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#12 - andovaredoras (10/03/2013) [-]
This made me have some feels.
#201 to #12 - andovaredoras (10/04/2013) [-]
You are sitting on the couch. The further you are from the remote control, the less you feel like getting it.




Had to try to put some 'funny' into that comment since it was making people feel sad about their past or current relationships.
#198 to #12 - anonymous (10/04/2013) [-]
This explains why I sat on the cold hard cement just inside the garage instead of walking the extra 20 feet to get one of the folding chairs in there. The farther away the chair was, the more I could convince myself the ground was comfy too but I still wished I had a chair..
User avatar #186 to #12 - ahkillyou (10/04/2013) [-]
Dude, six years going.
Im in Cali, shes in North Carolina.
Last time I saw her was in June, was the best time of my life. :/
#169 to #12 - ltverwolf ONLINE (10/04/2013) [-]
Yep, I'm in Idaho, she's in Alabama.
#162 to #12 - damnshame (10/04/2013) [-]
Feels truly. Girlfriend's in another province eh. Yes, I'm Canadian.
#78 to #12 - WtfStrawberries (10/04/2013) [-]
just kidding, im going to go cry in the fetal position now
#28 to #12 - vytros (10/03/2013) [-]
Well I certainly did not need this on this day.
#27 to #12 - adu (10/03/2013) [-]
My heart goes out to those in long-distance relationships. I know from experience that it can be one of the hardest things to go through.
User avatar #209 to #27 - TwistedBamboozler (10/04/2013) [-]
I've been doing long distance with my girl for 3 years now. Still holding up strong, still love each other to death. Last year of long distance we have then she is moving in, I'm stoked. Definitely one of the hardest things ever to do though. **** it's tough

I went through this much . . . I'm probably gonna marry this girl
User avatar #213 to #209 - adu (10/04/2013) [-]
I really ******* hope that happens dude, I'm rooting for you. My advice to you is to never be too certain, don't get complacent. Send her gifts often, talk with her at least an hour a day, make her laugh whenever possible, tell her you love her every day as if it were your dying breath. Even if you're certain you're not taking her for granted, make sure that she knows without a doubt that she's needed. I'm only telling you this because it was failing to do these things enough that brought my long distance relationship of 2 years 7 months crashing down on top of me, because I got too comfortable just living my life, and I'm still recovering from that mistake. I don't want that to happen to anyone else, so just think about it... never assume it's at its strongest, not when you can still make it stronger every day. Godspeed, and I hope you two find true happiness with each other.
User avatar #215 to #213 - TwistedBamboozler (10/04/2013) [-]
wait . . . this is all too trippy right now. We just skyped tonight and she's really upset cause she doesn't feel "needed" and "significant". Obviously I love her more than anything. The first 2 years I did send her gifts and we talked all the time, etc . . . but lately that stopped because you nailed it on the ******* head; I got comfortable. Thanks man, you seriously just made my month. Time to get back on the overload-with-love train. I hope good things come to you man, and I hope your mistake wasn't too dreadful.
God speed
User avatar #216 to #215 - adu (10/04/2013) [-]
I'm glad and somewhat surprised I could help. But yeah, long-term and long-distance make for a tricky combination, it takes a lot more conscious effort than you might think. Keep her feeling special, treat each day as a new chance to woo her all over again. Say beautiful things about her, spend absurd amounts of time together if possible, write poetry for her, all that stuff. For me, making the mistake of not doing these things is what cost me my relationship... it's not all too bad though, as there's the chance of us getting back together, but now it's just there's another guy that can give her more than I was... so yeah.

Just remember that a promise isn't an indestructible stone tablet, but like a blade that needs constant sharpening to remain at its best. Because if it gets dull or full of nicks, it will end up breaking when you least expect it.
User avatar #218 to #216 - TwistedBamboozler (10/04/2013) [-]
Thanks man, I hope you can get back together with your girl. **** that other guy. I'm sure he's not a douche (well if he is **** him) but still, you're better than him. If you were doing long distance that long, you must be worth quite a bit. Just show her how much more worth it you are than he is, and why she decided she wanted long distance in the first place. I believe in you dude, and again, thanks for your advice. It means a lot.
User avatar #221 to #218 - adu (10/04/2013) [-]
Well, it's hard for me to convince her that I'm the better option if I can't convince myself of that. All I'm doing right now is trying to be the best friend I possibly can be, and then when the time comes for me to make my move, she can decide on who makes her happiest. I won't hold it against her if she chooses him though (he's a sweet guy that truly cares for her, he has my approval), but I want her to feel comfortable knowing that who she decides now doesn't have to be permanent. I just want a second chance at making her happy like I used to, at experiencing all the things that we've been longing for, for so long. I just want a second chance.
#158 to #27 - Virt (10/04/2013) [-]
why must the FJ community make me feel things from my past i dont wanna feel again T-T
why must the FJ community make me feel things from my past i dont wanna feel again T-T
User avatar #129 to #27 - fannypackattack (10/04/2013) [-]
Ugh, ******************* . My boyfriend's in a different country. Fortunately, I don't feel I love him any less. I do miss the sex, though.
User avatar #111 to #27 - oborawatabinost (10/04/2013) [-]
I'm in Nevada, girlfriend's in Oregon. It's definitely tough.
User avatar #113 to #111 - adu (10/04/2013) [-]
How long have you been together? If you don't mind me asking.
User avatar #114 to #113 - oborawatabinost (10/04/2013) [-]
Officially, a couple months. But I've known her for 7 years, and we got together in a really complicated situation. Believe me, if you have any trust issues whatsoever, a long distance relationship will put an enormous strain on them.
User avatar #115 to #114 - adu (10/04/2013) [-]
Indeed, I do know. If you've known her for a long time then your chances are pretty strong, but my advice is to not become complacent. That's a mistake that's easy to make in a long-distance relationship, I just don't want anyone else to make it.
User avatar #222 to #115 - oborawatabinost (10/04/2013) [-]
Well, my trust issues have gotten the best of me, and now she put us on a "break", which certainly doesn't help. I keep getting paranoid that she's still involved with her ex-boyfriend, and it sometimes becomes more than just paranoia.
User avatar #223 to #222 - adu (10/04/2013) [-]
Well **** , that's what happened to me with my former girlfriend after 2.5 years. Only she told me outright that she wanted to get back together with her ex, so it wasn't a trust issue, just a matter of her wanting to give us a break and give him a second chance...
User avatar #224 to #223 - oborawatabinost (10/04/2013) [-]
Yeah, I have reason to think that she may have still been with him right from the start (we started dating not long after she broke up with him).
User avatar #24 to #12 - BlueToaster (10/03/2013) [-]
But note that it never actually disappears. It just becomes inconceivably miniscule; even across the universe, there are bodies acting upon us right now.
User avatar #155 to #24 - bxthreeshirker (10/04/2013) [-]
I need an adult.
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