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kristovsky (12/16/2015) [-] Girls who friend zone guys are users. They don't see men as people, they see them as tools to be used to fulfil their emotional and physical needs. They basically only want you there because you provide something (the vast majority of the time emotional support) that their current partner doesn't.
If you are friend zoned you have to realise that this girl will never date/ **** you because she gets her fill of physical intimacy elsewhere. If this wasn't the case, she would already be ******* you and have earmarked someone else for friendzone status. If a girl friendzone's you, it's because she is in no way attracted to you physically but wants to use you for something else.
These girls are trash, don't attempt to go out with them, don't even be friends with them, they are **** human beings who will make your life worse. Avoid at all costs.
If you are friend zoned you have to realise that this girl will never date/ **** you because she gets her fill of physical intimacy elsewhere. If this wasn't the case, she would already be ******* you and have earmarked someone else for friendzone status. If a girl friendzone's you, it's because she is in no way attracted to you physically but wants to use you for something else.
These girls are trash, don't attempt to go out with them, don't even be friends with them, they are **** human beings who will make your life worse. Avoid at all costs.
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kegget (12/17/2015) [-] "Girls who friend zone guys are users."
What's so wrong with a girl rejecting a guy?
Y'know what's ****** ? Being relationship-zoned. Guys who only stick around by the off-chance that you'll get with them. It's so hard for a chick to find a genuine male friend because you're never sure if they're actually a friend or they're waiting for their chance.
What's also ****** is when guys act like they're cool with being "just friends" and pretend to be genuine friends while they still try to advance on you, while bitching about "ugh i'm so deep in the friendzone".
Why don't guys just say "no, sorry, us being friend won't work." and move the **** on, instead of leading girls on by pretending that they're a real good friend.
What's so wrong with a girl rejecting a guy?
Y'know what's ****** ? Being relationship-zoned. Guys who only stick around by the off-chance that you'll get with them. It's so hard for a chick to find a genuine male friend because you're never sure if they're actually a friend or they're waiting for their chance.
What's also ****** is when guys act like they're cool with being "just friends" and pretend to be genuine friends while they still try to advance on you, while bitching about "ugh i'm so deep in the friendzone".
Why don't guys just say "no, sorry, us being friend won't work." and move the **** on, instead of leading girls on by pretending that they're a real good friend.
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kristovsky (12/17/2015) [-] Disregard that last comment, it looks like your actually a girl.
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kristovsky (12/17/2015) [-] This is not tumblr, you aren't going to find "male allies" for your feminist cuck ******** . This may be FJ, but I am a dignified and self respecting male, I don't stand for women's ******** .
Let me hit you with some knowledge. A lot of women out there are spoilt bitches who have no problem with using men and throwing them away, their feelings be damned. I would like to call out these people for the despicable users they are, so that good men don't waste their time and feelings on them. I NEVER said this was all women, and I would like to make the statement now that there are plenty of women who are great people, but they aren't the ones who I have described in my first comment.
TL;DR I won't defend ****** people and their ****** actions, you apparantly will, based on what, their gender? Have fun being a bitter toddler, call me when you grow up.
Let me hit you with some knowledge. A lot of women out there are spoilt bitches who have no problem with using men and throwing them away, their feelings be damned. I would like to call out these people for the despicable users they are, so that good men don't waste their time and feelings on them. I NEVER said this was all women, and I would like to make the statement now that there are plenty of women who are great people, but they aren't the ones who I have described in my first comment.
TL;DR I won't defend ****** people and their ****** actions, you apparantly will, based on what, their gender? Have fun being a bitter toddler, call me when you grow up.
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thirdjess ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-] A dignified and self respecting male. Let me guess, swag is for boys and class is for men? You ridiculous individual. Let me flip your ******** on you.
"Guys who complain about friend zone are users. They don't see women as people, they see them as tools to be used to fulfil their physical needs. They basically only want you there because you provide something (the vast majority of the time it's sex) that their lack of partner doesn't.
