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> hey anon, wanna give your opinion?
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#357 - jamesrustler
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This was indeed a feelsy post and I completely sympathise with the content.   
   
However, it's making me and clearly other users feel sad so here are some lols to brighten your day a little
This was indeed a feelsy post and I completely sympathise with the content.

However, it's making me and clearly other users feel sad so here are some lols to brighten your day a little
#360 to #357 - jamesrustler
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#369 to #357 - jasohazard
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#372 to #371 - jamesrustler
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User avatar #374 to #372 - jasohazard
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Sadly I don't have many Game of Thrones pics
#380 to #374 - jamesrustler
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#379 to #374 - jamesrustler
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#376 to #374 - jamesrustler
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#375 to #374 - jamesrustler
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I'll see what I can do
User avatar #377 to #375 - jasohazard
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Nice one
User avatar #381 to #377 - jamesrustler
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There we go, those should keep you afloat for a time
#383 to #381 - jasohazard
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Thank you kind sir.
#385 to #383 - jamesrustler
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'Twas both a duty and a pleasure, my good man/lady.
#320 - imonaboatman
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Speaking of self-esteem issues, I need advice guys. So I somehow got up the balls to ask a girl out last week, and she said yes. Then today, one of my friends tells me that she's with someone already and shows me a picture from the girl's instagram where some guy had asked her to homecoming and she said yes (I'm a senior atm). I already feel like she's way out of my league and was kinda surprised when she said yes, and now she could already have a boyfriend. I don't know why she would say yes to me then though. I really don't know how to approach this.
Speaking of self-esteem issues, I need advice guys. So I somehow got up the balls to ask a girl out last week, and she said yes. Then today, one of my friends tells me that she's with someone already and shows me a picture from the girl's instagram where some guy had asked her to homecoming and she said yes (I'm a senior atm). I already feel like she's way out of my league and was kinda surprised when she said yes, and now she could already have a boyfriend. I don't know why she would say yes to me then though. I really don't know how to approach this.
User avatar #323 to #320 - dreamcast
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Well at the moment this other guy is just a date. So I say go out with her on your date, impress with a good time and hope for the best.
#325 to #323 - imonaboatman
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Thing is, we haven't even set a time. I don't know how I'm gonna set one now that I know this. And I can't tell if she's actually interested in me or she just didn't want to hurt my feelings and never really planned on/wanted to go out with me.
#328 to #325 - dreamcast
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Well it's simple. Contact her and suggest a time. Ignore this feeling. It is a natural for people to date multiple people at the same time. I know that since you are in highschool you view things alittle more one tracked. However if you show this girl you can be fun and more mature she may want to be with you over this other lad. Remember if you freeze up and just don't contact her you will sit there and wonder what could have been. If you go through with it at least you will have your answer and you wont be stuck on this.
User avatar #329 to #320 - thirdjess
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It seems like that whole she got a better offer deal. You know in teen movies, how a dude gets asked out to whatever that reverse roles dance is called, says yes, and then gets asked out by a super hot chick the next day?

But it could be that perhaps she feels bad for the other dude, or they're friends.. something like that. So what I'm saying is, talk to her, it might not be what you see.
#354 to #320 - zapperbaconz
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Sorry man the best way to approach that is by talking to her. Not many things you can really do in that situation
#361 to #320 - Nameloc
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Play it out, see how it goes; Don't attach yourself too much to her if there's any possibility that she'll straight up leave you. (For instance, don't start growing stronger and stronger feelings while she's growing oddly more distant.)

I will never understand females. Ever.
All I got out from multiple attempts at a long-term-relationship was disappointment and depression.
At your age, most people are still getting into relationships for attention.
Even if they come off as more mature than "I only want this relationship for attention," you still have to be quite weary of certain things they do.
I had a girlfriend once, and once she thought that I wasn't flirting with her enough (and possibly once she got the hint that I didn't want to have sex), she started flirting with other guys. When I confronted her about this, she started to become more and more distant, and waited until after prom/ my birthday to break up with me.
The sex/ extreme flirting thing was shocking to me; She used to be that of a "Super Christian," in my eyes. Although at my age and for a few more years, everyone is eventually going to want sex just because everyone else is doing it; I'd rather not join the growing numbers in out-of-marriage pregnancies.

Turns out, for ten ******* years, she had a major crush on me; Not for who I was, but for my looks.
Once she got to know my personality, she didn't necessarily like me anymore, and waited a few months until after my birthday and prom to break up with me.

If you're super serious about dating, just wait and the right girl will come along.
In your case, you can continue on trying to date her, although just don't grow too attached to her. Be prepared for her to stop talking to you - It sucks, but at least if things end badly, you won't be as hurt as you would've been.

It doesn't sound right at all for her to accept another guy's proposal for a date.
Anyhow, best of luck, mate.
User avatar #388 to #320 - blacklightsun
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Hey man, I wish you the best outcome
As Nameloc said, don't get attached to this girls yet, keep certain emotional distance, so if at the end she doesn't start a relationship with you, you won't get much hurt, and just a little.
Date her and give her the time of her life. Just remember, be yourself, don't go way out of character. If she is gonna like you, better she likes the real you and vice versa, don't idealize her, see her just as she is. If you both like each other (the real each other) then great!
Don't give up just yet.
I dated a girl who had a long line of men behind her, and I wasn't the tallest (I'm actually short, and she's tall) or t he more handsome, and I really felt bad because I thought i hadn't anything to offer her.
It turns out that, at the end, she prefers me over the other guys, and we are on our way to star a relationship.


