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#197997 - demonican
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#197977 - anon id: 6041999f
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alright guys I've never had this situation before what the fuck do I do

I'm a pretty lonely guy I'll admit, until recently my friend has went back to uni and when he was back at home I got to hang out with him alot he talked to a girl a lot called ashley, I started talking to her also and soon enough we had an alright friendship triangle going on.

My friend always has girls at his disposle it seems he talks to loads and asks plenty of girls out on dates and shit.
now that he is back at uni me and Ashley talk quite a bit and she gives me some pretty strong signals I'd almost say she likes me, she tells me she loves me and stuff, says im funny all the time and I'm stuck on what to do?
I avoid them generally as I dont want anything to happen incase it makes me and my friend fall out badly as I get the feeling he likes her sometimes and tells me "remember you two are just friends"
I dont know why it bothers him since he lives down in London now while we're north of whales. and he has girls he can talk to.
is he being greedy? am I reading into her signals to much? should I ask her how she feels about me and vice versa? I want to know incase my friends absense makes our friendship dissolve and nothing happens at all.
User avatar #197983 to #197977 - skoldpaddacommala
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Just be straight with him and tell him you are interested in her. Don't make this a whole thing by assuming you know what he wants and is thinking. Maybe he's just joking with you like a friend. Better to lay your cards out on the table. If he's a real friend, he'll try to get you laid, not play stupid relationship games.
#197998 to #197983 - anon id: 6041999f
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They haven't dated before as anon thinks, they've only ever just been friends.
I was thinking of asking her where we stand together, ask if she's even interested before asking him he has a big mouth and he'll ask her about before I get the chance.
so I was going to:
ask where I stand
if she likes me I'll inform him and we'll talk it out
if she doesn't then there should be no need to tell him about it right? Should I talk to ashley about it first?
User avatar #197999 to #197998 - skoldpaddacommala
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You really think he'll fuck it up if you tell him you plan to ask her out? That's no friend.
Go ahead and make a move on this girl before this "friend" of yours can fuck anything up.
#198000 to #197999 - anon id: 6041999f
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thats the problem really, I feel like he'll give me an ultimatum like "you can have me as a friend or have as a girlfriend"
I know it sounds bad I just cant see it playing well with him. Can I PM you?
User avatar #198002 to #198000 - skoldpaddacommala
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Yea pm me
#197982 to #197977 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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You should really wait until they officially break up before you start thinking about getting with this girl. Regardless of your friend being "greedy" with women, they're still together and you should only be seeing this girl as a friend.
#197972 - anon id: f190058b
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Hi, i need help from someone who likes plants or is botanist. I am trying to cultivate cactuses, i have them inside plastic container that came with seeds and in every manual they say make holes into lid for your cactuses to get used to outside enviroment. And the problem is that, when? should i wait 2 weeks until they start to pop out and then make the holes or should i make them just now after 5 days after planting them?

What the manual says exactly is that in 2 weeks little cactuses will appear and 3/4 week from start i should start making the holes into the lid. But at what point is this start? Start as in when i have planted them, or start meant when they start to appear?
User avatar #198063 to #197972 - sineztro
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Start is after they appear
#197976 to #197972 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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#197966 - anon id: d90e47c3
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No point in denying it anymore, I'm an anorexic/bulimic. I avoid food as best I can, but when I do convince myself to eat a normal meal, or even half of one, I just can't stop myself from throwing it all up. Today I ended up purging twice - eating anything just makes me feel guilt, as if I could've gone without the extra calories.

Any advice on how I can stop this? inb4 'eat and don't puke' I've recently become a model, so that's impacting it even more.

Posting as anon because people know me here. Thanks FJ
User avatar #198073 to #197966 - darkbladept
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My mom went to a shrink and a nutritionist and she seems ok now.
User avatar #197975 to #197966 - skoldpaddacommala
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Have you told anyone close to you about this? Family/friend support is a great way to start.
Do you have the time to take a nutritional course at a local school/college? Could be a real eye opener.
Perhaps sign up for a personal training course at a gym so you can have a professional instructor tell you what to eat and set up a healthy food regiment.

