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#178443 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I finally realize how fucking annoying it is for girls when they're bf's play video games all the time. This is annoying as shit. The girl i'm interested in does nothing but work and get home and play video games. This is so fucking unattractive I just can't deal. No we aren't fucking 12 where this would be acceptable, fucking grown ass people with jobs and careers. I mean, it's one thing to be shy and a homebody. It's one thing to be completely uninterested in someone too, but she is both interested and only wants to play video games all day. Not meet, not go on dates, not even be in the same room. Just either talk on the phone or skype, while playing video games.

My goodness. Such a complete turnoff.
#178486 to #178443 - icefried
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(03/21/2015) [-]
i want one of those
#178462 to #178443 - sugoi
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(03/21/2015) [-]
So play games with her you dingus.
#178455 to #178443 - haydn
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(03/20/2015) [-]
How long have yous been together? Maybe talk to her about it, don't try to change her tho that only usually goes one way.
#178444 to #178443 - awesomerninjathing
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(03/20/2015) [-]
is she hot at least
#178442 - newzalaman
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I want to date someone. But I can't find anyone I'm interested in. I have like 50 girls around me but not a single one that I can connect. Wat do?
#178445 to #178442 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Try out new hobbys. Join clubs that aren't inside of your normal friend groups, go to concerts festivals or whatever, any event that isn't in your town. Do vacations, meet friends of friends, there are lot's of possibilities.

As long as you are out there and try to find someone, you'll get lucky some time. Heads up man, you can do it.
#178437 - Zyklone
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I am buying my first home plz help

I am 23 and got my first credit card last year. My score is high and my income is around 20-25k annual. I am waiting for a Realtor to send me a pre-approval letter from their partner lender. [Any advise on paperwork?] The place im looking at is an apartment for 67k, payments of around 300 monthly. I will be in the office Monday, we will go see the place and talk more.

My Questions.
What are the right questions to ask, while across the desk from the nice Realtor?
What do I look for when I inspect the property?
How could I talk them into lower minimum payments? Can i get lower monthly, then pay off double each month to build awesome credit?
What are some big mistakes fist time buyer make?

TL;DR What do I ask when talking to a Realtor, and inspecting the property?
Pic not the house in question, just a cool brick house.
#178467 to #178437 - anon
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(03/21/2015) [-]
Get multiple copies of everything!
Ask previous tenants why they moved out ask future neighbors about noise
Don't try to talk it down yet! Wait about eight months to do so
#178476 to #178467 - Zyklone
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(03/21/2015) [-]
cant wait needs to happen ASAP
#178440 to #178437 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
get a contractor to inspect it.
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#178429 - theepicapple
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#178431 to #178429 - derpityhurr
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(03/20/2015) [-]
post it to 4chan, preferably /b/ or /r9k/
#178427 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
ITT: Users that dont deserve to have it so hard.

I'll start : Me.
#178446 to #178427 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Hey dude, heads up, its friday!
How was your week?
#178448 to #178446 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
meh, it could have been way worse
#178450 to #178448 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
>my 21st birthday was this week
>nothing really changed
>didnt celebrate and lied about it when my roomates tried to congratulate me, told them it was the wrong date and that i had no birthday
>been over a year since the last time i talked to oneitis, more 1 year and 7 months since i've seen her
>still hate myself because i couldnt win her
>still feel like shit
>lifting only makes me feel worse but i do it because i have to
>still no gf ever
>tierd
>stressed
>its only gonna get harder as the semester continues


even more important
>cities skylines came out
>it runs decently on very low setting
>my computer is no longer top quality hardware
>my computer will be two years old in a month
#178452 to #178450 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Happy birthday dude.

Lifting is a good thing, keep it up.

And you'll get over that girl once you meet the right person. It 's a different amount of waiting time for anyone, but it's gonna happen.

And as long as the game works, you shouldn't really be feeling bad about your computer.
#178453 to #178452 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
>meet the right person
>implying im not a borderline hermit
#178454 to #178453 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
What do you mean?
#178456 to #178454 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I am a legit outcast with 0 potential gfs.
#178457 to #178456 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Maybe at the moment. It just takes one second to change this situation.
Maybe there's a bird getting run over by a car while you're on your bike. You are distracted, so you get off the road and hit a tree. You're not hurt but there randomly happens to be a girl that wants to help you anyways. You talk and get to know each other BAM.

Let's forget this highly unrealistic scenario for one second and evaluate the point: It's all about luck and being at the right place at the right time. You can only make your chances better by putting yourself out there, being optimistic and by constantly trying to improve yourself.

