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#215426 - anon
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(07/24/2016) [-]
So my girlfriend bought me a shirt that was a bit too big, so it doesn't really look all that great on me. Do I wear it and say it looks great, or do I not wear it and just tell her it was too big? I've honestly never been more conflicted about anything in my life

We're 17 and have been dating a week and a half if that helps.
#215470 to #215426 - rurik
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(07/25/2016) [-]
I'd say tell her and use it as a pyjamas/at home shirt. Big shirts are great for lounging around at home.
#215436 to #215426 - sugoi
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Wear it as pajamas all the time.
#215432 to #215426 - alstorp
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Tell her the truth, you shouldn't be afraid of the person you are dating, tell her the shirt looks good, but it's too big. If you have the receipt, go and replace it with her. Which could be a fun activity for such a new relationship, and she gets to make you happy with a new shirt.
#215425 - flufflepuff
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Has anyone here tried dating sites?

I've heard they're great for women, shitty for men.
#215496 to #215425 - allthehomo
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(07/26/2016) [-]
The girls at work like to gossip about guys they met off tinder, and i thought the conversations were fun af so i decided to give it a go. Peer pressure, yay.
I had a lot of matches, and I planned to juggle a few guys for shits and giggles.

Obviously I was gonna let them know I was meeting lots of people.
Obviously I was on birth control.
Obviously I was gonna get tested before meeting each guy. Just in case.
I might be a slut, but I'm not a fucking bitch.

Wound up only meeting one guy. He's fucking lovely. Within an hour we were super comfortable together. Amazing sex. Great sense of humour. We both like to sit at home playing games and eating junk food. We both like drugs and drinking (my last boyfriend never drank, and it was painful for me). And within a week we were serious enough that he introduced me to his daughter.
It's been about 3 or 4 months now, and I might move in soon, hopefully.

It's definitely a case of hit or miss, but when you get a good one, you get a really good one.
Just don't let them fuck you around. Be safe. And don't go anywhere without letting someone know where you're gping.
And be open-minded. Lots of people assume people on tinder are trashy. Those people don't get laid. Just be friendly with everyone. Even if you dont get a girlfriend out of it, you might make a fucking hilarious friend.
#215429 to #215425 - anon
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Met my last (ex)girlfriend on a dating site, currently dating someone from a dating site. It's a good place for men if you look good and is interesting, not to blow my own horn. Just make sure to pick a serious one, if you're looking for something serious. The only real problem I have with dating sites is that it's embarrassing as fuck, and the person I'm dating and I are constantly having to make shit up for people on how we met because that shit just doesn't fly good.
#215427 to #215425 - deltaspace
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(07/24/2016) [-]
There's usually something crazy like 4 guys per 1 woman on dating sites, I hear most women get pretty swamped with messages. But at the end of the day, no harm in trying it out
#215438 to #215427 - flufflepuff
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(07/24/2016) [-]
I tried it once 4 years ago, when I was 20, wasn't a great experience.

Had just one really shitty relationship since then (I didn't meet her online) and i'm basically considering throwing in the towel.
#215440 to #215438 - deltaspace
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(07/24/2016) [-]
I've never really gotten anything from them either really, I'm 20 and never had a relationship. I live in a small town area and there's no women in any of my activities, and there's only a tiny pool of women nearby on dating sites. Personally I'm not overly bothered, I've always had the mentality of it'll happen when it happens, but yeah the sites kind of suck unless you can somehow stand out amongst the large pool of other men
#215422 - nigalthornberry
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Went to the doctor and he said my pain was acid reflux. Told me to take some pills

So far they arent working and i have developed chest pain. They dont know what it is
#215424 to #215422 - flufflepuff
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(07/24/2016) [-]
"A spoonful of sodium bicarbonate, or teaspoon-full to be exact, can help put an end to the gnawing, burning, sensation of heartburn caused by acid reflux. Baking soda, as sodium bicarbonate is more commonly known, can help your reflux and in turn help your heartburn because it is a base substance."