Warning: Educational Guilt Trip
Throwing up repeatedly will lead to health issues down the road, like throat cancer. You don't want to talk through a microphone pressed against your throat.
Reduced food intake means less fat and muscle mass. You NEED fat to live! It keeps your joints cushioned and prevents them from wearing out at a young age. Fat keeps you warm! I have a friend who is always freezing because she has so little body fat. Without the extra mass and reduced nutritional intake, your bones become brittle and will eventually break for like no reason. Also, swimming is no fun because you've got no fat to keep you buoyant and no strength to move anyway. You become a rock.
If you are a female, once you get below a certain body fat percentage, your menstrual cycle becomes erratic and eventually shuts down. That may sound like a good thing, but the hormonal imbalance can really fuck up your body and development.
#197969 to #197966 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Start making your own food from scratch. The more effort you put into food, the more reluctant you'll be to waste it it. Make very small portions so it's easier on your stomach. This worked for me, but you'll have to try it out for yourself.
User avatar #197967 to #197966 - dreygur
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Change the mindset of food. Eat healthy, light food with plenty of nutritions, because you'll need it to keep the skin looking good. Don't be afraid to eat plenty of it, because more is just healthier, just watch that you aren't eating too much. Also, drink plenty.

Eating enough makes someone look much better than being anorexic.
User avatar #197965 - mayorman
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with people like hannibal lecter and the guy from american psycho (forgotten his name right now) who else fits the description of gentleman/murderer?
User avatar #197981 to #197965 - epicextreme
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Tom hardy, especially in the new film 'Legend' (Ron and Reggie Cray)
User avatar #197979 to #197965 - oxidoferroso
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A.H you know who I'm talking aobut
User avatar #197990 to #197979 - mayorman
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Ryan Haywood?
#197970 to #197965 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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James Bond.
User avatar #197962 - epicextreme
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how in the hell do you talk to girls on tinder? Here I am being the guy and expected to message 1st but be different and spontanious with my message even though all I have to go by is how tall she is?
How do I start a conversation but seem different enouph to give a reply to?
#197971 to #197962 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Be handsome or be funny. Other than that, if you're just looking for a quick lay, go for the 5/10 or the ones that don't get as much attention.
#197959 - anon id: bfc37d21
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I can't deal with this anymore

I've been trying the 'friends' thing with an ex and it's working great for her, but not for me.

How do I cut ties cleanly without backlash?
#197961 to #197959 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Slowly start to see less and less of her, like if you normally see her 3 times a week, cut it down to one. Every time she texts you, wait 25 minutes before responding and don't give an excuse why. Slowly get more busy so you have to cancel plans with her. Soon it'll be too much of a hassle to see you and she'll stop bothering.
#197963 to #197961 - anon id: bfc37d21
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By "Cut ties cleanly" I mean how do I end this right now
#197964 to #197963 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Do just that. Stop talking to her, delete her from all your contacts, block her, move to another town so you never have to see her again.
#197954 - mrxibir
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Guys, does anyone know good site where you can watch movies online, without any registration bullshit etc. ? Have a .gif for your troubles.
User avatar #197973 to #197954 - losan
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#197957 to #197954 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Megashare and Putlocker are the ones I always stick with. Just type in the movie you want to watch with online at the end and you should find it.
User avatar #197953 - cisdroidcommander
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my computer wants me to remove google chrome because it conatins trojan,patchbrowse. It wants me to remove it from control panel but the icon doesnt appear. how can i fix this?
User avatar #197978 to #197953 - skoldpaddacommala
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Download and run Malwarebytes. Avast Antivirus, too.
User avatar #197986 to #197978 - cisdroidcommander
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one more question. I dont wanna install something thats called malwarebytes but isnt malwarebytes. is this the right website? www.malwarebytes.org/
User avatar #197987 to #197986 - skoldpaddacommala
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User avatar #197991 to #197987 - cisdroidcommander
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the virus is gone, thank you. youve been really helpful. How long is the free trial?
User avatar #197993 to #197991 - skoldpaddacommala
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Not sure about the premium trial, I always opt out. The basic version is free forever so you don't have to worry about that. Scans and updates need to be run manually, however. So just try to run it every few weeks.
Also, consider installing uBlock Origin and HTTPS Everywhere extensions for chrome. They'll keep you extra safe. =P
User avatar #197994 to #197993 - cisdroidcommander
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Thats good to know. Thank you. im really happy this board exists
User avatar #197995 to #197994 - skoldpaddacommala
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Anytime brother
User avatar #197988 to #197987 - cisdroidcommander
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thanks once again
User avatar #197980 to #197978 - cisdroidcommander
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Thanks
User avatar #197951 - thumbsdenied
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So how much of a waste of time would it be for me to try out tinder as a maybe alittle bit lower than average looking guy?
User avatar #197984 to #197951 - epicextreme
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go for it, but from personal experience don't be picky or you will be disappointed. never swipe left its always a nice confidence boost to get a match from anyone regardless of their looks. regardless whether you get a girl/boyfriend out of it, it helps.
#197992 to #197984 - anon id: 6494bb80
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Well i was mostly picky about only hearthing the girls in my league, most of the girls look like models on there.
User avatar #197956 to #197951 - enlightednatzie
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Go for it dude
#197949 - muchname
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need some good photoshop torrents, yo. I'll give you one of my rare rick images in return
User avatar #198010 to #197949 - braveblue
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We want that Rick Grimes photo up front.
#197958 to #197949 - paintskillz
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just search for photoshop and pick any from the top ten seeders
#197946 - anon id: 3cf70d20
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Anyone know best/easiest way to "hack" a facebook game.
User avatar #197947 to #197946 - jacoban
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I assume the games work on flash? if possible download a standalone version, then try cheatengine. otherwise your only option is packet editing.
also, have some fucking dignity
User avatar #197945 - jacoban
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I need to add cash into my google play account, but have no access to a credit/debit card, and can't buy gift card because eastern eu. I only need like 3 euro, not sure what to do. Help?
User avatar #198014 to #197945 - supahsayin
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Do any of your relatives or close friends have credit/debit cards? try asking them and immediately pay them back
User avatar #198050 to #198014 - jacoban
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But isin't it at all possible to add money without adding a card? I really don't want to add any card.
User avatar #198051 to #198050 - supahsayin
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Google all the payment choices you have on Google play?

