It's more that the models and commercials that are shoved in our faces 24/7 set a standard of beauty that's more like anorexia than what anyone actually wants.
Thigh gap for example. Who the **** came up with that?
Girls and women come up with this idiotic **** , pretend it's a "beauty standard" then blame men and the "patriarchy" despite the fact that men have never and will never be interested in that crap.