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#181468 - anonymous (04/15/2015) [-]
So there's this girl in my painting class and I am sort of starting to like her even though she doesn't get to make it to all the classes and usually works on her painting because she usually works during class days...she's a cute girl. Not a model or anything but she's cute, I would say 7/10. Sweetest girl I ever met and a fantastic artist. Like I said she's not super pretty and all but she's still kinda cute yet I still find myself attracted to her and I actually want to get to know her even though she doesn't make it all the time. What is going on with me?
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User avatar #181456 - sphincterface (04/15/2015) [-]
So uh an old ex texted me and we surprisingly had a nice conversation and talked about how we have been and for once I don't feel bitter about an ex. Is...this normal? I mean I honestly felt happy talking to her again even though all feelings for her are gone. I never really been friends with an ex.....am I doing this right?
#181484 to #181456 - anonymous (04/15/2015) [-]
Yeah, i talk with one of my exes and have nice conversations with him. You were attracted to them in the first place so you're gonna have shit in common, doesn't mean you can't be friends because you don't work out as a couple.
User avatar #181471 to #181456 - iliekcereal (04/15/2015) [-]
I think it's possible to be friends with an ex. If the bitterness is gone, then why the hell not. Making friends with them does you a whole lot more good than remaining enemies does.
#181451 - dvmaster (04/15/2015) [-]
Ok guys I think I could use your opinion and I know this has been asked several times but still. There's a girl in two of my classes that I've been meaning to talk to, and I think I've seen her looking at me, so maybe she's interested.

The problem is that I don't want to fuck up and spill my spaghetti all over the place and because of that I can't think of a single thing to say.

Any advice???
#181546 to #181451 - thedudeintheshirt (04/15/2015) [-]
Let me explain my first post...

You don't want to talk about the class, or the weather, or whatever bullshit that you and her don't really care about. That WILL put you in the friend zone. Let her know that you're interested in a relationship/dating IMMEDIATELY. If she rejects you, move on. If she says yes, then you have me to thank
#181542 to #181451 - thedudeintheshirt (04/15/2015) [-]
Bro, how old are you?

If you're in college, I suggest AVOID talking to her like she's a friend, like iliekcereal suggested. I would be bold and tell her that you wanted to talk to her because you think she's really attractive/cute. From there, ask her if she wants to go get ice cream on Friday or something like that.
User avatar #181560 to #181542 - dvmaster (04/15/2015) [-]
i didn't had a chance to talk to her after the 4pm class but i ran into her at the library and asked her about something school related like iliekcereal suggested she didn't even looked at me and gave a short response to everything I asked. Do you think I should try again your way like "hey didn't actually cared about that thing earlier I just wanted to talk to you because bla bla bla" it seems a bit risky but I think that might work or do I just stop trying, she didn't seem interested in having a conversation but maybe it was because I asked about school related things??? pls respond I might have another chance today
#181562 to #181560 - thedudeintheshirt (04/15/2015) [-]
What EXACTLY happened? Literally write out a dialogue of what exactly was said including her gestures and where she was looking.

I'm just trying to get a good idea of what actually happened since I wasn't there to witness your body language and social cues and shit
User avatar #181565 to #181562 - dvmaster (04/15/2015) [-]
I saw her putting her stuff down in a table at the library so decided to go and talk to her. I asked her something like

"hey you take that class with mr teacher right"
"yeah" -> she looked at me and she had a smile on her face
""great, do you have email we were supposed to send that thing?"
*looks trough her notebook, finds a little pice of paper and shows me the email*
From this point forward she no longer looked at me:
"Ssrry I wrote it down in my hand and i forgott"
"Ok, thank you"
she nods
I walk away

The smile is the only thing I noticed but that was it, after that she kept looking at her books.
Right now we're in the library and I'm sitting 4 tables away from her

#181567 to #181565 - thedudeintheshirt (04/15/2015) [-]

Being completely honest, what would you rate her out of 10, and then what would you rate yourself out of 10?

Also, are you typically socially awkawrd, do you shower, do you shave every day, do you brush your teeth, use mouthwash, dress nicely? etc...
User avatar #181570 to #181567 - dvmaster (04/15/2015) [-]
I would say she's like a 7.5-8, not the most voluptuous body or the most beautiful face but there's something I really like about her from the moment I saw her, she looks kinda nerdy tbh.

Honestly I think I would be like an 8-8.5, and yes I dress nice, have a nice haircut and I'm really clean plus I'm somewhat fit.

