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Did I just put alternative? I mean alternate lol

Be glad you can't relate to these...I would much rather be in your shoes than in mine right now

I know what you mean :( It's gets me down too.

I know, I'm happy as hell I have her, it just feels weird not relating to these posts anymore, I use to be that one foreveralone kid everyone knew that had shit luck with relationships, and now I'm dating the most badass girl in the world (In my opinion anyway)

yea...I hope that happens with me haha I've been reading about ways to be better at getting girls...going to be trying some of the stuff i've read...I hope it works because the woman I have a crush on right now is amazing...

Well, I was actually terrible with girls before I started being with her, ever since she helped me with everything especially my social anxiety and speaking to people. I mean she did meet me in a inpatient ward for teens with emotional disorders. I was literally going to kill myself that weekend when I met her. Ever since she's been with me and being fucking awesome at everything.

Pic related it's her.

Anyway, so what's your problem with the girl you have a crush on? Give me some more details. I might have some advice I just need to know: how you met her, what your relationship with her at the moment is, if you've ever tried to talk to her, what social groups you and her are in, if she's shown interest, and if you've ever told her how you feel

I met her at Tennis Drill (we take tennis together) but we go to different schools and were just friends...the most i've talked to her is 'Hey Karina, what's your number?' (her names Karina btw) because every other time i try and talk to her i lose my nerve before even walking up to her...and no i havent told her how i feel because i havent talked to her much

How long have you known her, and when she talks to you, is she overly friendly or sort of nervous?

honestly we havent talked much at all and i've known her for about 4 months...it's a weird crush...its one that I dont know why i have it...and it wont go away

Well you have her number, and she gave it to you? Alright, well, start talking to her, just talk like you'd be talking to anyone else, woman are people too! Just you know walk up her, maybe start off by saying "Hey we don't really talk much do we?" and then just start having a conversation on whatever, maybe ask her how school's going for her to start you off. Just carry on a conversation, and make sure to listen, also, read social cues, if she talks about being single she's most likely interested, or how guys suck. Show confidence, and don't just walk up to her in interests of getting a girlfriend, do it more on the mindset of just starting a conversation like with any random stranger and take it from there. Also, make sure to see if she avoid eye contact, touches her face often or plays with her hands. If she does seem interested at the time where you have to go, ask her casually if she'd like to go catch a movie (or whatever the hell you'd rather do). If she asks if it's a date, just say it depends. after the movies or whatever you did, you could tell her that you've had a crush on her for a while. Make sure to step off if she says anything about having a boyfriend, seems bored with you or if you can't have a decent conversation with her. Anyway, best of luck to you, hope this helps a bit and make sure to tell me what happens of this. Most of all, don't be nervous, you're just talking to another person, and if you guys find something in common you'll be able to to have a conversation with no problems. If nothing is in common with her, don't bother trying, a couple that doesn't have anything to do together breaks up pretty quickly.

yea...i think i will try that on monday (the next time i see her) and yea she gave me her number but she hasnt really been replying to my messages...

It usually doesnt go that quick and i really dont have the balls to like start touching her face or play with er hands :/

Ok AresX has a point this is textbook but one thing you're clearly having an issue with is confidence. Adopt the three second rule. That means within three seconds after you see her you have to start a conversation with her. This will reduce the main issue with confidence which is overthinking.

I start a conversation right away, dont get me wrong, we're really fluent like taht, we talk a whole lot

IF SHE TOUCHES HER OWN FACE OR PLAYS WITH HER OWN HANDS! DO NOT ASSUME PHYSICAL CONTACT! And well, you need to just go up to her and talk to her, you know, like any other person.

yeah, i was thinking wtf "touch her face" :p. but euh, I do, we get together and shit, Its just that, you know

BRO i know the feel, exactly! I feel sorry for you :c. I dont grant it to anyone, I'm having the same thing now. Except I talk to her... but for the rest I know the feel. feel free to ask for help :)

This is scary relatable to my situation, I hope my crush doesn't.

Sorry to hear that though bro.

>Message crush to prom
>says yes
>shits all set get prom tickets
>She has college interviews so she cancels
>ask good female friend of mine
>says yes
>planning on getting her a dress
>and practice dancing since we both don't know how
>she cancels a week before prom
>Take my best friend instead since he didn't have money to pay for a ticket
>High School Prom record 1-3

I know that feel.
The night before at 11pm saying work had called her in.

i know how you fell the only time i get a text is when they need something

I also know that feel :(

It's okay. I understand.

Tends to be the only time when people text me as well.

Sister, eh?

"hey crush, want to go to the movies this weekend?"

pretty basic request with no hint of it being a date or anything because technically its not. so there no tension between you and her if she says yes or no, and you don't have the pressure of trying to make it a perfect date.You can try making a move, but make it subtle and after you can ask her out somewhere else.

Haha. Me. Subtle.

Anyway, thanks for the advice, I'll have to try it.

You should NOT have put "Dont stop believing." That's as far as I got.