That feel when.... This made me feel so much.. if it is repost i will take down.... This happens to me everyday with this girl I love, but she has a boyfriend.... I guess that's better than nothing. i love you
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#16 - dvmaster
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This happens to me everyday with this girl I love, but she has a boyfriend....
I guess that's better than nothing.
User avatar #20 to #16 - abaraxus
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That almighty feel dude...It's the absolute worst. I started distancing myself from her actually, just today. I can't take it man.
#34 to #16 - creamNscream
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These feels...

I know them too well...
#55 to #16 - mrdudemanguyperson
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I am in this exact same situation, man.
#1 - thecratcher
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#2 to #1 - anon id: a458c285
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so this guy in the comic is talking to someone he really likes, the conversation is great, he's enjoying himself etc. Then the other person has to go so they say goodnight. But the first guy would have preferred to keep chatting so now he's lying in bed, unable to sleep, feeling bad and missing talking to the other person.
At least that's what I think...
#4 to #2 - lelelefrench
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I thought it was because he put the <3 and she didnt.
User avatar #8 to #4 - happyfox
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i concur
User avatar #7 to #2 - RisenLichen
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i thought it might've had something to do about friends online. How you chat with them all night long and when they all to go bed, you're alone with no real friends in the real world. Because it says "THEM: goodnight!" Them, i think, is the keyword.
#37 to #2 - hudspud
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I think he's thinking about if putting a heart at the end was too far because there was no reply at the end to tell him whether it was or wasn"t. and now he's lying in bed thinking about if he messed up or not. Just my interpretation
#28 to #2 - udo
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#5 to #2 - anon id: a458c285
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Or maybe he feels bad because he goes to bed alone, wishing she could be with him...
#13 to #1 - jburn
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I think it can mean all those things and the main point is no matter what route or reason you pick in the end the result is the same your alone.
I think it can mean all those things and the main point is no matter what route or reason you pick in the end the result is the same your alone.
#139 - deliciousdee
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Long story incoming.
Used to talk to this girl I liked constantly. She was pretty, smart, and a bit nerdy, which I just loved about her.
We'd text, skype, IM, even just phone call each other until real late talking about things we liked, places we wanted to go, stuff we wanted to do. She even confessed that she thought we could make a great couple.
I visited her once or twice at her home which was 6 HOURS away. I even moved so I'd be closer to her.

Then she started acting all distant. I finally got her to tell me what was wrong...She told me that she was having second thoughts. She told me I couldn't make her happy. That I was too relationship focused and that she wasn't ready to commit. She told me I belonged with someone else. I told her she was wrong, but she said it was final.
She tore my heart out.

Months later I texted her asking if we could talk. I'd never sensed such hatred from her before. She told me she didn't trust me and that we could never be friends again.

She crushed me. And God damn it I want her back.
#141 to #139 - swordwoman
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i think she feels smothered by you when you moved to get closer to her, it may have alarmed her in some way. i guess you need to give her a lot of free space, let her come to you. she seems like the type of person that likes her freedom and doesn't like to commit to a relationship i may be wrong because i don't know her at all and such.
#142 to #141 - deliciousdee
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No, I think that's pretty accurate.
#143 to #142 - swordwoman
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i am the same as her, i love my freedom and dislike "relationships" but don't let that get you down, if she told you a lot about herself like her secrets and personal stuff she wouldn't tell anyone else, then there is hope my friend. just show her that you wouldn't endanger her freedom, don't be too serious about the relationship, let it be light and bubbly.
#144 to #143 - deliciousdee
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Thank you very much for the advice, but I'm afraid it's been quite over for some time now.    
Maybe next time I'll actually remember to not show my feelings.
Thank you very much for the advice, but I'm afraid it's been quite over for some time now.
Maybe next time I'll actually remember to not show my feelings.
#145 to #144 - swordwoman
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i have a dark sense of humor, "Maybe next time I'll actually remember to not show my feelings." cracked me up a little. you seem like a nice guy, learn from the experience and move on, you'll find a girl.

just be yourself, but be calm about things, don't rush it.
#146 to #145 - deliciousdee
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Thanks. This has been pretty encouraging.
Thanks. This has been pretty encouraging.
#147 to #146 - swordwoman
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no problem bro.
#161 to #146 - anon id: b475a9e5
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I was I a nearly identical situation. It ended over.a year and a half ago. You just gotta pick yourself up, dust yourself off (as hard as it is) and move on. She isn't your life, you are. Simple as that. Be yourself, and let no one compromise that. Take yourself back to basics and build yourself back up. Learn from it. And remember, sometimes you have to have your life torn apart to get it put back together.
User avatar #164 to #139 - MrsMcDowell
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I'm sorry, man, that's hard.

I met my bf online through a writing group. He lived in MN, me in CA. About two months ago, I flew out to meet him for the first time, and a week later, he moved out to be with me.

