Ho boy
Y'all better hide, because this may be the gayest thing I've ever typed.
Look, I think the thing I dislike about soceity most today is how relationships are treated, especially where guys are concerned. Y'know, the whole "There's only one thing men really want" deal. Heck, one of the measuring sticks for how sucessful a guy is these days is how many girls he's had sex with. It's practically considered shameful for a dude to still be a virgin when he gets out of highschool because it's assumed if you don't want to smash every female you see, there must be something wrong with you.
I dunno, I just can't identify with that. Yeah, my sex drive is pretty strong (just look for my comments in **** sometime), but that's not ultimately why I want to be in a relationship with a girl. As odd as it may sound, when I feel attracted to someone, this is almost exactly how I feel: I just want to protect their happiness, no matter what detriment that means to me. And it feels like not only is that not valued today, it's both considered to be a myth, and if someone does actually make it their priority, it's looked upon as strange.
I guess . . . I just wish people were more interested in relationships, rather than just sex.
You want to like go out with me some time? well go grab something to eat, pizza if ya want, or I know this place that has some pretty good pork souvlaki. not a lot of great sightseeing places around but there are some shopswith some hella cool things to see.
cows can be pretty yummy. alternatively they're decent company if you prefer them that way. especially by a lakeside.we're in the same country so we've got that too.
though picnics are kinda cheesy the weather should be nice that far north
Well maybe the people who like superficial relationsships are the ones who talk more about their superficial relationsships than others do? From what i see in my surrounding most people of at least a little bit of age want the more serious stuff. Just because its strongly presented in the media doesn't mean it applies to the average human
To me sex and love are both equally important parts of a relationship, I don't want one without the other.
I don't see why it has to be one way or the other or whats wrong with sexuals.
And while I do agree the whole virgin thing is ******** , it's hard not to feel like a failure. Especially when all the remaining virgin girls get railed everyday so that they are basically like unicorns beyond a point.
Romans 1:24-25 Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed for ever! Amen.
The liberal media controlled by the satanic elite is also to be blamed, of course.
You know, thank you, you were able to put into words what some of us have been feeling, there's nothing wrong with us, it's just with the massive collision of different social and societal beliefs and a lack of cohesion upon a set way, that's why most of the people are like the way they are, it's just somewhere along the line the "freedom" of choice just critical mass...
I don't really get the whole "Feelings are gay" thing.
I'm a damn hardass, but when someone comes to me, feeling sad, i'll try my damn best to make them smile at the very least.
Takes courage to come out for bad feelings.
I just remember my last year of Middle School, they had a comedian guy give the 8th graders a talk. It was mostly about chastity (due to it being a Catholic school), but the major point that really hit home with me was "Love is not an emotion. Love is not kisses. Love is wanting the best for the other person, going out of your way to make them happy, even if you have to sacrifice something of your own to do it." I carry his words with me to this day.
I have had about 8-9 sexual partners and I am 30, But only been in love twice.
Lost at 15, but had veeerrrry long lulls in activity, we talking years of no badoinking. I just was never really one to go around with any old hag, Plus i had a phobia of catching sti's and **** .
current GF I just don't wanna lose her smile, it got me through some tough times. I have long relation ships (4 years ) But as for sex prob have a count half of what people my age would have clocked up, but It was always (well mostly) with people who mattered.
I think the best idea is to keep an eye out during college years, (whether or not you are even in college), because it seems like more and more people figure out that real relationships matter as they approach the end of their 20s. That's way late if you ask me, but in the end it's how it is.
GET OUT OF MY HEAD. But seriously, I feel the same way. I'm almost 20 and.still a virgin and people are blown away by it. Or trying to find a guy on a dating website only for him to want to hook up For sex. I want the intimacy dammit!
Gayest thing you ever typed? Naw son, them some words of truth.
What you're talking about is a relationship between two intelligent humans who can treat each other with dignity and respect rather than just mindless hormones. That's why I think a lot of relationships fail; caused they are based on primitive desires which aren't meant to last (people instinct to spread their genes, etc).
But when you find a person whose very existence, as a person, you want to protect, now that's a high level relationship. Those are relationships you build over time, and are definitely not easy to come by. But, by all means, never settle for anything less, my good man. Godspeed!
Mirai Kuriyama is the most adorable chinese girl in any animu ever second only to that goddess of poverty from Noragami. I mean, if I had a waifu, it wouldn't be her, it would be Lilly from Katawa Shoujo, but still. .
Maybe it's the glasses and the tiny feet. I don't know, but just holy *********** .
11/10 would cuddle nonsexually with.
I'm in the same boat as thepizzadevourer. I'm a massive romantic and I love cute songs and dances, and I've never been able to keep back a tear at the Titanic ending song (My Heart Will Go On). I believe in true love, love at first sight, and that love can genuinely conquer all if strong enough; yet whenever I express these views I'm either branded as a weirdo or extremely effeminate, including by girls; and it's just gotten to the point where I don't talk about it anymore.
Holy **** , I nearly had a mental breakdown during my mid high-school years because every girl I was intimate with wanted to be roughed up, abused, and borderline raped while all I wanted to do was share a sensual, passionate time together. Very few can imagine the shame and disgrace I felt because I was not 'man enough' to please a woman.
It's funny, you can actually go outside and talk to people about male self-esteem issues, and nearly every girl you talk to would be absolutely flabbergasted at the very thought that a man could feel self conscious or ugly in their day to day life...
Can anyone recommend me some good shojo? It's pretty hard to find good ones. For example, I enjoyed Good Ending. And i'm almost up to date with Girls of the Wild's
I saw ouran, it was an awesome show, i've watched the first episodes of Toradora, but was a bit busy to finish it, i'll have to pick it up again.
kaichou wa maid sama, i've heard good things about it, i'll check it out. Thanks
**bitofatit used "*roll picture*"** **bitofatit rolled image**this season compared to the last seasons is already leaps and bounds ahead, and theres only 4 eps. ITS JUST TOO GOOD. waiting a week is hard times.jpeg