I spent 10 seconds on google. Try it and let me know how it works
#215423 to #215422 - sugoi
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(07/24/2016) [-]
I think you should see a different doctor.
#215419 - notsoninja
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(07/24/2016) [-]
So in a few days i'm going to be takings the ASVAB testing for the Coast Guard, but iv been told you really don't need to worry about it unless you aren't to bright. But i'm curious about how its graded, does anyone have prior experience or knowledge about it?
#215417 - mondominiman
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(07/23/2016) [-]
What do you guys think of jap futons. I kinda want one, it doesn't take up much space and every day you can fold it up and place it in the closet. I'm used to sleeping on the floor since the last 5-6 years I've just thrown a mattress on the ground and called it good. Ive had beds but eventually they sag and just cause pain
#215497 to #215417 - allthehomo
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(07/26/2016) [-]
If you get a girl over it's not gonna be fun.
#215420 to #215417 - sugoi
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Uh my only experience with it was years ago when I slept in a hotel in Japan.
From memory it wasn't that bad, kinda hard obviously but I just slept on my back and it was alright.
#215409 - thumbfortrump
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(07/23/2016) [-]
I think it's strange that psychological issues are considered mental illnesses, many refer to them as something you are, rather than something you have.

For instance saying "she is schizophrenic", "she is depressed" and so on. When referring to physical illness the phrasing is often "she has a fever", "he has cancer" etc.
Perhaps more would be outspoken about mental issues, if did not feel it was something they are, but something they have.
#215434 to #215409 - yatush
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(07/24/2016) [-]
ey b0ss I have cancer
#215421 to #215409 - sugoi
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Hmm I think you're right.
I'll definitely be keeping what you said in mind though.
#215410 to #215409 - platinumaltaria
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(07/23/2016) [-]
You are your personality, right? When that gets damaged you get damaged. Cancer is just inside your body, depression is inside you.
#215411 to #215410 - thumbfortrump
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(07/23/2016) [-]
But it's not who you really are, it's something you get, often because of predisposition or environmental factors. My cousin had depression, and he wasn't who he was when he was healthy. I think if you view more as something you have, than something you are, it is also possible to imagine yourself being healthy again.
#215412 to #215411 - platinumaltaria
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(07/23/2016) [-]
It's better than what we were doing 100 years ago; sticking electrodes into their brains to make them stop.
#215413 to #215412 - thumbfortrump
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(07/23/2016) [-]
I agree. But I just think that referring to the illness as something you have instead of something you are, will give the person suffering from it much more hope. At least that was the case for my cousin. It helped a lot when he saw a psychologist who told him his condition was not permanent, as he of course feared it was.
#215414 to #215413 - platinumaltaria
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Speaking for those with more permanent conditions I don't think semantics matter.
#215392 - anon
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(07/23/2016) [-]
A kid I went to high school with recently killed himself because he was "depressed". This kid had tons of friends and had no trouble getting girls and he was always around people that liked him and accepted him.

It may sound dickish but it's honestly pathetic. For me my girlfriend of 3 years cheated on me and dumped a couple months ago and I lost all my friends because of her and it seems like no one cares/ likes me. I honestly have nothing. The last 3-4 months all I've done was go to work, gym and then home. I haven't had anyone text me in 2 weeks but I still know I have to keep pushing since maybe things will get better.
#215449 to #215392 - victhree
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(07/24/2016) [-]
That's what depression is. It's when you can't see anything good to life. Many people who have it may seem fine, but they're just pretending.
#215406 to #215392 - whitechino
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(07/23/2016) [-]
If you're thinking about how you deserve suicide note than him, then relax, cause someone is always going to have it worse than you.
#215399 to #215392 - burpy
Reply +9
(07/23/2016) [-]
On the next episode of people who don't know how depression works.
#215398 to #215392 - muffintime
Reply 0
(07/23/2016) [-]
I understand where you're coming from and that it's annoying to see someone who seemed to have had a better life then you take the "easy" way out. You never know what was going on in there head, even though suicide is the cowards way out. Just focus on yourself and find hobbies/ new friends
#215396 to #215392 - platinumaltaria
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Depression is not caused by what happens in your life, it is a mental illness. You could be bill gates and have depression, you could be on the streets and have depression.
#215395 to #215392 - ferrettamer
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(07/23/2016) [-]
it's almost like depression is a mental illness that isn't always correlated to events and position in life
#215480 to #215395 - lgninjaleetful
Reply 0
(07/26/2016) [-]
I mean, I was legit diagnosed with severe mania depression at the beginning of highschool, about 5 years ago, I manage to keep on goin, though things are grim.

