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#136 - mindyourownbusines
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(03/24/2013) [-]
As someone who could be said to have been forcefully shoved from the friendzone recently, I'd like to say somethings. Though I cannot speak for everyone in the "friendzone" here is my personal thing.

I fell hard for this girl, but was young and stupid. (Beta as f*ck) I never told her or did anything about it. We kind of became friends, but I was always extra nice to her only because I cared about her - I didn't expect her to like me for it, I just did it because I cared. She told me about some guy troubles; I admitted that I'm biased because I like her (so she shouldn't put to much into what I told her). She freaked. We started fighting soon thereafter. We are no longer speaking, by her choice.

tl:dr

The friendzone is real, and some of us call it home, but sh*t happens. It sucks.
#132 - trojandetected
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(03/24/2013) [-]
**trojandetected rolled a random image posted in comment #23 at g**gle on anime **
Being nice does not mean you have coincident or are romantic or even decently good looking stop blaming freindzone and being nice she just does not like you -.- im going to sound like a dick but the sooner you learn this the sooner you will get a girl/boy/whatever the **** it is/ there is probably a girl who is nice to you who adores you but you are to blind to see. or maybe you do see you just dont like her. this is how the girl you like will fell about you either she does not know or does not want to be with you.
#108 - Coolinbny
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(03/24/2013) [-]
To not get into it too far... I'm sure there have been probably several girls in most our of lives that have been really nice to us and have liked us, sometimes at points where it seems no one else does. Does this mean that, all of a sudden, you are going to like them because they're nice to you? No. Because that's insane and goes beyond desperate if you were to do so.

If you're attracted to people that are nice to you, then go ahead, have a field day with it! But, as with most people, it takes a little more than niceness to make someone like you, such as personality, looks, etc... It sounds nice on paper that girls will go out with you if you're nice, but instincts drive women, and even men, to pick and choose people based on way different factors that just "niceness."
#88 - anon
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(03/24/2013) [-]
As a girl, I never thought I'd understand why other girls go after jerks, but after my "nice guy" boyfriend dumped me, I found that going after someone you know is going to screw you over is a lot less painful than being surprised by it.
#89 to #88 - bakinboy
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(03/24/2013) [-]
woman logic^
#90 to #89 - anon
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(03/24/2013) [-]
I agree, sometimes women don't even understand woman logic, it just happens.
#55 - ishotthedeputy
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(03/24/2013) [-]
>Implying every single woman has turned down a nice guy

I'm sure there are plenty of women for you to meet after you graduate middle school, OP
#52 - mrfop
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(03/24/2013) [-]
I was friendzoned once. I wont give the details 'cuz they're boring as **** but I smiled, gave myself a pat on the back for trying and moved the **** on, I was single for two years after but it lead to amazing times with friends. Now I've been with my girlfriend for three and a half years. Being friendzoned isn't a bad thing, cheer the **** up.
#50 - AnFour
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(03/24/2013) [-]
For once girls should say "I want a nice guy that's ******* attractive" because any guy can be nice, ******* ****!! Girls piss me off. They think they know what they want, but they dont. Shiiiiiit.
#45 - iamkagji
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(03/24/2013) [-]
Not always true. The friend zone exists, but not as much as people like to delude themselves into believing .
#38 - sloot
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(03/24/2013) [-]
stfu in your own delusional mind you probably think you are a nice guy, but in reality you are probably more of a douche than the guys you think are "Ass Holes". "I'm only a racist, homophobic, pretentious, self righteous ass hole on the internet. I am such a prince to everyone in real life... or a pussy that is too afraid to take any chances..."

<pic not related because all of you pussies are all ready living in denial
#49 to #38 - mayormilkman
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(03/24/2013) [-]
SRS pls go
#72 to #49 - sloot
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(03/24/2013) [-]
yes you are such a chivalrous guy that just so happens to be a morbid **** on the internet
#141 to #72 - mayormilkman
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(03/24/2013) [-]
I haven't done much of anything of that nature. I just silently watch everything.
#40 to #38 - champaigne
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(03/24/2013) [-]
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#13 - seleniyxoxo
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(03/24/2013) [-]
Actually, the first guy that was was really nice to me and asked me out got me, and we are still together. Not all girls are the same guys.
#7 - shonapope
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(03/23/2013) [-]
you know not all girls are like this. It's the same as not all guys are cheating douchebags.
#99 - cumwhore
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(03/24/2013) [-]
There's this awkward girl that has liked me for a year. She won't ask me out, but if I bring up the fact that she likes me, she'll just deny it. I have no feelings for her. None. So, we just keep going in this retarded circle. She's not unattractive, but she completely lacks self confidence and has unrealistic expectations out of life. "I'm going to get into acting." She is a decent actress, but nothing special. No backup plan, and she's not even following hard after the acting thing. Oh yeah, and she's 3 years older than me. If this was the other way around, (22 y-o failure to launch crushing on 19 y-o girl) it would be creepy. I can't do anything to convince her that I'm not interested in her. It really sucks. This experience has put the whole friendzone thing in perspective for me.
#44 - tealkangaroo
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(03/24/2013) [-]
if you're the only guy that's nice to her, why would she risk ending your friendship with a relationship?
#2 - maidenmk
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(03/23/2013) [-]


<--- why.