Never been friendzoned? So if you liked a girl, you avoided being friends with her or you got her right off the bat?

It's hard to explain really, I've just never been faced with the whole "I'd rather we just stay friends" dilemma.
And I've never really been interested in any girls that I'm actually friends with.

Ever been interested in a girl whom you weren't friends with, then you'd have to ignore her, get with her, or get friendzoned. Only 3 options.

I'd ask her out, if she said yes then I'd be in, if she said no then I wouldn't bother.
The weeks and months some guys spend buttering a girl up through the friendship way is stupid and doesn't appeal to me.
That said, I have become friends with girls who have turned me down, but that was after I'd moved on.

But I've never been stuck as a friend of a girl I liked.

It's a hard thing to explain mate, it's not all stuff I think about to be honest.

So you'd ask a complete stranger out?

I have indeed, in my adult life.
But when I was in school I'd have known them from school but just not been friends.

how do they possibly say yes?

Have you never talked to a stranger before?
You don't go straight up to them and say "will you go out with me?"...
You introduce yourself etc, ask some questions etc ask them for their number or to meet you some place... Yes, some things that happen in movies happen in real life.

Have you never talked to a stranger before? I always do
You don't go straight up to them and say "will you go out with me?" Never.

Where does this happen? I talk to people the most during classes, so I doubt it's normal to be in Chemistry and ask the girl next to me for her number and a date while the teacher is teaching.

Haha, I was thinking you were a little older.
But, asking girls out is pretty simple, you just have to be brave enough to risk getting rejected once or twice (or maybe a lot of times) and not let it bring you down.

In school, depending on where you live, social lives of your peers will probably revolve around parties, clubs maybe, I don't know.
It's simple though, if you want to make a girl your girlfriend you have to arrange some sort of "alone time" with them and try to be clear of your intentions.

Not gonna lie, this is all very hard to explain.

18 in university. Haven't been to clubs or parties in my life. The only way I communicate with others are in classes/study sessions. Lame, I know

It's not easy, but long story short, if you want to meet people you have to get out there.
And I know, that is the single most annoying piece of advice anyone can give you, but it's true.
And not to worry, there are many people in your position, but if you really wanted to you could ask people in your classes to hang out outside on Uni some time.

You never know, some might say yes to a coffee or a drink even if they barely know you.

"but if you really wanted to you could ask people in your classes to hang out outside on Uni some time"

I'll try that.

And remember, shyness can be cute, but a little confidence goes a long way.

if you've experienced 3 you've definatly been friendzoned.

Thinking I'm gay =/= Friendzone.
If I had cleared it up with her and she still treated me the same then I would have been friendzoned.
But when I told her it went the opposite way, she gave me the "You pretended to be gay to see me change you horrible pervert" even though it was her own assumption.

So you're saying, she wasn't your friend but changed infront of you?

Yes, on the assumption that I was gay.
When girls hang with gay guys that isn't friend zoning, they think of them as another female.
This is the problem with "friendzone" being so overused, people don't even know what it means any more.

Friendzoned is when she's your friend and you want more then that. If they think you are gay and are your friend, and you like her... then you are friendzoned.

I didn't like her though, hence my point.

Yea, then you arn't friendzoned.
Same situation with me. Except for the gay part.

I honestly don't even know how she came to the assumption that I was gay... I had recently split up with another girl only about a month before, it's possible that particular ex spread rumours amongst the girls at school, but I really don't know. This was about 5 years ago anyway, and the last time I was ever suspected of being gay, thank God...

Those arn't evenly distributed. Just sayin.

"I'm waiting till marriage"

You retarded fuck

I'm Christian. Deal with it.

I don't have to deal with it.. You do

And that sucks.

No, I just have to deal with idiots like yourself, which most people have to deal with anyway.

I'm not an idiot. Real idiots are the religious faggots like you. Go to hell, because you believe it exists.

Oh darn, you sure got me good... I don't know how I'll ever recover from a troll on the internet saying I'm an idiot for not being religious, but for having a different worldview than him.

You're still a retarded fuck who can't get laid ti'll your 30.

And you say this... as if you will get laid by 30? Plus, I've been offered plenty of times, just chose not to. Anyway, I'm done feeding the troll, you've had your feed, though you'll be disappointed to know that I honestly don't give a crap about this conversation.

I wouldn't be talking the way I am If I was a virgin.

"been offered plenty of times" Keep telling yourself that.

she was getting changed..in your bed..you missed out =/

Or maybe she kind of likes you :p

It's nothing special. You just kinda sit there and smile....

That's really awkward O.o

Did she change her sweater or something, or get completely naked? It happened once with me, changed from PJs to Jeans. She was naked, and asked me to look away.

Oh and sometimes it's just a shirt or it's an entire out fit after spending the afternoon with me and they want to wear something more comfortable.

Well how am I supposed to explain this? It's not bad that I'm smiling. It kinda lets them know I'm enjoying it. In turn they do too.

Then there's sexual tension.

Well....it's not much tension if it doesn't last long....

If you're enjoying it, why dont you fuck her?

Ahahaha! How do you think we get rid of the tension?! That's what I ment when I said it doesn't last long!

So you do fuck her...


So it is something special..

6. You're also a woman and she hasn't realized you're a boy

He wants your little friends to start talking about his bulge and you all have sex, just like his favorite hentai.

a guy in underwear is not a crime

I wish I had the power of not giving a fuck what people think about me.

Yfw

Same thing with my little brother. He's in JROTC, looks like Captain America.

I'd be reallly jelous, but my beard is awesome.

JROTC mentioned, compelled to comment

Beard mentioned, compelled to comment

Compelled to comment mentioned, compelled to comment

I don't know where to go from here

Me either

you wana have sex with your brother dont you?

exactly because he's ripped

Dudette, are you into incest? :o

When you're in a drama production, most people think you're gay, not just her.

I'm gay because I go on stage and see tons of women in their underwear....but the guys all shower naked together in communal showers aren't...hmmm.

Most famous actors startet like that. So wanna say Bruce Willis is gay?
I'm also in drama production and it's not gay. It's art and most of the ppl that hate don't have the balls to be on stage...

what you just said was really gay.

I didn't know girls change infront of guys so often.

Varries depending on what kind of a life you live.

What type of life do u live?

That's a damn good question, when I figure that out exactly I will let you know.

Alright