I think its because I know my purpose or something, I do have goals, which I believe keep me from wanting to die, completely.

also, basking in my weebism does give me joy
#215387 - valourinfj ONLINE
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Got a interview at Ikes sandwich and love shop in phoenix next tuesday but it's a group interview and I already know i'm not going to get the job. I put alot of work into learning what they do in their interview process just to end up in a group one that I can't focus all that information into. Fucking great.
#215385 - helterskeleton ONLINE
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Click to show spoiler
So, I've been in a relationship with a girl for 2 years now. I'm not religious, and she.. varies. for the first year she was lightly christian, then until a month ago she was an atheist, and now she's more christian than ever. Last night she said to me with tears in her eyes that God was telling her that she needs to be with a Christian, because I'm "not helping her enrich her faith", and she broke up with me. I asked if there was anything I could do, anything I ever did wrong, and she says, "no. you were the perfect boyfriend and you don't deserve this but sometimes the world just works out this way." Now, I'm not an ugly guy I don't think (me enclosed), I could maybe find another girl, I just.. after 2 years, I don't know if I want to.


Now, she texts me saying "I hate this, I want our break up to not have been real" and I said "But you were the one that said God told you he didn't want us together" and she says, "I'll pray about it, and maybe he'll say it's okay." I said "why, what does it say in the bible?" And she says "No not in the bible, he'll tell me directly."

Now, you gotta understand, that from my perspective, my relationship with my 4.0 university girlfriend is being decided by her imaginary friend. Are there any christians who can tell me what she's going through, what she's thinking, what's going to happen to us? Any atheists who can tell me what they would do?
#215498 to #215385 - allthehomo
Reply +1
(07/26/2016) [-]
Date someone without schizophrenia.
#215430 to #215385 - alstorp
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Taking the fact that she values her hallucinations and silly stories over you, makes me think that you may actually not have lost that much value in the first place. It hurts, but at some point you have to realize the best outcome. If she comes back seemingly normal again, which I have a feeling she will, it's up to you if you want her back, just keep in mind what she did to you and if you accept her back, you accept the possibility of that happening again.
#215431 to #215430 - helterskeleton ONLINE
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(07/24/2016) [-]
That was.. Incredibly insightful. Thank you
#215433 to #215431 - alstorp
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Unfortunately I have experience with dating people like this

Glad I could help
#215418 to #215385 - ifailedmyact
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(07/24/2016) [-]
There's really nothing you can do. Referring to her God as an imaginary friend just makes it worse. She really just wants to take the break up back because of her emotional investment with you. She regrets it only because of that but deep down she knows what is right for her to do and that's not be with you because she's right, you don't help her build up her faith, hence you calling Him her imaginary friend. Either she waves Him to the side and chooses you, or she chooses Him. It's really up to her. If you take her back, just know it's always gonna be in the back of her mind. Been in this situation a lot and also my boyfriend's ex left him for her religion as well. Speaking from experience but take it as you will.
#215428 to #215418 - helterskeleton ONLINE
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(07/24/2016) [-]
I see. Thank you.
#215397 to #215385 - platinumaltaria
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Christians, and theists in general, often believe that what are in fact their own subconscious thoughts are the voice of god. She may feel guilt about her lack of faith; especially if she was raised into it. I'd say talking would be a start, outside the bounds of faith ask her what she wants out of you and see if you're willing to do it.
#215400 to #215397 - helterskeleton ONLINE
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(07/23/2016) [-]
I'm nearly positive that she'll react with another "No there's nothing you can do but convert and I know you can't do that", but if this works, I'm naming my first child platinumaltaria. Thank you!
#215390 to #215385 - anon
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(07/23/2016) [-]
She's having doubts about everything it seems, including her religion. This doesn't have anything to do with you, she needs to figure this out for herself. I say take a step back.
#215391 to #215390 - helterskeleton ONLINE
Reply 0
(07/23/2016) [-]
Noted. Thank you
#215381 - thumbfortrump
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(07/22/2016) [-]
Are bunny ear cacti poisonous? I managed to fall on a bunch of them, and basically got my whole arm covered with them. Now I got a full-blown rash that's itchy as hell. Also taking the advice of seeing a doctor about those tic bites. This has not been one of my glory weeks.
#215407 to #215381 - alstorp
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Technically yes, but it won't ever cause anything else but irritation, so you're good.
#215393 to #215381 - sineztro
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Nah they just have lots of needles, most people call them prickly pear or paddle cacti, but I like bunny ear better nowu
#215379 - muchname
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
im about to have a mental breakdown, help
I can't add songs onto my phone in itunes
I try to and it comes up with "can't read X song"
help
pls
pls
#215416 to #215379 - mondominiman
Reply +1
(07/23/2016) [-]
What's the file type? MP3, AAC, WMA, OGG, FLAC? I think iPhones can only play MP3 and AAC
#215377 - anon
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
Posting as anon.
I've got this one huge issue with my life, it's the only thing that i would consider bad in my existence; and that is being left out.

