even gender roles.

I understand that everyone can be classified into their own sub category just by the nature of human beings and how unique we are individually, however we are still similar in more ways than one and we need a classification system that will help organize ourselves, hence the two genders.

If we gave everyone the right to have their own label, suddenly we have billions of people calling themselves whatever they want and the concept of gender becomes fickle.

**** what if that's what they wanted all along
#423 to #394 - anon (10 hours ago) [-]
Male, female, or naturally born hermaphrodite are the only 3 actual categories. Anything else is made up. An apple is always an apple even if you call it a ******* pear, even if it calls itself a pear, even if it wants to be a pear with all its ******* heart and soul. It is a goddamn apple. You can be, gay, straight, or bi. Or in some cases you can have no sexual attraction or sexual attraction to objects. IE weeaboos and their pillows and their trash waifus, the ones that see a girl in person and go "eww she's all 3d and **** ". You have certain options to you, you can call those options whatever u want, but I certainly feel terrible for the people who are actually just plainly gay or plainly bi now adays, the 10% who are genetically born that way across the board just like animals. Instead of the attention craving mongs who are loudly creating stigmas for themselves that im sure the average gay or bi person would shudder to have association with. What troubles me more is the fact these people believe that young, very young children with undeveloped minds and no ******* concept of the birds and the bees or any experience with their own chemical feelings which throughout time may change or confuse them, but time they have not had yet.
#409 to #394 - masanori ONLINE (10 hours ago) [-]
Wonderful thoughts and criticisms. Your head is on straight.
User avatar #3 - peanutsaurusrex ONLINE (01/11/2016) [-]
im a dual carbine quadraplenarian chromographic wolf cup grasskin, and this affends me
#337 - anon (14 hours ago) [-]
easiest thumbs of your life, huh?
User avatar #328 - aggronlover (15 hours ago) [-]
GENDER is, as far as I care, how you identify yourself because to be honest, transsexuals exist mainly because someone's gender and sex don't match , their SEX is the biological definition, determined by chromosomes which cannot be changed. I respect transsexuals and have nothing against them identifying as a person of the opposite sex, but biologically you have the sex you are born with and that's it.
#428 to #328 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
you're also biologically born with gender attractions that range from whatever the greeks did to being straight. You are born with the capability to or not. Its either latent or apparent, and choice is nothing more than a farce in this world. You have choices you are given, those choices alone and you may choose from them. Can't call oranges apples and piles of **** can't be ******* diamonds mate.
User avatar #310 - Viceroy (16 hours ago) [-]
I have a dick so I check male on gender boxes in documents.
That's all the thought I need to put into it.
#464 to #310 - anon (9 hours ago) [-]
Then consider yourself lucky you don't suffer from an issue where that would not feel like it should be the case to you. It's something most of us take for granted, and never appropriately stop to consider how we'd react if it stopped being that way.

A lot of times it stops at the end of a rope.
User avatar #199 - censius (19 hours ago) [-]
I don't know, this argument is all semantics to me. When some people say "gender" they mean "sex", which is inherently tied to the genetalia you have. Others think of it as different than sex, and is actually intrinsically tied to your "identification".
The problem about the argument is that people are arguing over two different concepts, and I'm getting annoyed over watching it.
#343 to #199 - tanitakavirius (14 hours ago) [-]
>MFW i see those arguments
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