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#183540 - anon id: c60d5f7b
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#183530 - anon id: 747e1828
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I've had depressing thoughs all day. I've realised how few friends are left for me and how irrelevant I have become for the ones that still remain. I feel useless and without a purpose in life. And I don't want to tell any of them because some are in a sad state too or because I'd worry them.

I don't know what to do. Who to talk to about this.
#183539 to #183530 - livinglegacy
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I've been in a similar position. I became pretty depressed when certain things happened in my life. I'd stopped talking to my friends, and thought they'd given up on me or what have you. But it turns out they'd thought I'd just left them alone, not the other way around.

It sounds like you care about your friends, and that's great. When I have problems of my own, I try to distract myself by helping my friends with their problems, and I usually at least take something from it to better my own problems in the process, since I'm looking at problems from a different perspective. Maybe you could try that?

If all else fails and you need to talk to someone, you could PM me. I know it's not the same as talking to someone you know, but at least it's something. I'd like to help if I can.
#183545 to #183539 - anon id: 747e1828
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That'd be great, but I don't mean to bother you. Maybe if tomorrow I keep feeling this way I may PM you but as I said I don't want to be a nuisance.

Also I try to help some friends with their problems but sometimes they just don't trust me enough to tell me their actual issues because we're not close enough. There is also this other girl that is always whinning about everything so helping her sometimes it's just impossible.

But the worst part is feeling like I don't belong anywhere. I feel out of place with my college mates, my old friends have other people to talk to and when I meet new persons (rarely) they are just so well fitted in a group that I feel that trying to get into it it's just a waste of time.

Well, sorry I overtalked. Thank you.
User avatar #183556 to #183545 - jordoguy
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All this sounds extremely similar to me right now
#183546 to #183545 - livinglegacy
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It wouldn't be a bother to me, and I don't feel like you've overtalked. If I can help you out even a tiny bit, it's not a waste of time, and you seem like you've got a fair bit to talk about. If you don't want to wait until tomorrow, you don't have to. Don't worry about inconveniencing me, I'm only offering in the first place because it wouldn't inconvenience me. If you do end up PMing me, I'll do the best I can to help you out.
User avatar #183513 - stegosaurusrah
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this goes out to the boys reading:
why would a guy give me his number, only to never text me back? he seemed into me, and wouldn't stop complimenting me, but when i texted him last night i didn't get a reply and still haven't. should i give up hope?
also, when i tried to leave him my number he stopped me and gave me his, saying that his phone was ded, despite the fact i was about to write it on the back of his hand. could this be because he has a GF and doesn't want to seem suspicious?
User avatar #183533 to #183513 - SOUL CRUSHER
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Could be any number of things. I've done it before but maybe you were just practice
User avatar #183554 to #183533 - stegosaurusrah
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:'(
User avatar #183521 to #183513 - thebestpieever
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If it was last night he could just be busy.
But honestly I've done this. Not out of any ill will or anything. It's just that in the moment my predominating thought is "I really like this girl". While in my spare time my foremost thoughts are "I don't have time, I have to get this done by tomorrow, I don't want anything too serious right now". And then I just end up not speaking to them again. But as I said, it's been a while since I was looking for a serious relationship, so he might not be in the same channel as me.
User avatar #183523 to #183521 - stegosaurusrah
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oh ok. but do you think i should try writing to him again? or is that too desperate?
User avatar #183524 to #183523 - thebestpieever
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Wait until the middle of the afternoon.
User avatar #183525 to #183524 - stegosaurusrah
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but it's evening already!should i just wait for tomorrow or would that be too late?
keep in mind we met in da club but hung out and talked for a good portion of the night and the day after
User avatar #183526 to #183525 - thebestpieever
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Well... at what time did you sent him that text and what time is it now where you are?
User avatar #183527 to #183526 - stegosaurusrah
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i sent it last night at like 10 30 and it is now 8 15 pm
User avatar #183528 to #183527 - thebestpieever
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Oh. Ok that does seem a little bit like avoidance. Not dangerously so, but it does seem weird. Well, I wouldn't text him again just yet 'cause it's still within possibility he just hasn't seen it. But if you wrote again I don't think it would be weird after almost a day.
User avatar #183555 to #183528 - stegosaurusrah
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ok thanquard
#183514 to #183513 - softdoritocat
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>never text back
>"so i texted him last night"
>NEVER
>less than 24h

top kek.

"could this be because he has a GF and doesn't want to seem suspicious?"