I know you're trying, and I know it's frustrating but everyone has luck some time.
#178458 to #178457 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
>le random dice roll

no, fuck this, im out
#178459 to #178458 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
K.
#178460 to #178459 - dehumanizer
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(03/20/2015) [-]
its LITTERALY IMPOSSIBLE
#178461 to #178460 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Nah. It's all about luck and chances. There is no magic formula to get you a gf.
#178478 to #178461 - dehumanizer
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(03/21/2015) [-]
0.0025 x 0 is still 0
#178449 to #178448 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Well why are you complaining then?
#178425 - nastykoga
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(03/20/2015) [-]
where the fuck is everyone???
#178418 - padorak
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Before I begin I would like to thank the video game board and the advice board for giving us the ideas for this series my friends and I have been uploading on youtube.   
   
My friends Phil and Alek have been recording us playing GTA together and we've been making some videos for shits and giggles and we really like them. In the beginning we had horrible audio issues so we asked the boards and we were told to use Skype instead of Xbox chat and we are very happy with the results(along with a couple ideas in premiere).    
Hope you guys enjoy this video we made for this site and for our own enjoyment.   
   
Thanks for the advice.
Helicopter Disasters | GTA FUKT #1
Before I begin I would like to thank the video game board and the advice board for giving us the ideas for this series my friends and I have been uploading on youtube.

My friends Phil and Alek have been recording us playing GTA together and we've been making some videos for shits and giggles and we really like them. In the beginning we had horrible audio issues so we asked the boards and we were told to use Skype instead of Xbox chat and we are very happy with the results(along with a couple ideas in premiere).
Hope you guys enjoy this video we made for this site and for our own enjoyment.

Thanks for the advice.
#178415 - grannylulu
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(03/20/2015) [-]
How do I delete my account ?
#178417 to #178415 - sugoi
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(03/20/2015) [-]
You can't.
#178414 - notred
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(03/20/2015) [-]
>be end of shift
>I'm waiting for other person to show up, usually show up half an hour early
>10 minutes till end of shift and nobody is there
>Call her on her cell phone
>"Oh I'm at timmies, I'll be there"
>MFW she shows up 5 minutes till the end of the shift
>I make a comment how she is cutting it close and I won't be able to get off time cause of it
>I start packing my shit up and counting my money which takes about 20 minutes
>She is busy telling me how I'm wrong about packing my shit up
>MFW, I tell her the owner personally trained me on what I should and shouldn't be doing
>"Okay, first of all, I'm the owners granddaughter you can't talk to me that way"
>MFW "Sure"
>Keep counting my money and she still tells me that the owner is wrong on how to do things
>I say to her " I really don't appreciate you talking to me like this, I'm doing it the way the owner told me to do it, not your way"
>"Well, all the employees are going to hate you for it"
>MFW "That's fine. I work here by myself on midnights."

The rest of the time we are doing our change over was about 20 minutes. She was asking me if I took out the garbage and crap and blah blah, trying to be the boss of me. MFW the entire time pretty much.

INB4 I get fucking canned cause this cunt says I did shit that I didn't.

I'm just ranting.
#178420 to #178414 - amonahan
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Are there security cameras at your work? Yes = you're fine. No = Good luck
#178421 to #178420 - notred
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(03/20/2015) [-]
There are, but the store owner can have me fired since I'm on probation there.

If shit goes sideways I'll tell her what happened and hope for the best.
#178422 to #178421 - amonahan
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Doesn't matter. If they look at the cameras all they will see is you doing your job, and her showing up 5 mins before her shift. You're fine dude. Just try not to piss her off again and it should be all good. i.e. don't talk to her unless you HAVE to and if you do keep it PURELY business. i.e. Notred did you do this? Yes. Do you know how to do that? Yes. You know everyone hates you? (Ignore her, don't say anything). If it's about work answer in as short and precise answers as possible to answer the question.If it's about ANYthing else, just ignore her, saying something might get you canned.
#178424 to #178422 - notred
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Still doesn't mean I'm not going to get fired.
#178411 - iridium
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Since finding internships in my major can be difficult, I was thinking of possibly doing some volunteer work the next few months, just to get some hands on experience as well has have something nice to put on my resume.

So to anyone who has done volunteer work in the past: Has it helped you in any way? Did you enjoy it at all? How beneficial is it to have volunteer work experience? If you volunteered in the health sciences or psychology, are there places/areas you would recommend? Is it even worth it?
#178447 to #178411 - minutes
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I haven't done volunteer work so far, but I think there is no downside to it, you know?

As you said, you gain experience, connections and a nice thing for your resumee and something to talk about during an interview. Even if it turns out to be shit, you still get positive effects out of it. In my opinion you should just try it.
#178407 - thefunnyside
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Hey FJ! I'm writing something, and I wanted to ask, does it sound weird to say "a placid expression"? Thanks!