I've always been on the sidelines and in the background, from a young age i would tag along to parties and wedge myself into the side of a picture. As i've gotten older this lack of attention has really started to get on my nerves.

Over the last few years i've tried to assert myself more, i've tried to fit in with relevant topics and discussions by keeping all my tech and social life up-to-date. So far i've achieved very little. I still have the same small group of 3 friends who i hang out with only at school and rarely outside of it. I initiate ALL of my message conversations and i've been ill and had no contact for weeks before. The only time people approach me in school is to get help with questions etc. and it infuriates me to no end.

I've asked people individually to go see movies and stuff, and they would keep pushing it back, and back, and back until they say they can't come; those hurt the most.
At my best I would make a clever comment during a conversation that would make everyone laugh, and I would ride that high for days.
At my worst i've had to cancel a birthday party because no-one showed, It killed me inside and brought me down to serious depression.

I've somehow managed to keep my hopes up this long, that maybe someday this issue will be resolved; i'm perfectly healthy, i've got good grades in my subjects and i've got plenty of pasttimes outside of the house, but what am I doing wrong?
#215499 to #215377 - allthehomo
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(07/26/2016) [-]
Oh god, I know this feel.
Had this situation for so long that I stopped speaking for a while. Fucked me up bad.
Only good advice is to get different friends. Go do stuff that YOU like. If you like to paint mini figurines, fucking do it in public where everyone can see. Advertise yourself. Eventually someone will be like ""bro, you too?" And you'll hit it off.
Don't pretendd to like things you don't enjoy, or you'll hve aa hard time relating to the type of people you attract. Instead, be fucking bold. Do what you like and do it in public. Get into a group or club if you can find suitable ones.
#215451 to #215377 - victhree
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(07/24/2016) [-]
Maybe you could make some friends who enjoy being around you? I know it's harder than it sounds, but It's not nice to hang out with people who merely tolerate you.

Maybe there's something about you that makes people uncomfortable?

The best thing you can do, really, is asking them.
#215394 to #215377 - muffintime
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(07/23/2016) [-]
for some people it just seems like they can fit in with people and people can tolerate them being around but they're not quite friends with. I have the same problem, I can fit in with people at school/work and they enjoy talking to me there but outside of those settings they could give to fucks about me.
#215384 to #215377 - platinumaltaria
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(07/22/2016) [-]
I can't claim to know what your problem is m80, but I can make a few educated guesses: maybe people think you're boring you may only talk about a few subjects that don't interest anyone ; you may just be unlucky with your "friends" choose new ones, FJ has you covered in that regard . I'd recommend making new friends and ditching the old ones, they evidently don't give a shit about you if they're acting like that, and are not worth your time. If you indeed have many interests try meeting people through those, there are always things for young people to do with their time.
#215376 - bludead
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(07/22/2016) [-]
How do you search for a specific channel....

Cause there's the 'popular' channels at the top of the website, but idk how to find like a list of all of them , or a way to search through them
#215378 to #215376 - xsirwafflezx
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(07/22/2016) [-]
If you scroll down the page, at the bottom of the sidebar there are a couple links packed quite closely together, you want the 'channels' one (obviously)
#215380 to #215378 - bludead
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
Thanks!
#215369 - vozel ONLINE
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
I had a dream where i was fingering a girl

What the hell does this mean
#215452 to #215369 - victhree
Reply 0
(07/24/2016) [-]
It means you wanna finger a girl.
#215388 to #215369 - anon
Reply 0
(07/23/2016) [-]
it means you like being able to control women
#215374 to #215369 - alstorp
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(07/22/2016) [-]
It means you were horny
#215371 to #215369 - platinumaltaria
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
Give her the D.
#215364 - kyleassante
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#215366 to #215364 - anon
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(07/22/2016) [-]
It sounds like you don't really want to kill yourself, you just want an exciting way out from your stressful life.

My advice, don't go anywhere and use the money to start your life back up. The rest of the world will still be there when you're mental sound enough to enjoy it.
#215365 to #215364 - braveblue
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(07/22/2016) [-]
I think you should just keep going, I don't really think you should off yourself but that's really your choice, maybe you should reconsider things, I mean if you wanted to off yourself that badly you would have just done it already so life isn't really all that bad if you haven't done it yet. Why the fuck are you disappointed that you can't an hero now. I don't see why you want to off yourself, seems like you want the attention and to worry your parents if they don't ever see you again, they'll think you disappeared and they will be searching for you and they'll be wasting money on you as well. I'm sure your parents love you and everything so why do you want to off yourself, no good parent wants to see their kid hanging off a ceiling fan or their brains splattered on the ground or anything really. Even if they can't find you, they are gonna feel like shit for the rest of their lives and figure that you're dead anyways or you didn't care in the first place to visit during the holidays.

