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#8 - sampls (12/09/2012) [+] (2 replies)
I'm a girl, and here's what I think you should do.
Wait until you're alone,
And you're just close to her, casually.
Make her laugh or something, and then tell her she has a pretty (insert something here)
And when she smiles or blushes or whatever.
Kiss her.
Just do it.
User avatar #20 - dafukdude (12/12/2012) [-]
you gotta go for it man. If you two make each other happy then thats the main thing. I'm in a slightly similar situation with my current girlfriend. My ex broke up with me a week after Valentines day (cheeky bitch waited for the flowers and chocolate before giving me the boot) and I started spending more time with one of my college friends, who I later found out had a thing for me for a while. We got closer as summer came round and I finally got the courage up to ask her out in June. We're still going out now but she's asked me before how long was it after my breakup that I realized I liked her. We got through that easily enough and we're still going strong and I'm happier with her than I was with my ex so it worked out. It always turns out that friends make the best girlfriends.
tl;dr Go for it dude if she makes you happy then its worth the risk :)
User avatar #16 - fjdesign (12/10/2012) [-]
Listen. I have had issues before with women. I think every guy has. Just you gotta be calm. Don't hope for the best, because if you do and she doesn't see you in that way you will be crushed. You have to be with her alone. A walk maybe. as you are walked slow down till you get to a stop and turn to her. Try to end the conversation you were having with her and take her hands and tell her that she is beautiful. Tell her how you feel about her. Let it all out. From way down deep inside tell her how you truly feel about her because this is your shot. Your probably one and only shot to tell her how you feel. Then just be silent. Let it sink in. Let her think about what u just said. If you see a smile thats a good sign. Don't choke on your words. And stay calm. She will respond. And when she is finished. If its positive go in for a kiss. If you truly like her. I hope the fireworks go off. I wish you the best of luck sir. Because I know the feeling of true love for I have found it after 4 years of depression.
User avatar #15 - icedmantwo (12/10/2012) [-]
go for it
if she is into you then you will become a couple
if she is really your friend but isnt into you like that then it will be awkward for a while but you will remain friends
if she says she doesnt want to see you anymore then she wasnt really a friend
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#23 - Absolute Madman (12/21/2012) [-]
I'm a girl, and I have a friend I really like. I should of told him earlier but I didn't. Know we're growing apart, just go for it.
#22 - zatu (12/15/2012) [-]
Put it in her pooper
#18 - Absolute Madman (12/10/2012) [-]
You don't want to make her feel like she is a rebound from your late ex.
Let her make a move into showing that she has feelings for you.
Though she may have taken the step forward into telling you that she feels unwanted, and feels unattractive.
Tell her how you feel. But don't make it seem like she is a rebound.
User avatar #17 - SuparToaster (12/10/2012) [-]
Hey dude I am a guy and I recently had the same type of situation you had where I had a best friend who was a girl and she was always there for me and I could honestly say if there is love in the world I felt it towards her. We were always playful, always smiling together, sorted each others problems out and we were always happy together. However, along the way I turned into such a dick to everyone because I always focused on her everyday (like you do saying good morning and goodnight to each other) and I also got jealous of my other best friend who was a guy and I thought my girl best friend had feelings for but really I was just being a selfish asshole. I regret it so much for turning into such a dick and now she won't talk to me after putting up with me for months which I praise her for. But all I am saying is just get alone with her; make her laugh and joke around a bit and then tell her you have feelings for her and I am sure she will understand since she is your best friend which is what I did. I don't know what will happen if she might not want to develop her feelings for you that far other than a few days of awkwardness and back to normality, just don't turn into a dick, be someone you aren't and never take for grated what makes you happy which is what I could do. Good luck Funnyjunk Bro :D
#13 - Absolute Madman (12/10/2012) [+] (1 reply)
it must be a spy
User avatar #11 - gggman (12/09/2012) [-]
GO FOR IT DAMN IT, weird as **** but i pretty much have the same situation like 3months ago i broke up with someone and met another girl, she's been my best friend for the last three months...we fell asleep together one day, and sh talks in her sleep and i heard her say something personal, i told her what she said and she doesn't believe me, she thinks im lying.. i lost my GF and my best friend, in a matter of three months.. I swear to god if this happens to OP i'll find you and slap you myself!
#10 - adsykenna (12/09/2012) [-]
I agree with Sampls

If this girl really makes you happy then you should do whatever you can to be with her.
I think what she suggested is a good idea!
It sounds like you have a lot of fun together so why wait? :)
#7 - dirtyjewbagdafifth (12/09/2012) [-]
Well if you are going to the hobbit its a win win anyways so best of luck to you
User avatar #5 - salts (12/09/2012) [-]
didn't even read the whole thing...heres your answer...
tell her how you feel
User avatar #4 - revorce (12/09/2012) [-]
If you weren't a thumbwhore you'd have posted this on the Advice Board.
User avatar #3 - denonymous (12/09/2012) [-]
take a bus as far as you can, then walk the rest of the way
#2 - Absolute Madman (12/09/2012) [-]
Ask her out man be her hero she clearly has a crush on you.
#1 - Absolute Madman (12/09/2012) [-]
Kiss her. Its what i did
User avatar #19 - nuckyoufigger (12/11/2012) [-]
who cares just go find another and better girl.
#12 - armeman (12/10/2012) [-]
As a wise Asian man once said "Tap dat fat ass"
But in all seriousness go for it man, i had a similar situation except i thought the girl friendzoned me, just gotta man up and make a move.
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