Context:_ Elizabeth stared out of the fog-painted window, looking at the winter's landscape with a placid expression._
#178410 to #178407 - iridium
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Grammatically it works, but I'm not sure if the syntax does or if the meaning is exactly accurate. I think the term placid better applies to the scenery than to a person's expression, since the word literally means "tranquill, undisturbed, calm".

Mind you I'm not an English major. Just something feels...off about that sentence.
#178416 to #178410 - thefunnyside
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Thanks man!
#178406 - theplanetearth
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I'm trying to find all of my personal information I left on the internet. Is there anything I can use to find it?
#178428 to #178406 - serhiy
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(03/20/2015) [-]
just Google your self , previously used aliases and your emails.
#178391 - theturkeyburger
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(03/20/2015) [-]
fj halp

I'm going backpacking tomorrow and I need a fuckton of water but I have one measly water bottle. I need quick substitutes that don't make me go out and buy anything. I'm talking like large pepsi bottles and shit (That's what I was thinking but I'd think that out in the hot sun with the plastic it might be unsafe)
#178396 to #178391 - delphine
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(03/20/2015) [-]
how long are you going backpacking for? You can buy gallon jugs of water at the grocery for super cheap but seriously, water is your most valuable supply that you need, don't be a cheapass with water. Do not drink river, pond, or lake water either unless you have something to sterilize the water with (boiling it might not get everything and you don't want to get giardia infection or anything)
#178390 - holymackarel
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Turns out the girl I like is aromantic. So do I keep pursuing in hopes that she feels different about me? Or do I give up? I definately cant approach this with your classic "Hey wanna go out with me" mentality, so I'm not sure what to do.
#178543 to #178390 - honzo
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(03/22/2015) [-]
this is like a day late, but depending on how old you are: someone saying they're aromantic doesn't have a whole lot of meaning if they're like 16. as for what was said below: it's a bit unlikely that you're just going to jump into a relationship, or dating for that matter, from the vibe i'm getting off of your post. starting off as friends is almost always a good thing, the slightly more daunting part is making sure that the friendship doesn't go too far and end up as the "friendzone", though even from there you might be able to get into dating her.
#178419 to #178390 - makotoitou
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(03/20/2015) [-]
pretty sure that's just a myth. A good dicking cures that shit ASAP.
#178397 to #178390 - delphine
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Like, what do you mean? Is she actually asexual or is she just uninterested in mushy sappy wine-and-dining?
#178398 to #178397 - holymackarel
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Im gonna go on a limb here and say that she isnt interested in mushy sappy wine and dining. Or relationships in general for that matter, she just isnt interested.
#178399 to #178398 - delphine
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Okay. Well, you can try and ask her to spend time with you and a group of friends or in a casual setting, something less structured because asking her on a date might scare her away. But if she says no, then don't push it you'll just make her uncomfortable.
#178400 to #178399 - holymackarel
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Well, but wont that give the impression that im just trying to be friends with her?
How do I push for that extra step, if you know what i mean
#178402 to #178400 - delphine
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(03/20/2015) [-]
You could try to ask her on a date. Somewhere very public and casual, something simple like asking if she wants to meet for coffee (or drinks if you're both over age). That way it sounds like it's just two of you, but coffee is a very noncommittal date so she doesn't feel pressured. Again, if she says no, don't keep pushing. Find someone else.
#178403 to #178402 - holymackarel
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Would I have to specify that it's a date i am taking her out on? I've gone to a local coffee shop with her once but it was very casual with a lot of awkward silences and I'm not sure how to take it.
#178405 to #178403 - delphine
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(03/20/2015) [-]
"I really enjoy talking with you. Would you want to grab lunch sometime?"
Lunch is a step up from coffee. More casual than dinner. If there are a lot of awkward silences, it sounds like it might be forcing things. A good sign would be if conversation came naturally and you had a lot of things in common to talk about.
#178389 - hidanfangirl
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I'm gonna start making an effort to avoid talking about stuff that makes me panicky and try to focus on my hobbies. I'm gonna do this not only for myself, but also for my friend Jaden. He's given me a will to live, and all he wants me to do in return is improve my life. Damn well I'm gonna do it. Is this a good thing?
#178392 to #178389 - cpawsome
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(03/20/2015) [-]
The more you talk about it, the easier it gets.
To this day I have things I wont talk about to people.
They don't panic me, but I feel depressed after.

