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#173963 - anonymous (02/07/2015) [-]
There's two girls who are both absolutely gorgeous, I'm interested in one of them who likes me back but I'm in love with her sister, the other girl. Would it be a mistake to date the one whose interested in me?
#174024 to #173963 - anonymous (02/07/2015) [-]
don't date either of them, it'll cause strife between them and if you date the one who likes you then you'll never get a chance with the one you love. Plus it wouldn't be fair to the one who likes you.
User avatar #173964 to #173963 - sugoi (02/07/2015) [-]
Are you retarded?
Fuck them both.
User avatar #173962 - onefuckingskurut (02/07/2015) [-]
My grandma and sister had some big argue. When she arrived home to tell us, she sounded like she was telling the truth except for few small things. Now, I don't think grandma would lie to me or my mom either. Me and my mom didn't know what to think so I asked sister if she could come over grandma's place and discuss it once again. We never heard them discussing it together before, they were always quiet when me and my mom was on the visit too. My sister never responded to me on that.

Basically my dad doesn't want us to visit my mom's mom anymore.
Whatever should me and my mom do? My mom feels lonely in here often and likes to visit her mother from time to time...
#173952 - nogzilla (02/07/2015) [-]
Military advice needed here, I think I might have fucked up badly today. So today I was sworn in at MEPs for the Navy, while going through the final questionnaire, they asked if I have ever received a speeding ticket. I was told by friends and family to say no because I was recently given the ticket and haven't gone to court for it or paid it yet. I was sworn in with them thinking I've never received a ticket. Im not sure whether or not I should be worried that i'll be discharged for withholding information, or will the ticket not show up in my back ground search because I haven't dealt with it yet?
#173956 to #173952 - dehumanizer (02/07/2015) [-]
they could easily check, why lie?
User avatar #173954 to #173952 - advice (02/07/2015) [-]
If you have not gone to court for it, then you can have deniable plausability with the navy by saying you were not speeding so the ticket is null and the officer's fault. While in court you should plead to the judge that you are already enrolled/enlisted and will pay any fine or whatever if the ticket is expunged (not put on your record) that way the navy will never hear about it.
User avatar #173951 - BaconWrappedSteak (02/07/2015) [-]
When is the best time to ask a girl to be your valentine?
I've had a few friends receive candies & chocolates from girls saying the girl wants to be their valentine. I have no clue how this holiday works, all i know is that in elementary school i got a lot of candy from teachers & classmates. I have a very special friend I wanna ask to be my valentine for this year, but i have no clue when the best time to ask is. Are you suppose to ask on valentines day or some time before that?
#173961 to #173951 - anonymous (02/07/2015) [-]
By my understanding it's usually pretty cheesy to ask someone out on Valentines day, especially that way. I'd say if you're insisting on going down that route that you do it a bit in advance. Also don't give anything significant (I.E. an entire box of chocolate), it's like a bribe.
#173957 to #173951 - dehumanizer (02/07/2015) [-]
User avatar #173949 - guardianatreyu ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
I don't know what to do anymore. I've been suffering with depression for a very long time. Meds are shit. Therapists are useless. My mom and sister are the root of a lot of my depression but they won't fucking leave. Despite the fact that they're supposed to be living in another house. I'm getting worse with each day. I've think of suicide daily. I've contemplated just running away seeing as there's very few other options for me. I can't leave this crappy house on my own unless I just run away. I've just become dead inside. I feel miserable whenever they are around. Only time I feel better is when they're gone. I fucking hate them. I hate them with a passion. I hate living with this illness and not being able to get rid of the things that are causing me the worst pain. I've run out of options of what to do. Either I leave, through running away or killing myself, or I just keep living in misery. I.... just don't know what to do anymore.....
#174043 to #173949 - killako (02/07/2015) [-]
If its your house, fucking kick them out. If its not your house, try and find a friend to crash with for a while while you look for your own. either way, get the fuck away from them.
User avatar #174047 to #174043 - guardianatreyu ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
It's my parents house. I have no friends.
#174048 to #174047 - killako (02/07/2015) [-]
what is it about them that causes the depression?
User avatar #174049 to #174048 - guardianatreyu ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
Well it's a lot of things. They're not the only cause of it all, but they certainly aren't any help. My sister is a lazy, good for nothing, inconsiderate slob. My mother is a manipulative "I'm always right" kind of person who treats my dad like crap when he's the one who has done more stuff than her. I've asked them a million times to just leave but they never stay gone. They were living in another house for a year but kept constantly popping in. They'll never change and it drives me crazy having to put up with them just cuz they're family.