I think I'm socially awkward because most of the time girls either approach me or we get introduced by a friend and that's how we met. This is the first time I've approached someone all by myself and I have no idea how to do it.

#181596 to #181570 - thedudeintheshirt (04/16/2015) [-]
Oh you're good then bro.

I would say approach her, but don't act like she'd be doing you a favor by going on a date with you. Also, If you're going to ask her out on a date, have an idea where you want to take her first.

I'm actually about to ask a girl out at my work tomorrow, and my plan was to ask her if she wants to go get some frozen yogurt with me on Friday.
User avatar #181621 to #181596 - dvmaster (04/16/2015) [-]
So you still think I should try what you said first or maybe a more friendly approach?
I don't want to appear a little creepy by asking her out the second time I talk to her

Also goodluck tomorrow
User avatar #181566 to #181565 - dvmaster (04/15/2015) [-]
forget that last part I just saw her leave kek
User avatar #181472 to #181451 - iliekcereal (04/15/2015) [-]
Just start out really simple. Say hi and introduce yourself (even if she already knows your name, introduce yourself anyways). From there, try to strike up a conversation. Keep it simple. For example, maybe ask her something relating to your classes, since that's something you both have in common. Try to make it seem as natural as possible. Smile a lot and make eye contact. Talk to her like she's already your friend.
User avatar #181478 to #181472 - dvmaster (04/15/2015) [-]
Today I got really close but one of her friends took her to the bathroom and I missed my chance. I'm going to try tomorrow, we have a class at 4, I'll post results.
User avatar #181479 to #181478 - iliekcereal (04/15/2015) [-]
good luck!
User avatar #181434 - tostito ONLINE (04/15/2015) [-]
why is correct to say " It's an honor"
but it's technically incorrect to say "It's an hero"?
User avatar #181455 to #181434 - hirollin (04/15/2015) [-]
anon is correct.
#181446 to #181434 - confusedasian (04/15/2015) [-]
Something something, Vowels and stuff.
Something something, Vowels and stuff.
#181436 to #181434 - anonymous (04/15/2015) [-]
I was told it's because the H sounds silent, so it's as if a vowel was the start of the word
User avatar #181435 to #181434 - oliveirajo ONLINE (04/15/2015) [-]
Because it's a hero, not an hero
Because you don't usually call heroes ''it''
Because the it of ''it's an honor'' refers to the thing you are doing
User avatar #181433 - popcornqueen (04/15/2015) [-]
How do i get rid of ass pimples?
User avatar #181483 to #181433 - nonbenderinlife (04/15/2015) [-]
Apply antibiotic cream on them or something turmeric paste also helps a lot
User avatar #181447 to #181433 - confusedasian (04/15/2015) [-]
Jump off your bed and land ass first on the ground. Should pop a few.
#181442 to #181433 - joshualegitsky ONLINE (04/15/2015) [-]
First loose the dick pimples
User avatar #181728 to #181442 - popcornqueen (04/17/2015) [-]
Shit, I don't have a dick. Should I get one first?
#181733 to #181728 - joshualegitsky ONLINE (04/17/2015) [-]
Okay, your going to have to listen to me very well. First, go buy a strap on. Not go sexual crap just wear it. Second, name it. Third, forget steps one and two. Four, don't do things that are odd numbers. Fifth, your probably confused on what to name now. Sixth, it is the but pimples. Seventh, don't do not do what you think is the actual fake answer. Eighth, its opposite day. Ninth, just take a hot shower it should just go.
#181431 - anonymous (04/15/2015) [-]
#181420 - antibodies (04/15/2015) [-]
Ok Advise, I'm I beyond saving?
>Be in Math Class
>Group work with partner next to you
>Partner is a grill
>We work and solve the problems
>She looks up at me
>she's smiling
>"Wow Anon, we work Really well together. Don't you think?"
>nod and keep doing math problem
>MFW I realized what I did seconds later
User avatar #181473 to #181420 - iliekcereal (04/15/2015) [-]
next time you're working together, say "this project is really hard" and gesture towards your already throbbing erection.

