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#8 - pineapplepeople
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(03/30/2013) [-]
For ****** sake... you've broken me, let me give this a shot:
>Be me, last year
>Never had a girlfriend
>6 weeks before prom
>Get crush on 8/10 sophomore (I was a junior)
>Start talking to her on facebook
>Finally get up the courage to ask her to prom
>She pauses for a second, feels like an hour
> She says yes
>Get her number the next day
>Text her constantly
>Fast forward 2 weeks
>Go on a few dates, all goes well
>Think I'm in love

To be continued
#9 to #8 - pineapplepeople
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>Get a text one night
>"I have to tell you something"
>Turns out she kissed her ex that day
>Rage level 20%
>"Ok, so what now?"
>"I think we need a break"
>"If that's what you want"
>Talk the next day, still going to prom.
>Talk everyday, awkward as ****
>I'm pretty good at hiding emotion, look happy as ****
>Heart is breaking
>Fast forward to prom
>Party bus with some friends to prom
>It was fun, kinda awkward
>Get back to friend's house
>"I just don't like you like I thought I did."
>Rage approaching 60%
>Act like nothing's wrong so she thinks I never cared that much
>Party with friends, life is good.

Still more
#10 to #9 - pineapplepeople
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>Skip to this year
>She starts dating some dude who's on my bus
>He's nice
>She starts talking the bus
>I still love her
>Have to see her and this guy everyday and act like I'm ok

This **** ******* sucks.
#14 to #10 - anon
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It's not love... you put too much emotion into your relationship because she was your first... So don't be a pussy she get on with life.
#12 to #10 - thrustingreatbacon [OP]
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i know that feel D: (the person in the story i posted isnt about me, but I know exactly what it feels like to have to watch someone you love love someone else :( )
i know that feel D: (the person in the story i posted isnt about me, but I know exactly what it feels like to have to watch someone you love love someone else :( )
#11 to #8 - thrustingreatbacon [OP]
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#1 - hitro
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As hard as it is to say, you probably need to move on with your life. She will probably thin that you are a stalking creep if you move over here and i highly doubt it's actually a distance problem that she is having as she was able to do it for four years.

I think that she just likes this new guy for whatever reason more than you at this time. Their love is young and that is almost always the best love. however you need to tell us what is so wrong with this guy, why don't you like him, why doesn't the friend like him.

Again thought no matter how hard it seems you should probably move on with your life and put this experience into finding someone else, however do not lose contact with her completely.

Sorry that I can't be of any real help.
User avatar #3 to #1 - thrustingreatbacon [OP]
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To be honest, the last thing this guy wants to do is give up. It's like that option doesn't exist to him. And the reason why he doesn't like this guy is because he makes the girlfriend act differently around him. For example, the girlfriend and him always told eachother everything. Even when the girlfriend started to have feelings for another guy before this one, she told him and they worked through it as a couple. Something about this guy made her not want to talk to him and it worried and frustrated him, and when he met him while he visited for valentines day, there was a thick tension coming from both of them :I It was kinda awkward. Also, this guy kinda took his girl right from under him, he didn't even try to resist having his way with her knowing she was in a relationship already :T
#4 to #3 - hitro
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That is the last the he want's to do indeed but there are not many options but to at least keep in contact with her.

I would just ask her what she liked about him so much and to be careful around him.

But If i was the girl and i saw that my ex moved into town to try to get back with me, I would be freaked out.
User avatar #5 to #4 - thrustingreatbacon [OP]
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He is going to keep in contact, he is taking things very slow and is going to try to weasel his way back into her feels.

And I actually hadn't considered that she may think is creepy that he come here for her, but according to him, she can't resist having him near, hence why I suggested to him that the distance (him in alaska, us in connecitcut) is one of the largest issues. If he had been here for teh duration of the relationship, none of this would have happened probably :T
#7 to #5 - hitro
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It probably wouldnt of happened, because he would have kept her away from him, does she still need to be near/see him? Or was that before. After a break up these things change drastically.

But yes keeping things slow and keeping in contact is the best way to go.

I still suggest asking why she likes him so much.
User avatar #13 - thecheesepoofs
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I've been dating a girl for over a year and love her more than anything else in this world. she is my soul mate and ive done so much for her. two days ago she said she needed space and is ow flirting and maybe in love with another guy... i don't know you at all but i guess we can relate.. it is the worst feeling in the world
#15 - stankfinger
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I....I can't relate and can relate. It's hard to describe this but I will try. My friend I've only know since college got asked out by this girl my senior year, she was a junior at the time. He is awkward guy and has been his whole life from what he's told me. He's a great guy it's just I can tell hes broken but she came into his life. She was shy like him but they went well together. He fell in love with her so quick it wasn't funny and she apparently liked him back. I didn't get to really talk to her or him that much but I knew from what he said she was his goddess and he was starting to want to interact more with society. This went on for I would say two years and then she said something I knew that just dug him deeper. She told him that they both needed space. He was just too in love with her and she him is what she apparently told him for the reason to break him. She told him she wanted to see what else was out there and that he was her first. She also said she only wanted to be friends and that they could become a couple again if she really loved him. It's been a year and she has a new boyfriend, one who I thought was gay and wanted nothing to do with girls. He dropped out of college, quit his job, and I'm sure contemplated dying as I don't know since he slunk back into his habits about dislocating himself from society. I saw him a while back and he still doesn't seem as great off but better.

User avatar #16 to #15 - thrustingreatbacon [OP]
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Well, I can't judge exactly how close that is since I am the 'friend' in this story and don't know all the details, and i can see you are the friend in your situation too. It sounds pretty similar and my friend has sort of cut himself off from the world, but his anger has pushed him into an alpha male mode where he works out an insane amount every day and literally walks to work every day becaus eh doesnt have a car ._. he's a ******* tank and he's ready to make like kool aid man and jump back into ehr life and sweep her off her feet, even if it means losing all his money to move here. I'm going to be moving in with him so we can split rent, i'm trying to help him as much as I can D: Maybe you can motivate your friend to go alpha boss and sweep her off her feet. In the end, we think that she will miss everything about her original boyufriend because he too wa her first for everything and they had a very special strong relationship.
#2 - thragtusk
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