How do I make any girl like me if I'm ugly and poor?

I was the Can't-Tell-Her-How-I-Feel guy. I was infatuated with this girl at college (same major, same classes) for over a year, and all she gave me was mixed signals of "I like you, but I don't know".

Then, one night, not too long ago, we ended up making out (several times) at a friends house and she came back to my place because her roommate took her keys so she couldn't get back inside. We didn't have sex, but she stayed the night in the same bed, cuddling and kissing. I didn't sleep.` I didn't want the night to end.

A couple days after this incident, she told me that it was "fun" but thats not what she wanted with me because she's not ready for something like that (she actually said this). I played it off cool as much as possible (I'm really good at lying through gritted teeth) and went home devastated. I have had **** luck with girls for 3 years now, and for me 2015 has been the worst year of my life, and this just helped cement that. Luckily enough, I had amazing friends who completely sided with me, and supported me through it (she is now known as "the Devil").

To be fair, she has a reputation of breaking guys hearts and actually ENJOYING it. She has been quoted of saying something along those very same lines. Which made me hate her, even though I loved her so much. It makes me think that maybe the only reason she made out with me and slept with me was so she could have a place to stay. Since the incident, I have completely ignored her overtime I see her. She will try to strike up conversation, and I just keep ******* walking.

Although, a few weeks ago, my friend was super down and refused to talk about it with me. One of my other friends said that she thinks "the Devil" slept with him (she's been pining for his dick since she got here) when he was really drunk, despite my friend having a girlfriend of 3 or 4 years. If this is true, I'm not mad at my friend whatsoever (I have a girlfriend now actually), but I will never ******* forgive her for ruining my friend. I already don't forgive her.

Sorry for my tale of woe, basically what I mean to say is
TL;DR: Girls can be huge bitches.

Im just now realizing the real reason i dont have a gf.
I dont have a social life.
I wake up, go to work, go home, hang out with you faggots+ games. or workout.
repeat.

All about confidence man.

its not that i even have a hard time talking to girls. i talk to them all the time. i've asked them out. i dated a girl for two years. i only have a hard time making the transition between friends and dating, between being with their friends and us two being with her friends. and right now, im desperate for the casual parts of a relationship. i don't even know if tinder is what i want, and all i keep looking for in women seems to be ways for me to validate that im better than them when i'm just a piece of **** . i want a relationship but i know i'm not good enough for anyone, and i might not ever be.

>interact with the opposite sex

kek

Stay friends with a girl who doesn't reciprocate romantic intentions or avoid her entirely?

Holy **** you got me.

The core of this video is basically saying that the majority of girls DON'T change their minds once its been made up about how they feel about a guy. It's quite true, within 5-10 seconds of talking to you for the first time their mind is already made up whether they want to hear more from you or if they'd prefer you to go away.

This video hit close to home because I'm one of those guys whose decent looking, goes to gym and makes an effort and all to become more appealing to the opposite sex but still gets obsessed over a girl that's out of my league. I figured my excuse is just that I have high standards or something, this video made me realise that's not an excuse, the reality is I have no ******* balls or initiative to just accept "No." and move on.

My favourite part of the video is that it says you should just focus on improving yourself. When I reflect on my dating life all the best girls I've been with more or less came onto me or made it very obvious/easy for me that they were interested in me. This was a result of just being myself at parties, at work, wherever I'm exposed to the world. I've noticed the pattern here is I am NOT myself when I'm constantly obsessing over someone else. These motivational videos never work for me but somehow the timing, and the accuracy of this one just got me.

Thank you OP, I feel much better.

jesus, could have used this 7 years ago.

**** i have been so obsessed a girl a few years ago, until i realized being all friendly and sweet was going to get me anywhere, i started acting like a alfa, treating some girls like crap and the ******* loved. i now **** with whoever i want and when i want. but i cannot fall in love like when i was a beta fag

yeah its funny i usta be that guy, grl i loved didnt like me back w/e. Once i desisde to start living more proactively, hanging out with new people, working out, guess what, that girl that didnt like me back that girl i would never go out with me she STILL DOESNT LIKE ME! but she did totally cheat on her bf with me, so it's something

"talk to more girls, chances are you'll meet someone"
well ok then! lets see what happens

This hit me right in the ball sack.... I hate being so obsessive....