Wow, you're a piece of shit, you know that?
User avatar #183515 to #183514 - stegosaurusrah
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i meant that he might have a GF THAT I DON'T KNOW ABOUT!!!
i've only just met the guy, i'll have you know
#183517 to #183515 - softdoritocat
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Oh, ok, in that case fair enough.


You texted him last night. It's probable that he didn't even read that message yet - sometimes when my phone dies I don't use it for couple of days. If he doesn't in a day or two then he's probably not interested and gave you a number just for shits&giggles.
#183518 to #183517 - softdoritocat
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*If he doesn't REPLY in a day or two
User avatar #183519 to #183518 - stegosaurusrah
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ok. i'll be keeping my fingers crossed

but what about the GF hypothesis? i met him in a club and he kept going back to talk with this one girl in particular in his group of friends, and i'm starting to think that might have been his GF. and he kept disappearing, prolly to search for his bro who vanished with his coat, but maybe not? but surely noone would be stupid enough to cheat in the same club as their SO, would they? am i being side chick-ed?
sorry for harassing you but i need to vent
#183520 to #183519 - softdoritocat
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I doubt it... First of all, put yourself in position of that girl. If she really was his gf, she surely would notice that's something is up and would probably follow her bf instead of letting him go away.

Second, he would probably hug her/kiss her at some point during the night so you would notice. I think it was just his friend. Maybe he talked to her a lot because they're really good friends? Maybe she was visiting him from a different city so he was making sure she's fine? Maybe it was his sister? Like, there are millions of possibilities, don't over-think this. I seriously doubt it was his gf, like you said, it would be a really dumb move to hit on you in front of his girlfriend and his friends...

"and he kept disappearing" - yeah, well, this is what happens in the clubs. Every time I go out it feels like I spend 90% of the time on looking for my friends who keep on disappearing
#183522 to #183520 - stegosaurusrah
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you're right mon, thanks!!   
this is for you
you're right mon, thanks!!
this is for you
#183503 - gharshi
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how would you go about dealing with irrational as well as overprotective parents?   
   
there's something wrong with my liver and the doctors have been trying to figure out the problem for the past week without any answer. my parents insist that we go to a private practice extremely expensive doctor who is really absolutely no better than the team of doctors we get for free at the normal hospital. dealing with them has been 1000 times harder than dealing with the disease and we pretty much fight every single day.   
   
now the doctors want to take a biopsy of my liver which is absolutely not dangerous at all, but my mother is crying her eyes out begging me not to do it because apparently she knows better than doctors with 30 years of experience.    
   
she locked herself in her room and she's crying right now. I also got angry because of all the shit she's putting me go through with her fucking stupid reasoning abilities at a point where she's supposed to be the rational and supportive parent.    
   
I'm scared as fuck myself and my parents are being a couple of fucking 5 year old babies that I have to babysit and deal with on top of all the pain and anxiety for my condition. what the fuck do I do?
how would you go about dealing with irrational as well as overprotective parents?

there's something wrong with my liver and the doctors have been trying to figure out the problem for the past week without any answer. my parents insist that we go to a private practice extremely expensive doctor who is really absolutely no better than the team of doctors we get for free at the normal hospital. dealing with them has been 1000 times harder than dealing with the disease and we pretty much fight every single day.

now the doctors want to take a biopsy of my liver which is absolutely not dangerous at all, but my mother is crying her eyes out begging me not to do it because apparently she knows better than doctors with 30 years of experience.

she locked herself in her room and she's crying right now. I also got angry because of all the shit she's putting me go through with her fucking stupid reasoning abilities at a point where she's supposed to be the rational and supportive parent.

I'm scared as fuck myself and my parents are being a couple of fucking 5 year old babies that I have to babysit and deal with on top of all the pain and anxiety for my condition. what the fuck do I do?
#183531 to #183503 - livinglegacy
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It's hard to deal with irrationality, because you can't debase it with the logic of "They need to do this liver biopsy to make me better". The best thing I can think of is to agree with her and confirm to her that you know and understand why she's being irrational and doesn't want the biopsy, i.e. she cares about you, and you understand that, but then disagree with her and tell her you need the doctors to do their job so you can get better, so she doesn't have to worry anymore. That kind of "give and take" approach tends to help with people who approach things irrationally.
#183532 to #183531 - livinglegacy
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But at the same time, just keep in mind she's irrational because she's deeply worried about you. She doesn't know what a liver biopsy is. It probably sounds serious and scary to her. She doesn't know what's going on, and she's probably afraid to lose you. I know it's frustrating, but she DOES seem to be genuinely worried and concerned for your safety, even if it is a bit too much.
User avatar #183534 to #183532 - gharshi
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Thanks m8, I'll try to talk to her in a more sympathetic tone. I know she cares a lot, that's why I don't simply iignore her. Maybe I'll show her some YouTube videos and explanations of the process
#183538 to #183534 - livinglegacy
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Once she knows there's nothing to worry about, I'm sure things will calm down a bit. Good luck, and I hope everything works out with your mother and your liver.
#183535 to #183534 - livinglegacy
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Sounds like a great idea! Helping her understand it's not dangerous and that it's just to get better should put her at ease and lower the tension a great deal. She just wants to see you get better, it's not her fault she doesn't understand the process.
User avatar #183511 to #183503 - stegosaurusrah
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tell them you will get a restraining order against them if they don't pull themselves together
#183505 to #183503 - notred
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It's your choice in the matter if your over 18.

