My boyfriend definitely prefers it when I'm on top. Less effort for him, and he says it feels better.

But you do it multiple ways. The girl doesn't always want to be on top (sometimes we want lazy sex too), and in my case, on top feels more 'pleasurable', but it also causes more pain for me.

I prefer being on the bottom (I'm a dude) but most girls seem to want bottom too

mfw I'm a pushover and they get bottom

My experiences are total opposite, most of the girls I've dated want to be on top. Funny, my ex wanted to be on top but really came when i was on top. My experience, girls want control, but also want to be
<-------"treated like a woman"

Thats what I thought. I never met a guy that wants to be on top really. Then again, this is the first time Im asking. do you prefer bottom because its less effort, or just better sex ?

I prefer when she's on top. Less effort for me.

Thats true, but is the quality of the same ?

depends on your girl. if shes just sitting on you and flopping around then no, but if she knows what shes doing then yes...

i like on top, feels better for me...plus i like to be in control and my boyfriend doesnt seem to mind either... ;)

Personally, I find this humerus...