You're plan is really good besides the off yourself thing, seeing the world and getting into shape because of it? Sounds like you bettered yourself because you had a goal in mind. Why the hell would you bother offing yourself after all the trouble of saving up and seeing the world, getting into shape? If you really hated living then you would have just offed yourself at the first shot you got.

Man get your shit together.
#215368 to #215365 - kyleassante
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#215363 - masterreposter ONLINE
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
My right breast started to hurt. Could it be from people pissing me off and causing stress? Because it's everyday
#215389 to #215363 - anon
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(07/23/2016) [-]
does rubbing it relieve the pain?
#215386 to #215363 - helterskeleton ONLINE
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(07/23/2016) [-]
Looks like you need to calm your tits. No but seriously please see a doctor.
#215367 to #215363 - anon
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
You sure it's not your butt that started to hurt?
#215362 - thumbfortrump
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(07/22/2016) [-]
Went hunting. Got drunk. Fell asleep.
Woke up with +15 tick bites.

Am I dead?
#215373 to #215362 - platinumaltaria
Reply +1
(07/22/2016) [-]
>thinking you can leave FJ by dying seriously though see a doctor
#215370 to #215362 - kober
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(07/22/2016) [-]
You're at risk for Lyme disease, infection, or Ehrlichiosis. The likelihood of any of those are not very high, but I would highly recommend getting a doctor to prescribe antibiotics nonetheless.
#215356 - bemymaster
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(07/22/2016) [-]
Anyone got any advice against sleepwalking? It's a problem of mine, i have conversations with friends and family members and walk around in my sleep. I have no memory of it in the morning. Is there a cure to this? I'm trying to get regular sleep but hav to skip a night of sleep every now and then, in order to become sleepy enough. This only happens when i fall into deep sleep.
#215382 to #215356 - xsirwafflezx
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(07/22/2016) [-]
As far as i'm aware there's no way to actively stop sleepwalking, I used to as a kid but I naturally stopped as i got older.
Can't help you brah
#215383 to #215382 - xsirwafflezx
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(07/22/2016) [-]
Update; Turns out sleep deprivation can be a potential trigger. What i'd recommend is not skipping nights to fall asleep, that means either cutting down on food to leave you with less energy come the nights or doing more during the period between lunch and dinner, so you have less energy to stay awake with.
Other than that there's not alot you can do.
#215403 to #215383 - bemymaster
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(07/23/2016) [-]
ty, i guess i just have to take sleep hygiene more seriously and lay off the vidya games in the evenings
#215375 to #215356 - alexanderburns
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(07/22/2016) [-]
have your partner leave you tied for the duration of the night after a bondage session
#215402 to #215375 - bemymaster
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(07/23/2016) [-]
i don't dare asking my mom to tie me up and also i can't manage to do it myself.
#215358 to #215356 - ukobarrywewa
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(07/22/2016) [-]
ask your doctor
#215360 to #215358 - bemymaster
Reply 0
(07/22/2016) [-]
I have, no help from her or the polyclinic. After a ton of testing they said i have syndrome (DSPD) and that was it.
#215355 - anon
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(07/22/2016) [-]
i just got a job for summer but i've always put my time before money. now i don't have to work although me working makes my parents feel good and i earn my own pocket money which is also good. i need to remind myself that im not stuck there like an office worker. do you guys have any advice on how to feel better when you're doing something that you don't want to do?
#215361 to #215355 - anon
Reply +2
(07/22/2016) [-]
Think of what will benefit you in the long run.
#215405 to #215361 - anon
Reply 0
(07/23/2016) [-]
thank you. i'm going to build myself my first decent computer which will help me mentally. that's the only thought that drives me.
#215353 - rurik
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(07/22/2016) [-]
Girl super liked me on tinder. Empty profile and average looks. Now what?
#215408 to #215353 - rurik
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(07/23/2016) [-]
>>#215408, >>#215408, >>#215408, unmatched me when I greeted her. Was probably a mistake.
#215359 to #215353 - ferrettamer
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(07/22/2016) [-]
it's probably a bot
#215401 to #215359 - aoeui
Reply 0
(07/23/2016) [-]
idts
#215415 to #215401 - ferrettamer
Reply 0
(07/23/2016) [-]
i think it was
#215354 to #215353 - rokkai
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(07/22/2016) [-]
say hi like a madman would do