If not then you just have to deal with it.
User avatar #183506 to #183505 - gharshi
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yeah I am over 18, that's why she's so butthurt about it. until now my parents have had the authority to make every single stupid fuck cunt decition they wanted for me. now that they can't, I have to deal with their over reacting bullshit.

I know they want the best for me, and I try to be sympathetic but I don't need their bullshit right now. I was kinda looking for a way to keep everyone happy
User avatar #183507 to #183506 - notred
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Then don't even concern them. Just do what you need to do. You don't have to inform them of wiping your own ass do you? It's called growing up and they need to as well. You aren't the baby they think you are.
User avatar #183496 - kingkittan
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My girlfriend of 1 year broke up with me yesterday, she says that right now she feels like she doesn't want a relationship, like at all. I did convince her to think it over some more, but needless to say I'm having trouble holding it together cause for the longest time I thought she was the one for me, you know? She does say we have this inseperable bond and will most likely stay friends, but I'm obviously scared we won't follow through on that as well.

How do I suppress the pain I'm feeling right now, how do I let go?
#183516 to #183496 - softdoritocat
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Your gf is a teen, isn't she? Sorry to break it to you, but I'm 99% sure she just found someone else.

>How do I suppress the pain I'm feeling right now, how do I let go?

Try to go out with a different girl. I know you don't really feel like it, but it'll help.
User avatar #183497 to #183496 - tikitaco
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You just need to distract yourself with a hobby, or something you do/can start doing in your daily life that will just make it hard for you to think about her because of the lack of time you'll have and how busy you'll be. Can you think of anything?
User avatar #183498 to #183497 - kingkittan
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Well there's breakdance practice, drawing, watching tv shows, hanging with friends, playing GTA and I should be doing some more schoolwork.

Usually when I'm not doing anything else I text a bunch of friends, annoyingly this girl was/is like my best friend and the only person I texted consistently. I'm thinking when break is over in 2 weeks I'll be overwhelmed with schoolwork, but I'm still not looking forward to it.
User avatar #183499 to #183498 - tikitaco
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Snap, sounds like you do a lot already. Definitely look forward to these tasks with a positive and open mind, or you won't be able to enjoy them as much and most likely be distracted and not feel like doing them when the time comes.
User avatar #183500 to #183499 - kingkittan
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I definately will try man, I dont want to be depressed
User avatar #183501 to #183500 - tikitaco
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Best of luck to you!
User avatar #183502 to #183501 - kingkittan
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Thank you, really
#183536 to #183502 - puapet
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I did a bit of breakdancing over the last couple years and it's a great place to put your emotions into; pick up another power move or two. Don't let yourself dwell on the bad emotions, but don't avoid them all together. It hurts, it fkn sucks... but you are bigger than this!

"Opportunities to find deeper powers within ourselves come when life seems most challenging." - Joseph Campbell
User avatar #183537 to #183536 - kingkittan
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Thank you bboy puapet
#183488 - anon id: 4e51cf37
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I masturbated for the first time of my life to pictures of my sister. Should I just off myself now?
#183510 to #183488 - voiic
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oh i read shit like that somewhere
it was like a yahooanswers and a guy asked the same thing.

someone answered (a bit better written you are not fucked up in the head it's just that you dont go out enough and meet hot enough chicks so you lowered your standards so low to your own family.