#174050 to #174049 - killako (02/07/2015) [-]
Where were they living before?
User avatar #174052 to #174050 - guardianatreyu ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
They lived here but then moved out after a lot of drama. Then kept coming back whenever they could find an excuse.
#174053 to #174052 - killako (02/07/2015) [-]
get a restraining order.
User avatar #174010 to #173949 - schnizel ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
Join us.
#173958 to #173949 - dehumanizer (02/07/2015) [-]
User avatar #173944 - sphincterface (02/07/2015) [-]
I just want everybody's input here. I am thinking about doing a fact comp of my own, but it is of the Halo universe. I'll do different factions, different Covenant species, different UNSC forces, I just want your guy's input on what I should do first. Also I guess I should ask for help on how I make one of these comps look really cool, like what program do I use?
User avatar #173932 - loomiss ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
I have a group interview for the resident advisor position at my college next year.
They told us to bring something of significance to talk about for 15-30 seconds.
I have no idea what to bring
My favorite book (Unbroken)
is all that came to mind
I wish I had a way of bringing my favorite quote
anyone else got any ideas?
I don't wanna bring a picture because I feel like that is too cliche
#173937 to #173932 - anonymous (02/07/2015) [-]
Is your quote famous?
#174044 to #173941 - killako (02/07/2015) [-]
bring a picture of it.
User avatar #173940 to #173937 - loomiss ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
Not super famous, but it is known.
Its by charles swindoll and its about attitude.
#173919 - anonymous (02/07/2015) [-]
Can a mod or our faggot admin explain to me why I get a warning saying "you can only post once every 15 minutes" when I have not posted in 2 days?
User avatar #173983 to #173919 - jedimage (02/07/2015) [-]
You probably got too many negative thumbs.
User avatar #173915 - theafroman (02/07/2015) [-]
So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for about a month now. She is a nice enough girl, but she's getting really attached. Like, she's told me that she "feels like nothing" unless she's talking to me, and other similarly clingy things. She also constantly thinks that I'm ignoring her or hate her secretly, which isn't true, but it does frustrate me. Being with her just isn't something I enjoy anymore. I kind of want to break up, but after discussing the possibility of going to prom together, she went and got a dress and shoes and shit. I'll feel guilty if I break up with her, since she already has tons of issues with her self-esteem alonh with yhe moneybshe already spent. But I'll also be miserable if try to keep going for another 3 to 4 months. What should I do? Any suggestions would be appreciated.
User avatar #174000 to #173915 - Timmietim (02/07/2015) [-]
dont stick dick in crazy
User avatar #173985 to #173915 - jedimage (02/07/2015) [-]
She sounds crazily clingy which isn't a good sign. Dump her and let her catch someone beta poor sap while she's on the rebound.
#173960 to #173915 - dehumanizer (02/07/2015) [-]
User avatar #173920 to #173915 - crimzonhazard (02/07/2015) [-]
Dump her one hour before prom and when she asks why, say she's too ugly.
#174034 to #173920 - focalanemo (02/07/2015) [-]
That's just pure evil
User avatar #173916 to #173915 - iyellatstuff (02/07/2015) [-]
Talk with her man, if she gets upset with what you say too bad.
User avatar #173896 - hellkitequeen (02/06/2015) [-]
Diagnosed with Manic depression and OCD, don't want to be on meds and feel like a druggie... wat do?
User avatar #173945 to #173896 - sphincterface (02/07/2015) [-]
Meds help a lot. Also if it makes you feel better, there are plenty of people who take medications for various reasons, you won't be a druggie if you are using them for legitimate medical reasons. Get those meds prescribed and you'll be so much better.
User avatar #173965 to #173945 - hellkitequeen (02/07/2015) [-]
I've had family members that struggled with addiction... I guess that's why I'm so nervous about it. I know I need help before I do something stupid, but the idea of being a pill popper disgusts me.
User avatar #174127 to #173965 - angelodlt (02/08/2015) [-]
Self control is everything, if you believe you can take meds without becoming an addict then you can fucking do it! If you feel like you can change without medication then give that a try too but if you feel like you really need it take them, then no harm done.
User avatar #173897 to #173896 - focalanemo (02/06/2015) [-]
There is a reason medication exists. This is one of those reasons
#173895 - anonymous (02/06/2015) [-]
in environmental science we went outside with snow shoes on and i missed a really good opportunity to help the really cute french exchange student girl put on the snow shoes because they fell off. even if i did i doubt anything would have happened
#173898 to #173895 - dehumanizer (02/06/2015) [-]
what are you her butler or something