jk, you should be fine dude. if she's even kinda into you, something that small won't kill you. ask her to eat lunch with you or something
User avatar #181421 to #181420 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
You know, sometimes girls like guys playing hard to get. If you get so flustered that she's beautiful, sexy, etc; it'll always be hard for you to be yourself. If anything always act like it'll never go anywhere, and it'll be easier from there my friend.
User avatar #181424 to #181421 - antibodies (04/15/2015) [-]
I don't have problems talking to girls, just talking in general. I can't think of a topic, it always ends up being silent and awkward. My mind searches for things to talk about, but I can't.
User avatar #181459 to #181424 - sphincterface (04/15/2015) [-]
Don't worry about it dude. Girls don't have any problems with quiet guys. You'll be okay.
User avatar #181425 to #181424 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
Ahh.. well that's a horse of a different color. In my experience of not being able to talk, its not as bad as you'd think to be a silent person. Sometimes its better to be the one that listens to other around you. And sometimes you just have to start with a joke, and then go from there.
User avatar #181419 - pheonixinstinct (04/15/2015) [-]
anyone know a good place to watch all of the gravity falls episodes?
User avatar #181411 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/14/2015) [-]
When working with c1 v1= c2 v2 problems how do you know what first v1 is?
User avatar #181422 to #181411 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
V1= original volume.
V2 = is the new volume.
Make 5mL of a 0.25M solution from 2.5mL of a 1M solution.
User avatar #181423 to #181422 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
so v1= 2.5mL c1=1M, v2=? and c2 =0.25M
User avatar #181437 to #181423 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
thanks I feel less confused. I can always solve the problems I just find labeling them the hardest..
User avatar #181438 to #181437 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
no problem, with all the v1c1, p1v1, t1/v1, etc; i always label the things it gives you as the 1's and what it wants as 2's
User avatar #181439 to #181438 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
I got moles down so easy but these dilution shits are almost impossible... not sure why I struggle with them so much.
User avatar #181440 to #181439 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
well dilutions are always mols/liter which will equal Molarity.

so if we have 6.1mols of H2SO4 and we mix it with 2.15L of solution. What will our molarity be?
User avatar #181441 to #181440 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
It's 12 am for me and I'm writing a paper, so I don't have time to solve it but you'd take the molecular weight of H2SO4 and that will = grams then you'll convert moles to ml and ml to L and then divide the L by the grams yea?
User avatar #181443 to #181441 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
well no actually you just divide the mols by the liters
so it would be 6.1mols/2.15L=x

you're just overthinking it, it i did give you grams of H2SO4 you'd have to convert using the combined molarmasses of what makes it up, same thing if i gave you mL instead of L.
Molarity or concentration is always Mols/Liters
User avatar #181444 to #181443 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
blah okay thanks. My exam for that class is thursday so I'll contact you tomorrow for help with last minute studying?
User avatar #181445 to #181444 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
sure man, i'm actually training to be a highschool chem teacher
User avatar #181448 to #181445 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
nice so this will be good practice? Funnily enough this is all for my microbiology class. I have over 200 note cards for that class alone.
User avatar #181449 to #181448 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
ohhh.. i miss microbiology, was a fascinating class. i love chemistry, and it's been better than my last job in the oil field
User avatar #181450 to #181449 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
I'm a bio major because I love anatomy and physiology but chem is my worst enemy. also congrats your account is a year old now :p
User avatar #181452 to #181450 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
oh damn it is? huh, this is actually my second account, i can't remember my old password of my old account
User avatar #181453 to #181452 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
ah that sucks
User avatar #181454 to #181453 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
ehh.. c'est la vie, that's life
User avatar #181457 to #181454 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
so how's your life going?
User avatar #181458 to #181457 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
could be a hell of a lot better, but then again, i'm not homeless, have a decent family and not hungry
User avatar #181465 to #181458 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
high school students are shits, you didn't like the oil company?
User avatar #181466 to #181465 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
no, got fired, and eh. rather deal with them than middleschoolers
User avatar #181463 to #181458 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
nah just a pre med student and a micro bio class is a pre rec. You/?
User avatar #181464 to #181463 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
graduated last year, bacherlors in chem, did a year with a oil company, but got laid off and now doing a teacher certification course to become a high school chem teacher.
User avatar #181460 to #181458 - hoponthefeelstrain (04/15/2015) [-]
those are all good things
User avatar #181461 to #181460 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
yep, going for your bacherlor's in microbio?
User avatar #181409 - thisistheguy (04/14/2015) [-]
Was planning on going through a bunch of National Parks in USA/Canada, anyone have any suggestions? Obviously I would FUCKING love to go west, but anywhere close to the midwest would be fantastic to start at least, I live outside Chicago
User avatar #181407 - lskovfoged ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
Hello FJ'ers, from time to time I come to this board with shit I've been through, asking for advice, since I'm rather open about my life, especially since this is the internet and none of you people know me. But some of you who browse this board, or browse FJ in general might have a harder time asking for advice with some more difficult things you've been through.