If they complain about the friend zoned, you have to realise that this guy will never respect you. If this wasn't the case, he wouldn't be complaining and have earmarked someone else for a possible relationship. If a guy complains about the friendzone, it's because he in no way cares about you emotionally, but wants to use you for sex.
These guys are trash, don't attempt to go out with them, don't even be friends with them, they are **** human beings who will make your life worse. Avoid at all costs."
"Guys who complain about friend zone are users. They don't see women as people, they see them as tools to be used to fulfil their physical needs. They basically only want you there because you provide something (the vast majority of the time it's sex) that their lack of partner doesn't.
If they complain about the friend zoned, you have to realise that this guy will never respect you. If this wasn't the case, he wouldn't be complaining and have earmarked someone else for a possible relationship. If a guy complains about the friendzone, it's because he in no way cares about you emotionally, but wants to use you for sex.
These guys are trash, don't attempt to go out with them, don't even be friends with them, they are **** human beings who will make your life worse. Avoid at all costs."
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kristovsky (12/17/2015) [-] "I bet you are a fedora man". Try again, I'm not a NEET, nice ad homenim though, you learn that on tumblr?
See, what you have done above is lazy and doesn't work, although I would agree that guys who view woman as tool are **** and you shouldn't go out or be friends with them. Now, I can only speak for a few individuals, and I have never been "friendzoned" myself, but the story seems to go the same way every time.
A guy starts liking a girl, but he is too shy to say so and doesn't want to ruin the friendship they have. one day he plucks up the courage, or said girls get's the inkling that he likes her, and the friendzoning happens. Now, I have a few friends this has happened too, including one person who started hating me because the girl he like was flirting with me (She was transparently a piece of **** and I had no desire to reciprocate). But this didn't stop my friend from pouring his poor heart and soul into this girl, buying her things (which she always accepted of course), taking her out places, and she kept leading him on, saying "I don't know if I like you" (which I know was always lies to manipulate him because of what she told her other girl friends, long story short she and other girls laughed about how pathetic this guy, my ******* friend, was behind his back). When all this finally got through to him he was devastated and almost destroyed his life, all for some bitch who was clearly a bitch the whole time. You getting the point yet? This is not an isolated case. This is a behaviour that many woman gleefully take part in, it's no secret that a lot of girls do this **** or **** like it.
Now don't get me wrong, this is not always the case, and yes there are men who use and abuse women, there is a **** ton of them. But that wasn't what my comment was supposed to discuss, the vast majority of people on FJ are men so they would naturally be the target demographic here.
You can keep on with your silly kids games about "all women are oppressed mysoginoos", you just make yourself look stupid and pathetic. Many people are arseholes, if you are defending their behaviour then you are enabling arseholes, and we can only assume you would do that because you also are an arsehole and you have self interest.
See, what you have done above is lazy and doesn't work, although I would agree that guys who view woman as tool are **** and you shouldn't go out or be friends with them. Now, I can only speak for a few individuals, and I have never been "friendzoned" myself, but the story seems to go the same way every time.
A guy starts liking a girl, but he is too shy to say so and doesn't want to ruin the friendship they have. one day he plucks up the courage, or said girls get's the inkling that he likes her, and the friendzoning happens. Now, I have a few friends this has happened too, including one person who started hating me because the girl he like was flirting with me (She was transparently a piece of **** and I had no desire to reciprocate). But this didn't stop my friend from pouring his poor heart and soul into this girl, buying her things (which she always accepted of course), taking her out places, and she kept leading him on, saying "I don't know if I like you" (which I know was always lies to manipulate him because of what she told her other girl friends, long story short she and other girls laughed about how pathetic this guy, my ******* friend, was behind his back). When all this finally got through to him he was devastated and almost destroyed his life, all for some bitch who was clearly a bitch the whole time. You getting the point yet? This is not an isolated case. This is a behaviour that many woman gleefully take part in, it's no secret that a lot of girls do this **** or **** like it.