"M'lady, let me help you put your shoes on."
#173900 to #173899 - dehumanizer (02/06/2015) [-]
I mean come on today he wants to help her put shoes on, tommorow he'll agree for her to be fucked by black men because "he is mature trusting and loving".
#173903 to #173900 - braveblue (02/06/2015) [-]
Sounds like some sort of /b/ story from 4chan
#173908 to #173904 - braveblue (02/06/2015) [-]
"tommorow he'll agree for her to be fucked by black men because 'he is mature trusting and loving'."
#173909 to #173908 - dehumanizer (02/06/2015) [-]
thats how cuckolding starts

as soon as you: help a girl, smile to her, compliment her
she will walk over you and cuck yuo with other men
User avatar #173893 - thethirddoctor (02/06/2015) [-]
Is sweater vests always douchey? I like a sensible vest. Does this make me a.. hipster? Pls no.
User avatar #173917 to #173893 - iyellatstuff (02/07/2015) [-]
dad core is the shit
User avatar #173925 to #173917 - thethirddoctor (02/07/2015) [-]
I wore it. I actually got some compliments. One girl asked me if I was warm. That's all the shit I got. It was awesome. Thanks for the advice guys!
User avatar #173911 to #173893 - awesomerninjathing (02/06/2015) [-]
sweater vest are more dad-core
User avatar #173906 to #173893 - braveblue (02/06/2015) [-]
Wear what ever you want, don't let someone else's opinion steer you away from wearing something.
#173892 - anonymous (02/06/2015) [-]
To any of you who have watched bestcodshots on youtube: in what episode is he commenting something like "two penguins giving birth to a dinosaur"?
User avatar #173889 - hellkitequeen (02/06/2015) [-]
If I buy cyanide pills, would they get to my house before anyone becomes concerned with my order?
User avatar #173947 to #173889 - sphincterface (02/07/2015) [-]
Look, you really shouldn't resort to that. Keep in mind that people still love you no matter what, and that whatever you are going through, things always get better. Cancel that order, go spend the money you saved to buy it, and go do something fun. Go on an adventure and just experience how wonderful the world is.
User avatar #173887 - delphine (02/06/2015) [-]
I'm mostly just venting here. I have a ton of student loans, and am living with my parents until I can pay them off. I work two jobs. And now I have an expensive car issue that needs tending to. While I'm grateful that my parents are letting me live with them til I get my feet under me, I'm almost 26 years old. I feel like a failure as an adult because I can't be financially independent.
#173913 to #173887 - anonymous (02/06/2015) [-]
Not at all uncommon. Most milleniels have to do this. A lot of jobs strait out of college don't pay enough for someone to live on their own as well. They make everyone start at the bottom. It's just the way life is, the babyboomers fucked everything up, now they gotta help us out a little.
#173890 to #173887 - GothicChi (02/06/2015) [-]
Keep that head up
#173884 - whyunofeellucky ONLINE (02/06/2015) [-]
Ok, so I'm doing my last Elephants Graveyard run tonight, I have the lines the the Tennessee accent down, but I got this cold, normally I just ignore and keep going, but now I'm starting to lose my voice, at the very least its very raspy, it break every now and then and I can't shout.
I've been drinking lots of chamomile, but I don't know what else to do.
#174055 to #173884 - whyunofeellucky ONLINE (02/07/2015) [-]
Well, update, I did that play with the voice, it didn't break but as I was told it was very gritty, and added to the character
#174045 to #173884 - killako (02/07/2015) [-]
take a break and let your voice rest.
#173879 - vampyric (02/06/2015) [-]
So I'm having bilateral laprascopic hernia repairs done 5 days from now and I'm scared shitless. Has anyone had this surgery and are doing okay from it?
#173914 to #173879 - anonymous (02/06/2015) [-]
I did,
but it wouldn't make you feel better if you heard my experience. It essentially ruined my life.
#173922 to #173914 - vampyric (02/07/2015) [-]
That sucks to hear I spent a ton of time picking out a surgeon and the one I chose specializes in hernia repairs and in the top 50% in my state apparently. He's addressed all my concerns about chronic pain and such and how he honed his technique to avoid these issues. Usually the chronic pain is from tacts/staples that are on a nerve, but he says he uses absorable sutures so any pain that may occur will only last as long as the sutures are there. I'm confident in my surgeon just scared of surgery and the recovery process over all
#173910 to #173879 - nonbenderinlife (02/06/2015) [-]
I dont know if it hurts or not but its something that has to be done in order for the pain to go away. Keep it up lil nigga, we believe in you
#173923 to #173910 - vampyric (02/07/2015) [-]
Thank you, from what I read recovery can be bad or easy and seems to usually depend on the surgeon, I took my time to pick a surgeon that specializes in the repair and he explains how he does it to avoid chronic pain in patients in their future, it's just going through with it and the recovery that I'm scared as fuck of
User avatar #173873 - thirdjess (02/06/2015) [-]
Trying to come up with a name to do illustration under, I particularly wanna do illustration for music or music based projects because that really inspires me. So if you can be bothered, could you list some cool sounding words that somehow conveys that?
User avatar #173894 to #173873 - sineztro (02/06/2015) [-]
User avatar #173876 to #173873 - sugoi (02/06/2015) [-]