just dont do it anymore and you'll be A okay.
except for the eternal disgust in yourself that you already did it once.
#183512 to #183510 - anon id: 4e51cf37
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I've never had a problem getting women. That's why I didn't masturbate. But... you know, there's something about her... something I don't get.
User avatar #183508 to #183488 - redandgreen
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You need therapy.
User avatar #183495 to #183488 - icefried
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gg no re
#183494 to #183488 - sugoi
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You better have meant either step sister or long lost sister mate.
#183504 to #183494 - anon id: 4e51cf37
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Well, I mean. I stopped living at home and seeing her every day when I was very young. Around 12 years ago.
User avatar #183489 to #183488 - whitelapras
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personally i think yes
#183481 - anon id: 36208e64
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I like this cashier at this grocery store nearby
We've talked a little when me and a group of friends were in but nothing else. Not sure if she's single but saw some of her co workers hitting on her with some of the most generic shit
How do I approach this situation?
User avatar #183490 to #183481 - whitelapras
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if they sell flowers where she works, go through the till and buy it there, after you get the receipt, aak for a pen a nd wrote your number on it. then give them both to her
#183478 - anon id: 7495d9e8
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How bad is it for me if I drink a redbull maybe once a month for school
#183492 to #183478 - anon id: d50c0d4e
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Once a month? Nigga I drink Burn every fuckin day at 10 a.m. You're gonna be ok.
User avatar #183491 to #183478 - Zarke
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Once a month isn't going to kill you. Just don't rely on it and form a strong habit.
#183479 to #183478 - anon id: 5102cd18
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>Drinking red bull at all

There is bull piss in that anyways, why would you fucking drink it?
#183476 - anon id: bd3d265a
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I decide to man up and give myself a little fucking dignity, discipline, and integrity, because I am reaching the age where I need to be able to start taking myself seriously..

The first problem I decided to overcome is a few fetishes I have from years of watching porn.
Anybody know a way to overcome them?
User avatar #183559 to #183476 - hirollin
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most women i know are kinkier than men. i wouldn't really give a shit unless it actually ruins a relationship.
User avatar #183509 to #183476 - bobvonbobby
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Talk to real women. Seriously. That's the biggest thing. You talk to regular women and get off the internet, you'll re-align yourself up with what you believe to be normal, because that's what you deem normal. Just because you get off on futanaari doesn't mean you're stuck like that forever.
User avatar #183486 to #183476 - makotoitou
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that depends on what they are
#183485 to #183476 - skoldpaddacommala
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Part of being a man would be accepting your sexual lifestyle, not denying it.
As long as your fetishes aren't hurting anyone, why the fuck would you want to get rid of them?
#183477 to #183476 - anon id: 5102cd18
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Futanaari
User avatar #183473 - chocolatepuppy
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Anyone knows where can i find more music like this?
www.youtube.com/watch?v=v6vla5fkOog
User avatar #183482 to #183473 - confusedasian
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System0 Over Version Something like this? Hate to say it, but you know those hour long videos with the cartoon pictures? You'll most likely find more on those youtube videos. Unless you like those cartoons, then go nuts. I'm not big on this music, this is all I have of the sort.
User avatar #183483 to #183482 - confusedasian
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Parousia - Parousia [Cytus OST] xi - Niflheimr (full version) Halcyon - xi (Full ver.) Alternatively, some of this might suffice.
User avatar #183484 to #183483 - confusedasian
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Oh by the way, chocolatepuppy I think this is along the lines of electronic music.
User avatar #183474 to #183473 - Zarke
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I don't know. Ask the /music/ board.
User avatar #183472 - bigblacknegro
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Quick, FJ!
Give me inspiration, i need some ideas for Tasks or points for a discussion to give my classmates after my presentation about the british government.
what do?
User avatar #183461 - xxazeritsxx
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there's a shooter in town, 3 dead. weird night.
User avatar #183480 to #183461 - nigalthornberry
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It happens.
I've seen countless people killed
#183463 to #183462 - xxazeritsxx
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srsly, not too far away. news has nothing or worth to say yet.
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#183451 - anon id: b6aaf01d
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I'm a guy, what sort of picture should I put on a dating site? I'm not hideously fat or deformed
User avatar #183475 to #183451 - Zarke
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One that clearly shows your face and your typical attire, and maybe one or two of you cleaned up a little bit.
User avatar #183453 to #183451 - titsmccracken
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Regular photos. The only dude pics that I don't dig are ones with lots of girls with them. That gives the " I'm a player here for pussy" vibe. Or dick pics. Other than that you should be fine.
#183448 - livinglegacy
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I can't sleep. I really can't fucking sleep. I'm a really heavy alcoholic, I've been drinking since I was 13, so 8 1/2 years. I quit two weeks ago,, and my problems started, I'd sleep maybe two hours every other day. I thought it was because I wasn't drinking, so yesterday I bought a handle (1.75 liters) and drank 3/4 of it, still only slept about 4 hours. Today, I asked my grandfather for a percocet, which knock me out almost as soon as I take them. No luck. Drank after I took it, still no luck. What the hell can I do to get some fucking sleep?
User avatar #183449 to #183448 - epicextreme
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www.iflscience.com/brain/scientists-reveal-how-our-body-clocks-reset
first thing you can try is letting your brain know when it is night and when it is day. for example if you stay up at night while looking at a bright computer screen, its like fooling your brain into thinking its day time. some people consider camping for a few days to get your brain used to natural sunlight. the tablets your using might not be suited to you. you should take a look at some different sleeping pills at a store. congrats on the 2 weeks sober though, dont assume that your lack of sleep is due to your lack of alcohol.
#183447 - anon id: 947af3d1
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anyone want any spaghetti? I have a fuckton spare over the disaster that just occured
so im bowling with a buddy and 2 girls are using the other lane beside us we didnt talk, we finished and left with a feeling that i should ask her on a date some time, i'm 20 so fuck it.
So they came outside and after working up the huge courage it takes to ask a girl for a number or on a date (this is very out of my character)
I walked up to her and asked "Hi I understand this may seem a strange question but could I please have your number?"
and the both of them just laughed.
Do they think its funny? funny that i've just made a complete fool of myself? I left.
with a feeling of humiliation but most of all pure rage.
why do girls think its fine to just laugh people away do they not realise that what I've done is really humiliating in the first place? my confidence has just gone beyond ground zero.
User avatar #183487 to #183447 - makotoitou
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>bowled next to them
>didn't talk
>"I should ask her on a date"