So, if there are any of you here on the advice board, who have a hard time posting, due to the possibility of a lot of random people knowing about your problems, I wanted to give the offer of talking to a person in private, in this case, the person being me. The things I have been through includes a lot of family problems, most prominently sexual abuse. I'd like to share with you guys what I have learned from my experiences and with especially what I have been through, I know that it might take a lot of strength to tell more than one person at a time, especially FJ.

I won't judge people, I am just here to provide advice. I like to try and make people feel better, since it also makes me feel better in a sense. If any of you are interested in this PM me and I'd more than happily share my contact information with you guys, so we can have a talk.

TL;DR: If any of you have some severe problems that you have a hard time talking to multiple people about, for instance if you have been the victim of sexual abuse or other things in that manner, I'd like to offer my advice in private at least. PM me or reply and I'll share my contact information with you guys.
#181418 to #181407 - anonymous (04/15/2015) [-]
if only there were some kind of advice board where people could post anonymously
User avatar #181485 to #181418 - lskovfoged ONLINE (04/15/2015) [-]
If you checked what I wrote, then it was for the few that have a hard time posting, due to not wanting a lot of people knowing at once
User avatar #181417 to #181407 - confusedasian (04/15/2015) [-]
I wiped my butt, but there's always still poop.
User avatar #181486 to #181417 - lskovfoged ONLINE (04/15/2015) [-]
You need one of those french things that sprays you ass with water
User avatar #181395 - fukinitech (04/14/2015) [-]
have a clogged ear, dont know if its water or wax but its been btohering me for about a week or so, and i could barely hear anything from my left ear today, how to get rid of?
User avatar #181428 to #181395 - mondominiman (04/15/2015) [-]
Go to the Dr. That shit happened to my left ear and I didn't do anything for 2 weeks. I was practically deaf in 1 ear. Anyways I finally visited the dr and later that day it was back to normal. They just shoot water into your ear to flush whatevers in there out. They use a syringe with like some thin tube in place of a needle.
User avatar #181412 to #181395 - sugoi (04/14/2015) [-]
Fly to china and get a professional ear cleaner to do it for about tree fiddy.
An Idiot Abroad 3 - Episode 3 - Warwick's Ear Wax

Or get family to do it or something.
User avatar #181408 to #181395 - shaunata (04/14/2015) [-]
Take a eye dropper, suck some peroxide in it, and have someone drop the peroxide in your ear, if that dont work, then idk what to do.
User avatar #181403 to #181395 - kegget ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
Go to your doctor and ask him/her to clean your ears, they just use a little suction thing
I get mine cleaned every so often
User avatar #181396 to #181395 - solislunis (04/14/2015) [-]
They make candles you can use to help suck out the wax. If it is water, just lean you head towards that ear more often. If anything, you can take a decongestant, probably help clear the sinus in your ear canal.
User avatar #181397 to #181396 - fukinitech (04/14/2015) [-]
im really worried about it
User avatar #181398 to #181397 - solislunis (04/14/2015) [-]
Go to a doctor? Better place to start is how did it start, did it occur after you swim or just randomly start?
User avatar #181399 to #181398 - fukinitech (04/14/2015) [-]
randomly started, i clean my ears out with q tips but this is like deep in my ear, depper than where you're suppose to go with q tips
User avatar #181429 to #181399 - mondominiman (04/15/2015) [-]
also don't use qtips. Wash your ears out in the shower.
User avatar #181401 to #181399 - solislunis (04/14/2015) [-]
Have you tried yawning, or chewing gum? It can help to release pressure differential that can get stuck in your inner ear.
User avatar #181402 to #181401 - fukinitech (04/14/2015) [-]
i chewed gum the other day and it didn;t work , ive put hydrogen peroxide in my ear and it hasnt reallly worked
User avatar #181416 to #181402 - solislunis (04/15/2015) [-]
One thing I've tried in the past is to force your jaw forward and try to pop, and that helps to relieve the pressure off the sinus around your inner ear.
#181391 - confusedasian (04/14/2015) [-]
Last I remember, Lucifer took over Sam's body. Anyone know where I can watch the other episodes?
supernatural funny moments Last I remember, Lucifer took over Sam's body. Anyone know where I can watch the other episodes?
User avatar #181400 to #181391 - lskovfoged ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
You can watch a lot of them on Netflix, else I've just been finding random sites which has been taken down by now, sorry that I am not of much help.
User avatar #181385 - perfectcomment (04/14/2015) [-]
Guys, quick question if you don't mind.