Follow your friend, pamper him and make him feel at home. He's the best you got.
#178393 to #178392 - cpawsome
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I can talk about them to my friend.. he knows all my secrets but a few. We don't talk about them, but if I ever needed to I can.
#178388 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Just wash sheets.
Have a friend over
stinks up my bed
put febreeze on it

doesn't do anything
have smelly bed

have to rewash. all sorts of dissapointment.
#178383 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Can anyone identify a torn ACL in a knee MRI?
#178394 to #178383 - trocadero
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(03/20/2015) [-]
A doctor can.
#178379 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Guys a cop followed me all the way home without pulling me over after i had smoked weed with 2 buddies, what does this mean? what do
#178384 to #178379 - makotoitou
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(03/20/2015) [-]
it means stop doing drugs
#178385 to #178384 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
probably, i was wondering if there is gonna be another encounter or something, gotta mentally prepare for that shit
#178380 to #178379 - delphine
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Cop probably saw some suspicious activity, but not suspicious enough to actually pull you over, and wanted to follow you to make sure you got home safely. Not all cops are bad.
#178382 to #178380 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
thanks so comforting thank you but she did kinda looked like an asshole lol
#178401 to #178382 - pokemonstheshiz ONLINE
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(03/20/2015) [-]
"Cop was an asshole"
- says the anon that didn't get pulled over while driving under the influence of illegal drugs
#178374 - swallowedinthesea
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Guys, need some serious help here and i would really appreciate it if someone could help me out.
Started talking to this girl, seemed really nice and we got on great. But then one night she tells me about her ex, who used her, cheated on her and left her feeling worthless. They had been together for a year before things went downhill so she's struggling to move on.
but now she's becoming seriously depressed, suicidal thoughts, anorexic and cuts. I dont know how to deal with this sort of talk, ive been up for hours trying to convince her that she matters. But she's putting me in a position where i feel like id need to be her boyfriend to give her that feeling of worth thats she desperately needs. But i dont want that! And yet if i dont, I'm scared I'll lose her completely.
I know some people on the site have dealt with depression or helped people through it, and I'm really open to any advice at all.
#178387 to #178374 - anon
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(03/20/2015) [-]
I've had mixed results with this. Sometimes they feel genuinely happy when you bring stuff like the person below mentioned and sometimes they don't. Either with tears of happyness or tears of anger. One person thought that my worry and advice made it seem like she was insane and incapable while another was happy to know someone cares. My advice is this question. If you get into a fight or something happens to make her feel bad, how likely is she to do something she will regret? Can you handle this, and if it was your fault how would you react? If she is long distance than I'd say absolutely not, because you would be worried and couldn't do a thing about it which is terrible.

Really, I would say don't date. It's not worth it, that may seem shallow and cold, but really they shouldn't be dating at all until they are truly better. They just aren't in the right place for it.
#178409 to #178387 - swallowedinthesea
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Thank you! Made the right decision a lot clearer! I'll try being there for her without coming across too worried to try and avoid her feeling incapable.
#178375 to #178374 - iliekcereal
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(03/20/2015) [-]
First off, don't become her boyfriend until both of you are in a good situation. Any relationship you guys get into will (almost definitely) end badly. She's crazy right now, and I don't blame her. I would be too if my girl did that to me. But don't date her with intentions of fixing her. That will just make things bad for the both of you.

Second, being together in person really helps. When someone is in that type of situation, there's not a whole lot you can say to help them feel better. But being physically present will go a long way. Hugs are great as well (barring personal space issues or whatever). However, I understand that might not be convenient, possible, or even wanted on her part.

Chances are she won't kill or seriously injure herself. A lot of times people in that situation just say they want to, because they genuinely do, but they don't actually do that. Again, that's not a bad thing. I've been there before. If she's talking to you about this, that means she probably either really trusts you, or really needs a friend. Or likely a combination of both. So be her friend. Just talk to her about it. Ask honest questions. Point to the positives in her life, but don't make it seem like you're saying she doesn't have the right to be sad. Don't tell her what to do. That is an extremely important thing. You can make suggestions, but unless she specifically asks for your advice, do not tell her what to do. Empathize with her. Tell her you can understand why she feels that way. Talk about a similar experience you've had, if you've had one, but make sure you're not steering the conversation away from her problems to yours. Tell her what happened, what you did, how it worked out, and what, if anything you would have done differently. I've been on both sides of these types of situations, and I've found that empathizing in this way is the most effective thing you can do.

Hope this helps. Good luck! Let me know how it goes.
#178423 to #178375 - swallowedinthesea
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(03/20/2015) [-]
You were right, she just needed someone to be there. We just talked for a few hours about everything, she's still pretty scared, but definitely saw an improvement. I know you said she probably wouldn't actually take her own life but still, what you told me might have saved her, so i can't thank you enough!
#178432 to #178423 - iliekcereal
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Any time dude! Glad to hear it went well. If you need advice on something like this again, feel free to message me
#178408 to #178375 - swallowedinthesea
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(03/20/2015) [-]
Thank you so much! Going to see her today to try what you suggested.