Now don't get me wrong, this is not always the case, and yes there are men who use and abuse women, there is a **** ton of them. But that wasn't what my comment was supposed to discuss, the vast majority of people on FJ are men so they would naturally be the target demographic here.
You can keep on with your silly kids games about "all women are oppressed mysoginoos", you just make yourself look stupid and pathetic. Many people are arseholes, if you are defending their behaviour then you are enabling arseholes, and we can only assume you would do that because you also are an arsehole and you have self interest.
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danniegurl [OP]ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-] That's not the friend zone. What she did was lead him on. The friend zone is literally just where a girl doesn't have romantic feelings for a guy. He's just a friend. Not "I don't know, maybe I like you, maybe I don't" just straight up "I like you as a friend, that's all."
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blblblblblbl (12/16/2015) [-] This video is absolutely ******* right.
I committed some of these mistakes back in the day. Now I know what this video says, I've never "obsessed" with any other girl again. Hell even the other day I noticed a girl on the train that wouldn't stop looking at me so I initiated conversation and even gave her my number but she had a boyfriend. Still, it's a big ass progress for someone like me.
I committed some of these mistakes back in the day. Now I know what this video says, I've never "obsessed" with any other girl again. Hell even the other day I noticed a girl on the train that wouldn't stop looking at me so I initiated conversation and even gave her my number but she had a boyfriend. Still, it's a big ass progress for someone like me.
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anon (12/16/2015) [-]
this hit me like stepping on a lego.
was in this situation.
she probably liked me but she knew i liked her but i was too big of a pussy foot to ask her out.
she was disabled.. well sorta. she was in a wheelchair, but she could walk for 4 hours. she loved the things i like alot. met some other girls and like the first one, rinse and repeat. I've learned some things about love. its not about likes or dislikes or getting the pussy. i met friends who had sex multiple times and blah blah blah. i literally got bored of porn and masturbating. i felt very unhealthy. and right now im at that work on yo self before you wreck yourself part. dating is difficult if you dont know what your doing.
was in this situation.
she probably liked me but she knew i liked her but i was too big of a pussy foot to ask her out.
she was disabled.. well sorta. she was in a wheelchair, but she could walk for 4 hours. she loved the things i like alot. met some other girls and like the first one, rinse and repeat. I've learned some things about love. its not about likes or dislikes or getting the pussy. i met friends who had sex multiple times and blah blah blah. i literally got bored of porn and masturbating. i felt very unhealthy. and right now im at that work on yo self before you wreck yourself part. dating is difficult if you dont know what your doing.
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Smushy ONLINE (12/16/2015) [-] Honestly, i went in wanting to hate this with every fiber of my being, and it ended up being alright.
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izaya ONLINE (12/16/2015) [-] OR just realize that you don't need a girlfriend/boyfriend in your life to be happy, just enjoy the time you have, make some friends, go out with already existing ones. Believe me, once you stop looking at people through "she could be mine" lense, your life will become a lot better. At least it did for me.
Also that "she doesn't even know you like her" part is total ******** , unless you don't even talk to her at all, she absolutely knows you're into her, she just finds it more comfortable if you don't broach the subject. and I don't really blame them for them. Had a girl who I'm pretty sure was into me once, but I liked someone else at the time and I absolutely dreaded the possibility of first girl asking me out, because then I'd have to reject her
Also that "she doesn't even know you like her" part is total ******** , unless you don't even talk to her at all, she absolutely knows you're into her, she just finds it more comfortable if you don't broach the subject. and I don't really blame them for them. Had a girl who I'm pretty sure was into me once, but I liked someone else at the time and I absolutely dreaded the possibility of first girl asking me out, because then I'd have to reject her
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dehumanizer (12/16/2015) [-] this is pritty much true but i cant talk to girls im not intrested in and when im intrested i go full obsessed mode
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tarabostes (12/16/2015) [-] I'd obsess over you hummy <3 Your aryan genes get this dong flowing
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dvdfaust ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-] The problem is how do you engage with these other girls, other than a co-worker you've already chatted with a bit just because of work-related small talk? Do you start with, for the examples above, "so you like coffee?" or "this is a pretty great metro stop," or what?