Having a fight over Facebook which in the first place is pathetic, but it's over vaccinating your child. Now, I'm pro vaccination because if it weren't for vaccinations, it's fair to say we probably wouldn't be here right now.

Now, there's this girl on Facebook who is apparently anti vaccination, or that's what I'm getting the feeling of. I'll quote one of her messages here.

"It's the choice of the parents whether to vaccinate a child or not, it's a hard decision because on one hand your child could react badly, but on the other your child could get an illness and has a severe reaction to that instead, but then nothing could happen at all. It's not the internets choice whether to vaccinate a child. A Doctor would never force upon someone, so why should a lot of uneducated nutters?"

Now, she has a fair point (I think) about your child could potentially react badly to a vaccination however I think it's very, very low (If someone had any citation, that'd be great.) but the idea of not vaccinating is genuinely stupid as a whole, and I say that with confidence.

So, does anyone have any links to well sourced websites about vaccinations? Pros and cons are good because not everything is perfect. Thanks in advance.
User avatar #181474 to #181385 - iliekcereal (04/15/2015) [-]
The chances of someone reacting poorly to a vaccine is very rare. i'd say probably a fraction of a percent, depending on the vaccine

however, measles, for example, is something you have a 90% of catching if you're exposed to a sick person. as a result, all it would take for a measles epidemic is for 80% or less of the population to receive the measles vaccine. I'm probably wording that poorly, but i hope you get the idea
#181387 to #181385 - dragx (04/14/2015) [-]
Tell her to ask google;')
Tell her to ask google;')
User avatar #181388 to #181387 - perfectcomment (04/14/2015) [-]
I didn't see the GIF load but I knew exactly what was about to happen - a might kek.

She didn't say theey cause autism though :/
User avatar #181389 to #181388 - dragx (04/14/2015) [-]
Her argument seems intelligently structured, but what's the pretext? what's she arguing specifically?
#181392 to #181389 - perfectcomment (04/14/2015) [-]
My friend posted the pic attached to this comment and his sister commented the following:

Seriously Steven. You can't force everyone to get their child Vaccinated. It's their choice whether they want to risk they're child dying through the injection or risk an illness that could kill them. Anybody who'd actually done any research on the subject wouldn't think it's a straight up choice! As a mother you have an instinct to tell you if something is going to hurt your child and if you get it about Vax's and then go against it because of what people are saying about you and loose your child, you'd be completely broken.
Don't force an uneducated opinion because you haven't got kids. You wouldn't understand how hard of a choice it is knowing the facts!

there's more if you like, too.
#181413 to #181392 - puapet (04/14/2015) [-]
you might want to post this on her wall to finish that thread and educate everyone else who might be infected by her ignorance.

#181393 to #181392 - dragx (04/14/2015) [-]
I don't really need to see anymore;')
Motherly instinct =/= years of medical research and findings.
She can think whatever the fuck she wants to? Your child risks a lot less from the vaccination, and the vaccination is the only option with the capability to cure your child. You can watch it die, or try to help it, but you're not doing the child any favours by refusing to give it the treatment it needs because your bullshit instinct tells you otherwise.
There's a fine line between, i know what's good for my child and what i want for my child.
User avatar #181394 to #181393 - perfectcomment (04/14/2015) [-]
Fucking this.


Thank you, my friend. She won't even re comment now, see's been rekt. 100% rekt. 1000000% rekt.

I'm gonna thumb up every single thing you post for a month.

