Hey buddy, listen
It's easy, can't you see?
You just have to follow these steps
As easy as one, two, three!
First you plant your feet
And make sure you can stand
Don't put your arms behind you
Make sure you show her your hands.
Next you take a deep breath
The coming step is near
But don't you worry, buddy
Surely there's nothing to fear!
You make sure she can hear you
And make sure not to pout.
You look her in the eyes and say
"I'd like to ask you out."
And then here comes the silence
That sure looks like a trend
For she'll tell you quite earnestly
That she only likes you as a friend.
But do not fret, oh young one
For everyone says goodbye
When your clock stops ticking
And it's your turn to die.
I just got in a relationship with someone during a convention of sorts... yeah its a bit scary after having a fiancee leave you for a frat boy after 4 years. Wish me luck.
Long story short... Frat boy from South Africa (Friend of my ex fiancee's sister)... pulled the "I am so unique and cool lines, and like drugs and drinking hard" and she literally left me for him the day after next. Hung out with my all while meeting him secretly and **** ... ****** me up for 6 months, lost 35 pounds...
Gained back 40, ****** up his new car, and decided never to be so timid again.
This girl is a younger anime fan (legal ofc) and sweet. Probably better chances! xD Took four years for the other one to screw me over. Clock starts now!
Alright i need some advice... so i broke up with my ex, it was a bad breakup so painfull and what i realised was that i loved her but she didnt love me and she did lie to me, but i dont think she cheated on me, though that is a possibility i still dont think so ( and im the guy who expects the worse).... so now i though alright im over it, yet in my sub-consious she is still in my mind at least thats what i believe now, cause i tried to have sex with other girls, but just couldnt.. ( keep in mind im not some fat guy too whom sex is everything, though i used to believe im addicted to it cause i wanted it 24/7) . Now the last couple of times i was at this party and i hooked up with this girl, the problem is i was too drunk, so you guys know what that ment... whisky dick The problem is i hooked up with her again, next week, just being a little tipsy and the same problem happend... now all that time while i was trying to have sex my ex-gf was always in my mind and i couldnt shake it off, though i never think about her daily, I though since it was a bad break up i need some closure or something, but she wont speak to me... So is what should i do now?
By everything you've written you sound insecure as **** ... If you actually have to write out 1-2 paragraphs of information just to describe your current stance, it's probably not ******* worth it, man.
i probably am insecure right now, witch is a really weird feeling for me, because i always faced my problems head on and i never been one of the emotional types kinda guy, the thing is that girl (my ex) somehow got to me, and made me open up myself and after she did that, she left because i was a "cold wall" or some **** like that, and.. i really cant understand that. I didnt quite understood what not worth though, thanks for caring aswell. That means a lot actually.
Ya I'm in a relationship now and I'm scared b/c idk whats gunna happen.....I really like being single, but I like this guy more and just hope I end up not getting hurt
Had lunch with this girl on Sunday. Hung out with her again today and we walked around campus and talked for like an hour. I was actually seeing potential. She was so cool and interesting.
I asked her out and she said she was seeing someone.
At least this time, I didn't let myself become too affectionate.