knees weak arms are heavy
User avatar #183458 to #183447 - nachoiscool
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(05/04/2015) [-]
hang in there dude
User avatar #183439 - Cobaltsushi
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I got a weed wacker that wont start. I dont know the right word for it but it sounds like a socket wrench when I try to start it. Does anyone know a fix?
User avatar #183443 to #183439 - epicextreme
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maybe the gears are worn down, i'd suggest just carefully taking it apart at the base and put it back together again, you may find a peice thats broken or worn down in the process
User avatar #183445 to #183443 - Cobaltsushi
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Sounds like a plan, thanks!
User avatar #183429 - faptasticky
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How do I submit a profile picture?
#183444 to #183429 - livinglegacy
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In the top right, you'll see your account name and "Logout". Click the name, you'll be brought to your profile. It says Funnyjunk Member's Area, underneath which is Account Controls. You'll see Edit Account/Profile, Account and Privacy Options, and Upload Profile Pictures. Click the last one. From there, it's just like uploading an image for a comment.
#183423 - anon id: b5957dca
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I've been dating a girl for about a month now, but it's long distance so we've only been able to go on 4 dates bc school. Over the summer we plan on spending much more time with each other bc no school. So far the furthest we've gone is making out; is this at normal pace for a relationship like this, or should things be going slower or faster? I've never really been in a serious relationship before so I'm not entirely sure what I'm doing lol
#183446 to #183423 - livinglegacy
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That's the beauty of relationships. You can go as slow or as fast as you both want to. As long as neither of you think it's too fast or slow, it's fine. That being said, that's still a date a week, which is a good enough sign a girl is into you even if they live close. She's basically making time every week to see you even though she lives far away, so you should be fine, don't worry about it. If you feel close enough to her, you could even let her know about any future problems, and let her know it's your first serious relationship and that you just want to do things right and she could give you better advice than we can. If she's actually serious, she'd take it as a good sign that you're willing to communicate. Relationships are all about communication, man, so you can find what works for both of you.
User avatar #183471 to #183446 - hirollin
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(05/04/2015) [-]
aww
thats a nice fantasy. hope that is reality for someone somewhere.
#183459 to #183446 - anon id: b5957dca
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Thank you so much for taking the time to answer, this is great advice. We have another date planned soon and I'll definitely bring some of this up with her.
#183529 to #183459 - livinglegacy
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Sounds great! Just try to bring it up slowly, ease her into it. Test the waters, so to speak. Whatever the case, I think you'll do fine, and I wish you the best of luck.
#183436 to #183423 - anon id: 6b2c0bd3
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4 dates in a month ain't bad bruh

We're not dating but I only get to see a close female friend on holidays
#183427 to #183423 - flufflepuff
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go your own pace, or whatever feels natural.
#183418 - muchname
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star wars republic commandos keeps .exe crashing on launch   
what do
star wars republic commandos keeps .exe crashing on launch
what do
#183450 to #183418 - epicextreme
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try piloting a little better to prevent crashes.
try piloting a little better to prevent crashes.