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User avatar #457 - amissingmouse ONLINE (12/12/2012) [-]
I'm currently in a similar situation. He's in america, I'm in china.
We aren't exactly dating, but once he gets out of the relationship, we're going to try.
I love you, derpit <3
User avatar #465 to #457 - spanican (12/12/2012) [-]
The key for the relationship to work is simply commitment. Both have to put in their part. Love is built by two people, destroying it only takes one. Good luck to you! :)
User avatar #467 to #465 - amissingmouse ONLINE (12/12/2012) [-]
At the moment we already talk, all the time. :3 and it's just really nice. Though I do get up early to talk to him, and he does the same for me. It's just. Commitment is also a step. Otherwise, this as a basic level wouldn't have happened.
User avatar #471 to #467 - spanican (12/12/2012) [-]
True, well I hope it all goes well really! When it comes to the one you love, there is no such thing as barriers. I started out the same with my gf; as friends we spoke to each other every single possible moment... One day we decided to give it a go thanks to her and here we are almost two years later and nothing has changed except the fact that I love her more.
I really hope the same happens to you! When you know it, you're confident things will turn out to be great.
User avatar #474 to #471 - amissingmouse ONLINE (12/12/2012) [-]
I suppose so...
Really though, I have a horrible feeling it might screw up though, or i might screw up. I know what he's doing behind his current gf's back, and it is quite disturbing for me to know it. Im trying to put it off, because to be truthful? derpit is worth it, I just don't like the idea of having..to do this behind his gf's back..=_=" We're friends, but we already know what we are to one another, and he and i have kinda made plans already for our life....WHEN SHE'S THERE.
User avatar #478 to #474 - spanican (12/12/2012) [-]
I see, that's quite a bump in the road. This isn't an easy situation to solve but my best advice is that the two that belong should remain. If he loves ya and doesn't love derpit then he has to find a way to let her go gently. I know you said she's worth it, but if he loves you then is it fair for her to be with a guy who loves someone else? The solution here is to do what feels right, not what is thought to be right otherwise, in the end, no one will end up happy. I hope this isn't too confusing but even this advice alone isn't strong enough to decide what has to be done. Only ones who can figure that out is you and him. Just know that it's not your fault you love him and he loves you while having a girlfriend, don't feel bad! Ever thought that it was meant to be between you and him and not her and him? I'm not trying to discredit derpit here, but what I mean to say is that love isn't something we decide upon.
User avatar #482 to #478 - amissingmouse ONLINE (12/12/2012) [-]
Derpit is the guy im talking about.<3 silly. and I suppose so. /= I just feel bad, that's all.
User avatar #486 to #482 - spanican (12/12/2012) [-]
OH, embarassing... for a second i associated Derpit with derpette... well yea you got what I meant. But yea, my comment can still apply! do what feels right, and let your heart take you there. I hope you guys try to work something out that'll be as mutual as it can get.
User avatar #487 to #486 - amissingmouse ONLINE (12/12/2012) [-]
Yep, thank you!
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