Sorry, I'd do it myself but im in a rush and just checking my account real quick
User avatar #198074 to #198051 - jacoban
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I had hoped there was a way to somehow get a girt card code from a third party but it looks like that's frowned upon.
#197936 - anon id: a6c55d1e
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Is disney a good place for a first date?
User avatar #197938 to #197936 - sushininja
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Too expensive for a 1 and 1. Unless you're from a high income family and/or you're going with friends. It may be better in the halloween season though
#197939 to #197938 - anon id: a6c55d1e
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My brother works for them and gives me all of his free tickets, and i have a job, so money is not a problem. i'm wondering if it's just going overboard for a first date.
User avatar #197944 to #197939 - cantfindaname
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Even if you can get it cheap, I think it's a bit much because it's a high bar you set for all following dates. I mean ideally it sounds awesome because you want to show this girl what you have to offer, but start off modest.
User avatar #197935 - kothaex
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Best habit/goal keeping / life RPG app for android? Need to keep up my hotstreak on a few things like drawing every day.
#197932 - ishallsmiteyou
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I spend roughly 7 hours a day here because not only do I live about 3 hours (on foot) from everyone I know, but also because nobody I know cares to invite me to do anything. I'm not exactly what you'd call antisocial; probably quite the opposite, and a fair chunk of people seem to think I'm a decent enough guy. But still, the second I get home, no messages, no calls, nothing. Just me and the hum of a couple fans. Every day. All year. Hell, I spent Christmas dinner alone in my office eating a turkey sandwich because my family decided to go to my aunt's place and never told me. Really tearing away at what little self confidence I still have.

Not a bad rig though, it's my pride and joy. Just not 7 hours a fucking day.
User avatar #197985 to #197932 - skoldpaddacommala
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What schurftinator said.
Feeling like no one wants to spend time with you can be felt on both sides. Maybe they think you don't want to do anything, or they don't want to bother you with the long walk.

Take initiative and plan something to do. Could be Netflix and chill (you don't have to bang) at your place or just a meetup at a bar or something.

It can be a bit daunting sometimes, but try to take the first step.
User avatar #197996 to #197985 - ishallsmiteyou
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Easy enough I guess. One can only hope I don't always have to be the organizer of everything every time after a while.
#197950 to #197932 - muchname
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move your fucking tower, that could fucking fall off
User avatar #197960 to #197950 - ishallsmiteyou
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nah, the perspective is a little screwed up. The case is pretty stable where it is, there's plenty of table space on the other side that you don't see in that photo.
User avatar #197943 to #197932 - schurftinator
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maybe you should take the initiative next time; you invite people over to go do something! just sitting around wishing people would invite you isn't going to change much in your situation
User avatar #197940 to #197932 - payseht
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same situation, but luckily antisocial.
I personally cope with it by leaving a bunch of comments on Youtube and here... less here for a while since I don't think my sense of humor is up to the levels it used to be
Donno what to tell you, man... find other people like you. I normally go out alone and 1 out of 10 times I strike a conversation with a stranger that can last for hours.
I've had friends drift away but I put that blame on myself, as I was always the one waiting to be called or messaged. After a while they stopped coming and I realized I'm not willing to put in that effort since I prefer being alone. From what I've read, it seems like maybe you're not involved enough, too, and they feel like you're never the one calling or setting anything up. Emphasis on "feeling" as it could entirely not be the case.
#197931 - rereviven
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womanexplain

How ungodly beta would i look wearing this shirt in public
#197974 to #197931 - anon id: 57bbfab7
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As long as you are buff nothing will look beta on you
User avatar #197968 to #197931 - dreygur
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Very, because it's implying Squirtle is any matchup against Pikachu
User avatar #197952 to #197931 - womanexplain
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it could be worse
User avatar #197941 to #197931 - payseht
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depends if the rest of you is cute
#197955 to #197941 - rereviven
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#197927 - anon id: 788fe029
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I dont want to bog you guys down in details, but I've reached a point where I'm really excited and comfortable to make new friends, but I don't know how to find people.