These are all just terrible, I'm sorry.
User avatar #173875 to #173873 - sineztro (02/06/2015) [-]
What kind of stuff do you draw do you have a unique gamertag?
User avatar #173912 to #173875 - thirdjess (02/06/2015) [-]

Jessssuhh is what I use for most things but I don't think it's very proffessional
User avatar #173929 to #173912 - sineztro (02/07/2015) [-]
actually nevermind your portifolio on business cataylyst has a pretty awesome name already
User avatar #173930 to #173929 - thirdjess (02/07/2015) [-]
Rookie? I want to change it from rookie cause I feel like no one takes me seriously
User avatar #173936 to #173930 - sineztro (02/07/2015) [-]
Hmmm why not Rook Design/ Graphics or Your name from FJ ThirdJess desgin?
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#173868 - anonymous (02/06/2015) [-]
how should I tell my best friend that I want to fuck him. We are both bi, and hes hinted at that he would fuck me if we didn't already have the relationship we have.
User avatar #173880 to #173868 - youngneil (02/06/2015) [-]
Play the nervous game. It's not weird if you're touchin' this dude up, and it gets even better if he never tells you to stop.
User avatar #173874 to #173868 - phtholognyrrh (02/06/2015) [-]
by telling him that you want to fuck him.
User avatar #173870 to #173868 - sugoi (02/06/2015) [-]
Touch him inappropriately.
If he reacts negatively then he aint down to fuck, if he reacts positively then he down to fuck.

I mean stuff like hand on thigh creeping up kinda shit not grabbing his crotch and asking "hey baby is your python hungry today?"
User avatar #173866 - nockae (02/06/2015) [-]
So my first love just broke up with me. She was my girlfriend for 3 years and was my first everything, kiss, cuddling, sex, etc. I have severe social anxiety, no friends (literally no friends, she was the only one I ever talked to) and I do go to college, but I can't socialize. I've tried but it's too much for me, especially now. I relied heavily on my girlfriend for all emotional stuff, she was my only friend. I'm alone now, I have trouble talking to my family in the first place and now I think they assume I am kinda shut down. How do I deal with this? I was already stressed from the social pressure, and academic pressure from school, now I just feel constantly like my chest is caving in. So how do I deal with this? I have no one else to turn to but myself, and honestly right now I'm not very helpful.
#173902 to #173866 - dehumanizer (02/06/2015) [-]
an hero you fucking normie shitlicker
User avatar #173871 to #173866 - schurftinator ONLINE (02/06/2015) [-]
I know what you mean. I'm not good at making friends myself, I usually rely on my best friend to make friends and then I tag along. It's not as dire as your situation I guess, but still I suck at making new friends.

Then I moved to another country for a while and I just had to. That's the thing though, if you keep on telling yourself "I am not social, I cannot make friends", you won't. If you realize that your social skills aren't strong, but they are something you can work on, then you're already heading in the right direction. Start conversations with people, ask them stuff, show interest, and don't be afraid to tell something about yourself to keep the conversation going (something I really had to learn, as I always felt nobody would be interested anyway). It sucks as first, but eventually you'll see what works, what doesn't, and how you're making progress
User avatar #173888 to #173871 - nockae (02/06/2015) [-]
The problem I have with approaching people,talking to people, whatever; is that I need to have everything planned, literally everything. Before I do something I learn everything about it, make sure I won't do anything wrong. If someone approaches me it's usually Ok. But since my Girlfriend left, all my confidence is gone. I'm just like.. Shut down to the way I was. Efore I met her and I don't know what to do.
#173891 to #173888 - GothicChi (02/06/2015) [-]
I'll be your friend
I'll be your friend
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