You marvelous bastard.
#181490 to #181394 - dragx (04/15/2015) [-]
Ahaha, glad I could help ma man
User avatar #181404 to #181394 - youngneil ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
I guess you could say it was a... pretty good and well worded comment.
User avatar #181406 to #181404 - perfectcomment (04/14/2015) [-]
that wasn't, on the other hand

love u tho
User avatar #181390 to #181389 - perfectcomment (04/14/2015) [-]
I'll post the comments, just give me a second pal
User avatar #181379 - gharshi ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
fuck, just got rejected. dammit, she was adorable too. plz tell me how bad I fucked up

A: how’s it going with the baking?
K: Haha. I haven’t actually gotten very far at all…
A: join the mall later? you can just buy one there
K: tbh, I don’t know if you’re being serious or not. cx
K: but anyways, I can’t xD
A: why aren’t you sure wether I mean it or not
K: Haha. dunno :3 was just so random
A: haha, all of my friends had longer school hours than me, and I didn’t wanna go alone, m8
K: oohh...
K: why do they stay longer than you then?
A: I don’t have gym class :v
K: ah...
K: you never have gym?
A: nah, I have a long term knee injury
K: oh.. wish I was injured.. so I wouldn’t have to have gym
A:well, anyways I wanted to go to the mall to buy that geometry thingy,, would be chill if you came alone, but yeah sure:/
K: sorry, m8
K: 🙈
A: (Y)
K: ^_^
A: more cake for me, I guess B| peaacee
K: Haha! yepp. Have fun (Y)

I've spoken to her twice in real life and she seemed genuinely interested. what did I fuck up guise
#181674 to #181379 - joshualegitsky ONLINE (04/16/2015) [-]
It seems like a conversation between friends. You didn't ask her out anyways. If you like her and wanted it to be a date don't use her situation to make a date. Say come to my house and well bake a cake. Or lets bake a cake together. If you want a date say, lets have dinner to forget about that stuff. Ask her on a date if you want to date. Tell her you like her if you like her. Shit man I'm in this super confusing are they or aren't they relashinship and all you need to do is ask a girl out. Not that hard. Ask yourself right now. Friend or love.
#181386 to #181379 - dragx (04/14/2015) [-]
Yeah shit, I agree with Benka
It's good to not look desperate, but shit, you made it look as if the only reason you'd want her to come is for company cause you had nobody else. You last resorted her, then called her m8.
Bad move, m8;')
User avatar #181380 to #181379 - Benka (04/14/2015) [-]
haha, all of my friends had longer school hours than me, and I didn’t wanna go alone, m8

right there
User avatar #181381 to #181380 - gharshi ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
fuck, yeah I thought that was the fuckup-point since she answered with "oohh...". why was it such a bad answer? I was just doing damage control from after she told me she couldn't go
User avatar #181382 to #181381 - Benka (04/14/2015) [-]
well she knew you were doing damage control, plus you could have said you just wanted to hang with her or something. Instead you went with "all my friends don't have time so I guess you can come" lol
User avatar #181383 to #181382 - gharshi ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
oh god, it sounds so fucking bad now that you mention it. fuck, man. I really liked this one. she was gorgeous. should I just give up because it's beyond repair? or what should I do? I don't trust my judgement anymore
User avatar #181384 to #181383 - Benka (04/14/2015) [-]
lol I'm not some expert,but this is really nothing. Just try again and don't bitch out and follow through next time. If she rejects you again then you'll at least know it wasn't because you fucked up. But maybe try talking with her a bit more than a couple of times before you try again
User avatar #181376 - skoldpaddacommala (04/14/2015) [-]
Looking for an apartment again in Southern California. My monthly net income is ~$1204. The U.S. Department of Housing and Urban Development says my rent shouldn't exceed 30%; so I can afford only up to $360/mo rent.

How accurate is this figure for you guys who are renting right now? I need a place, but fat chance I'll find something this cheap around here. Kind seems impossible really.
#181371 - anonymous (04/14/2015) [-]
Anyone had any succesful relationships when you aren't sure whether or not you want to date them but go in anyway with the uncertainty? It seems kind of a dick move, but I imagine good things may be able to come from it. I just haven't met someone who I was 100% sure I wanted to date, and that seems like what people do when they date.
User avatar #181366 - guiguito (04/14/2015) [-]
Would you date someone for the sole prupose of not hurting her feelings? If the person in question loves you and you enjoy your time together but you don't want to date her or rather be with someone else.
User avatar #181375 to #181366 - foreveranonymous (04/14/2015) [-]
I did that once, wasn't worth it
User avatar #181370 to #181366 - titsmccracken (04/14/2015) [-]
No, that's actually kind of cruel. That fakes her out into thinking you do have romantic feelings for her and her emotional attachment will just get stronger. Plus don't waste your time dating someone you don't actually want to be with.
User avatar #181368 to #181366 - alexanderburns ONLINE (04/14/2015) [-]
probably not
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