I have two friends in state at the moment, only one of which hangs out with people besides me, although she's busy most of the week, and I don't like pestering her to hang out.
What should I do?
User avatar #197942 to #197927 - payseht
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sit at a bar, wait for someone to sit close to you, strike a conversation if a topic is brought up with the barman.
it's hard to get into a group, but with one person that shouldn't be that much of a problem
Strike the conversation with a short phrase or idea so as to not seem budgy, but peek their interest, and if it worked they'll respond and boom!
User avatar #197923 - rereviven
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>Work at Best Buy for one month now
>Manager says there is a sales induction thing i have to go to
>4 days long, takes up two weekends and i get payed dank cash
>Ok coo coo
>Don't get any information on induction past that
>Ask him and another manager for weeks, everyday I worked about when it is
>Always get "Im not sure yet" or "Ask me later"
>Check schedule today
>Two weeks off
>Wtf, go to a third manager i've never met
>Says she will help me email other managers
>Logs me into my employee email I wasn't told about
>Accessed this email through a program called ETK, found only on Best Buy work computers
>I was never trained in ETK, manager told me not to worry about it until a few months
>Notice an email about sales induction
>It was today
>I miss sales induction

So yeh, is my manager going to be pissed or what? I've been asking for weeks and I'm kinda pissed off about it.
User avatar #197989 to #197923 - skoldpaddacommala
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Your first mistake was working at BestBuy.
Sorry, I hate the sales environment.
User avatar #197925 to #197923 - spaceking
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That sounds like mismanagement, I would be very surprised if your manager was upset about it considering it is not your fault.
Also why the two weeks off?
User avatar #197926 to #197925 - rereviven
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I had sales induction those 2 weeks, so i guess they gave me time off for that

I'm still almost certain Ill get a ButUDidDatInFirstDayOrientation
User avatar #197928 to #197926 - spaceking
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If it's going on for two weeks do you think it's too late to enter?
User avatar #197924 to #197923 - rereviven
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I fucking asked him yesterday about it too
#197910 - anon id: 6709e691
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considering trying tinder tbh
i mean i'm your generic fj user that's why
only problem is i feel like i'd only find other people desperate enough to use it
and i get the feeling it's mostly for people looking to fuck rather than more serious stuff

itt: thoughts on tinder
#197922 to #197910 - anon id: 727ee28c
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Theres more bots than actual women.
The actual women are so picky that they all end up picking the same guys
You are probably not one of those guys.
It's a waste of time, really. You can get a few fun conversations out of it, but ultimately theres no point. You aren't that likely to get a date out of it, and if you're in a college town literally do not bother.
User avatar #197921 to #197910 - sugoi
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>Generic fj user
>Anon

User my foot, if you're acting anonymous here I don't even know if you have the self confidence to do it there.
User avatar #197934 to #197921 - kothaex
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hi
it's me
anon on advice is a habit
i mean who i am isn't exactly relevant
#197911 to #197910 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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That's what tinder is. A place where desperate people go to find other desperate people to fuck. If you want a serious dating app, I'm not sure there is one.
#197913 to #197911 - anon id: 6709e691
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I'm tempted despite it's flaws. Only person I know that has used it had had two fairly long term girlfriends out of it. I mean, considering. It was like a year first and currently ongoing
like what i'm looking for seems possible but unlikely
#197914 to #197913 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Have you seen these comps before? /Tinder+comp+1+of/funny-pictures/5445367/ Just a bunch of smart ass people trying to get laid? This is basically what tinder is, and I'm not saying you won't find someone decent, it's just that you'll have to wade through a lot of shit to find them.
#197916 to #197914 - anon id: 6709e691
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Oh yeah
you have to wade through shit for everything though
I'm gonna wait for a few more replies before thinking on it any more anyway because I'm reluctant for a few reasons

making a profile, since I've managed to keep my face out of photographs for the last 5 years and I don't know how to take a good photo

plus i'm gonna have to think of a subtle way to be like im a weebo neet love me putting shit in my background so dem weeabo grills kno wats up but i don't put off other people

seeing people I know, not to mention the single female members of my immediate family
#197920 to #197916 - anon id: c27fc7c3
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Good luck to ya, man. If it is better than people give it credit for, tell us about it.