Don't give up and give the best of you.
I hope you succeed, and as said before, wish you the best of luck for the best outcome
#161 - mikesch
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**mikesch rolled a random image posted in comment #72 at Funnyjunk in a nutshell **

What the ****.
Get your **** together.
#136 - endsdawn
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Oh God, the feels...
#132 - zombiesnipertwo
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He looks hot to me.
#129 - zxe
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i have never once looked in a mirror and hated myself, instead i just play video games 16 hours a day and sleep the rest, with eating somewhere in between
#95 - anon id: 1229f4f6
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pffft, hating yourself is stupid, and i know the whole "well you don't know what others are going through" but the truth is that there is always a group of people who will find you disgusting, and who will hate you, and caring about it is the dumbest thing ever, because for some reason people are trying to please people who do not like them, rather than forgetting the negative people, and focusing on the positive people.

seriously, accept criticism, but stop trying to change because one guy say you're fat, some girl thinks your nose is too big, your eyes seem too far apart, or your dingle-dangle is too small. you're a god damn person, we're a damn awesome species, so **** using people as models for how you should look, and go for how you personally want to look.

(and the people who say "but i want to look pretty/handsome", that's your own fault then, you just don't want it hard enough, if you wanted it, you would have gotten it already, unless you're some person who gives up)
#105 to #95 - mitchr
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The group of people who will always hate us.

Yes, I know them.
They live in my state.
They make my state look bad.
**** these assholes.
User avatar #114 to #95 - lolollo
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self hate is stupid, but so is arrogant egotism.
#26 - powerbook
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i wanted to say something funny but this post is too damn depressing   
have this
i wanted to say something funny but this post is too damn depressing
have this
User avatar #118 to #26 - funnychemaster
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This made me giggle
#240 - Spikeydeath
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I am insecure, because i've been told my whole life i'm worthless...how in the **** do i believe im worth anything?
User avatar #245 to #240 - priestoftheoldones
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I thought I was useless intill I found I was pretty good at pixel art, than I was all like 'Woah, I'ma make a game!" And that's how I started making a game. Just go try things. Seriously, it doesn't matter what you try, just go and try. Hell you don't even have to try, just go **** around with things.
#251 to #245 - Spikeydeath
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I've tried a lot of things man, and i've failed... I mean hell i couldnt get into any college community or not
User avatar #256 to #240 - karson
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well according to the US government, I believe every citizen is considered worth like... i think it's *500 thousand dollars...so yeah.... thats something, right?



*don't remember exact figure. definitely a few hundred thousand though.
User avatar #463 - Kairyuka
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I KNOW my personality is rotten as ****, but I also know my body is beastly. Sure I might not be muscle-toned or fit the stereotypical ideal, but if I were a girl, I'd dig my body. That's all that matters.
Now if only anyone else though I was awesome too.
#462 - anon id: 0002a601
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no, I am pretty cute, my mother said so
#451 - spicycuscus
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I might be ugly but
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#406 - stefanolopcus
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ive concluded that its because we all have a warped sense of what the "attractive" person is supposed to look like and its all based on what we see in the media. May seem cliche but its the downright truth. I personally cant flirt with a girl if i envision her physically being with me because i think i look disgusting and the though of someone actually wanting to be with me doesnt seem like a realistic goal in my mind

in my opinion the reason why you hear more women complaining is because when men see something wrong they ******* fix it (like me, im on a mission to go from 240lbs to 160. 40lbs down! wish me luck!) instead of sitting around whining expecting a pity party

tl;dr - want something? go get it.

pic related, its one of my only recents
#464 to #406 - xxsnappyxx
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Well said man. Good LUCK!
Well said man. Good LUCK!
#386 - wobblewub
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I'm gonna... go to bed now.

Yeah...

I'm sorry for posting something you don't like... I'll just... go die now...
User avatar #430 to #386 - koga
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its ok pinky
User avatar #373 - muffintime
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When I was in grade 7 a group of girls called me really ugly and told that I will never get laid, so since then I have had no self esteem/ confidence... But ever since Grade 10 I've been asked out by 4 chicks who openly admitted that they liked me and wanted to go on a date and I know a couple more chicks that like me who are pretty good looking and I also have been hit on by 3 gay guys. I get complimented on my appearance everyday but I still feel like **** and think people are just ******* with me.
User avatar #382 to #373 - HitlerNP
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move on bro don't be stuck in the past
User avatar #337 - mcrut
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Getting some action with a smooth skin!
#333 - dtanobo
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i dated someone way more attractive than me. It also didn't help that she, at times, was very bitchy and cocky so she would let me know. Her friends would also remind her of how much better she could do. We dated for like 11 months and the last 3 were hell. My new rule is to date someone equal level than me. It is like a self-esteem murderer.
User avatar #336 to #333 - xsoulchaser
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What a bitch... I'm sorry. I throw a virtual hug your way, bro ;~;
#338 to #336 - dtanobo
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It's all good bro. It's actually a lot more chilled out without her. Some girls can be good looking and be really nice though. I just got the bitch. But why thank you
User avatar #339 to #338 - xsoulchaser
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No problem
Glad you're doing better. Hope you find someone you deserve, mate.
#331 - Blackula
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Oh how relate able this is. Why the feels.
Oh how relate able this is. Why the feels.
#326 - mattdoggy
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i'm fine with how i look even though i'm not the biggest and buffest or most handsome guy. I'm ok with my self in that aspect. But the things this body has done, should not have been done. Even though my sins have been forgiven they way deep on me, cutting deeper than any knife.
User avatar #352 to #326 - Nameloc
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That's deep, bro.
That's deeper than any knife could cut.

But seriously, I'm sad to hear that; Sorry, man. Sometimes life sucks. Other times it gets better.