Oh god the feels

Hey, femanon. Anon here. And I get exactly what you're saying. I've got a few friends in relationships right now, and in most cases it seems pretty unhealthy. One guy literally does anything this girl tells him to do, she makes him feel shitty when he doesn't deserve it at all. Frankly she's not that attractive interestingly enough, but rather she's the only girl who's ever really been into him.

Another friend is with a girl, and they consistently bad-mouth each other behind their backs, they've both cheated, and over-all it's just a mess of a situation.

It just seems that most people aren't mature enough to hold a relationship that puts understanding first, rather than ulterior motives.

To sum it up. Most people are terrible, and date because they don't want to feel alone. They'll either do whatever the other asks, just to avoid being alone, or try and have control over a relationship through manipulative ways.

Here's hoping a few anons like us can end up finding something good. :)

i dont want some one who hides in the corner, i want someone who wants to start through in life, having fun, going out, seeing places. Oh yeah, and attractivity is important too. You may say now "he's just a douche looking at appearence", but thats not true at all. You for yourself decide how you want to appear. so it's a thing of confidence. and if you have confidence, you will have an completely different view on life than now. Believe me, i was once the most betafag ever, but got over it. Now lets come to the next part of your message. It's all a game. Maybe it's sad, yes. and you won't understand why douches get girls and bitches get guys, but its simple and correlated to what i've written first. You are just interesting if you can catch up the intellectual level of a person, and you are even more interesting if you can surpass it, or just seem to do it. While you are playing these little games with someone (flirting is just a big game, and its fun too), it's a contest. And Yup, if you want so, i find these "bitches" interesting.

On the other hand, if they stay bitches, when i learned them better to know, they lose my interest.

>inb4 bad english

You sound pretty awesome Femanon...

That's fucking amazing.

The doctor seems so happy to be telling her that she has breast cancer.