I was married at the time, and things have been very hard. Then I got sick. We've been trying to move in together, but my past relationship and illness have prevented me from making those steps. He's being very patient with me, but I can't help but worry if what you're going through is what he's going through as well...
#60 - wolftron
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This reminds me of when I was in Elementary and Intermediate and I used to talk to girl just like this.    
We used to talk all day even on school days up until 4 in the morning getting busted by our moms xD We played Runescape and Maplestory, Omgpop. She showed me AIM and made me make a facebook and chatted with me on that.    
We'd even get competitive wanting the other to go to sleep, staying up til one of us fell asleep on the phone or laptop (x But yea, then we were good friends, now we're complete strangers.. Hope she's happy.
This reminds me of when I was in Elementary and Intermediate and I used to talk to girl just like this.
We used to talk all day even on school days up until 4 in the morning getting busted by our moms xD We played Runescape and Maplestory, Omgpop. She showed me AIM and made me make a facebook and chatted with me on that.
We'd even get competitive wanting the other to go to sleep, staying up til one of us fell asleep on the phone or laptop (x But yea, then we were good friends, now we're complete strangers.. Hope she's happy.
#101 - curtt
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Me: Night, love you!
GF: Night!
My face when
#102 to #101 - curtt
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Her face when
Her face when
User avatar #106 to #102 - TrevorNorris
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That has to be the best "Deal With It" GIF in history...
#127 to #106 - ienjoybeefjerky
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i beg to differ
i beg to differ
#130 to #106 - deliciousdee
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User avatar #11 - agentpurplek
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Makes want my girlfriend back... :'(
#41 to #11 - yourlifesucks
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**yourlifesucks rolled a random image posted in comment #109 at Happy spider is happy **


right "your girlfriend"
User avatar #154 to #41 - agentpurplek
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She was my girlfriend up until a few days ago...
#159 to #154 - yourlifesucks
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**yourlifesucks rolled a random image posted in comment #70 at RELEASE THE KRAKEN **

Cool story Brah
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#47 - anon id: 05b752f8
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Can I ask you friendzoned guys, something?

Please, stop "falling in love" with us.

Because first chances are, you don't even really know the girl you like, because if you really did, you would understand her enough to be able to work out a relationship. Otherwise you're either caught up on her appearance or going off of impressions. It's like looking at the cover of your book and saying it's your favorite book ever.

Second chances are you're just allured by the mentality of wanting something you think you can't have.

I'm not even asking because of that, I'm asking because I don't know if all of you know how difficult and draining it is to have someone's happiness piled up on your shoulders. How much does it suck to know that someone is moping around, miserable, just because you can't give them the kind of attention they want. Maybe that's why some girls go for 'douchebags' over 'nice guys', because they prefer not to carry so much weight and dragging around someone so dependent.

Lastly, if you like her and she's dating an abusive asshole, she's either stupid or has an unhealthy mentality, which you really don't want to get involved in. And if you like her and she's dating someone else, you can't blame her for doing what she wants to do in her life. And if you like her and she's dating nobody, chances are that things wouldn't work out in a relationship anyway. There are plenty of girls out there, be open-minded, and please keep in mind that just because you like a girl and are nice to her doesn't mean you are entitled to have her. It's the feelings of TWO people in a relationship that matter, not just yours
User avatar #51 to #47 - camthepedobear
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I'm shredded, have no issues getting women.
#93 to #51 - toomuchmonster
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Sure ;)
Sure ;)
#94 to #93 - camthepedobear
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Stay 'mirin bro
#98 to #94 - toomuchmonster
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where you get that pic at &quot;bro&quot;
where you get that pic at "bro"
#100 to #98 - camthepedobear
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>implying

Yeah nah.
There's a legion of overweight, aesthetic hating people on this website.
Plus the vast majority is 12 years old, not target audience for lifting.
#104 to #100 - toomuchmonster
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if thats true, my respecs im not quite there yet but i can definitely could use a few more tips
#107 to #104 - camthepedobear
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#108 to #107 - toomuchmonster
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thanks
#140 to #100 - swordwoman
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that's nice that you have no problem getting the women, but i have distinct feeling that you attract the kind of female that is a total bitch, if you only use your body to get the women of course.
#50 to #47 - MrBoston
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User avatar #49 to #47 - Theyneverknow
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Friendzoned guys are just idiots that think 'Not-being-a-cunt' should get you laid
#86 to #47 - anon id: 65e306fe
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Whoa... an intelligent anon appeared!
User avatar #68 to #47 - JustForTheLulz
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I'll probably get **** for this, but I found your comment intelligent and I'd like to respond with "our" point of view.
In many cases, your first point is valid. I spent a year awe-stricken by how beautiful I thought a girl was. In reality, a relationship between us would never have worked out, but because she was my first crush, I couldn't see that, and didn't get over it until I met another girl. This brings me to my refutation of your next point.

I think I can speak for most when I say it isn't the idea of wanting something you can't have, although this may be true for some. I believe it's more of a strong attachment that forms when someone who isn't used to getting attention from girls suddenly starts receiving it from an individual. I can easily speak from experience on this. It's a feeling of, "Wow, she's really affectionate towards me. This feels great, and I want to get this feeling all the time, so the best way to do that is to date her." When a hug is a rare occasion, just one from a nice girl can make your day, if not your week, regardless of how pathetic it may sound.

As far as the baggage situation, that's a pretty solid point.

The whole "dating an abusive asshole" thing I'm kind of on the fence on. On one hand, I can see wanting to provide better for a girl you have feelings for, but on the other, if she continuously refuses help, then the problem lies with her, and it's time to say enough's enough and back off.



#67 - ggdhindo
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#64 - illutvar
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got a girlfriend, everythings going fine., yourmove funnyjunk
#95 to #64 - datguypauls
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hows that cubicle?
User avatar #110 to #64 - rdangerdash
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Congratulations. I hope you treat each other well.
User avatar #115 to #64 - makethingsworse
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Good luck, sir. I hope you have a wonderful Holiday Season with your woman. Me and Jack Daniels are getting to each other very well this Christmas.
User avatar #79 to #64 - noodlelover
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Oh your life is going swimmingly?

have fun with your red thumbs from fjers whose lives are not as happy as yours