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danniegurl [OP]ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-] You should watch their other videos! They tell you stuff like that
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misfitprince (12/17/2015) [-] Ah.
Good video.
I was the second guy for a long time.
I eventually decided to stop and told her how I felt, asked her out. Got rejected. Moved on.
But I haven't really pursued anyone else. I'm just kinda... working. Maybe I'll take this video to heart. Guess we'll have to see.
Good video.
I was the second guy for a long time.
I eventually decided to stop and told her how I felt, asked her out. Got rejected. Moved on.
But I haven't really pursued anyone else. I'm just kinda... working. Maybe I'll take this video to heart. Guess we'll have to see.
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chhwalker ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-]
What if you've never had a crush on anyone and don't know what love actually feels like?
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mrjweezy (12/17/2015) [-] Im just now realizing the real reason i dont have a gf.
I dont have a social life.
I wake up, go to work, go home, hang out with you faggots+ games. or workout.
repeat.
I dont have a social life.
I wake up, go to work, go home, hang out with you faggots+ games. or workout.
repeat.
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dogziller (12/17/2015) [-] its not that i even have a hard time talking to girls. i talk to them all the time. i've asked them out. i dated a girl for two years. i only have a hard time making the transition between friends and dating, between being with their friends and us two being with her friends. and right now, im desperate for the casual parts of a relationship. i don't even know if tinder is what i want, and all i keep looking for in women seems to be ways for me to validate that im better than them when i'm just a piece of **** . i want a relationship but i know i'm not good enough for anyone, and i might not ever be.
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craaabs (12/17/2015) [-] Stay friends with a girl who doesn't reciprocate romantic intentions or avoid her entirely?
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TheBigGummyBear ONLINE (12/17/2015) [-] The core of this video is basically saying that the majority of girls DON'T change their minds once its been made up about how they feel about a guy. It's quite true, within 5-10 seconds of talking to you for the first time their mind is already made up whether they want to hear more from you or if they'd prefer you to go away.
This video hit close to home because I'm one of those guys whose decent looking, goes to gym and makes an effort and all to become more appealing to the opposite sex but still gets obsessed over a girl that's out of my league. I figured my excuse is just that I have high standards or something, this video made me realise that's not an excuse, the reality is I have no ******* balls or initiative to just accept "No." and move on.
My favourite part of the video is that it says you should just focus on improving yourself. When I reflect on my dating life all the best girls I've been with more or less came onto me or made it very obvious/easy for me that they were interested in me. This was a result of just being myself at parties, at work, wherever I'm exposed to the world. I've noticed the pattern here is I am NOT myself when I'm constantly obsessing over someone else. These motivational videos never work for me but somehow the timing, and the accuracy of this one just got me.
Thank you OP, I feel much better.
This video hit close to home because I'm one of those guys whose decent looking, goes to gym and makes an effort and all to become more appealing to the opposite sex but still gets obsessed over a girl that's out of my league. I figured my excuse is just that I have high standards or something, this video made me realise that's not an excuse, the reality is I have no ******* balls or initiative to just accept "No." and move on.
My favourite part of the video is that it says you should just focus on improving yourself. When I reflect on my dating life all the best girls I've been with more or less came onto me or made it very obvious/easy for me that they were interested in me. This was a result of just being myself at parties, at work, wherever I'm exposed to the world. I've noticed the pattern here is I am NOT myself when I'm constantly obsessing over someone else. These motivational videos never work for me but somehow the timing, and the accuracy of this one just got me.
Thank you OP, I feel much better.
