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Christian Singles!
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for Christian singles looking to
find friends, romance or marriage.
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Submitted: 02/15/2015
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#6 - jkrule [OP] Comment deleted by jkrule [+] (6 replies)
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User avatar #2 - drpoptart (02/15/2015) [-]
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singles, you say?
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User avatar #28 to #2 - lollar (02/16/2015) [-]
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#35 to #2 - godofhorizons (02/16/2015) [-]
Those are Mormons. We count those
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User avatar #7 to #2 - pwnagraphy (02/16/2015) [-]
******* REKT
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#5 to #2 - captnnorway (02/15/2015) [-]
You tried
You tried
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User avatar #3 to #2 - drpoptart (02/15/2015) [-]
you've got to be ******* kidding me
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#60 to #3 - alecmason (02/16/2015) [-]
Holy ******* **** .
Holy ******* **** .
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#32 - sillybiscuits (02/16/2015) [-]
I'm a Christian, and at one point I was having such crappy luck in the dating field that I decided I'd give this site a try. It was only a matter of weeks before a conversation was struck up between myself and a 7/10 girl who seemed really chill and had a lot of the same interests that I do. So finally, I ask her on a date and we decide to go see a movie (Super 8... don't judge me). Right off of the bat, I notice something is off. She seems kind of aloof; she was more awkward in person than I had gathered from our chats online. I'm a pretty easy to get along with guy, so I just chalk it up to first-date jitters. Halfway through the movie, she turns to me and whispers "we need to talk". Long story short, she came out to me outside of the theater while she was in tears. She told me that I was a great guy but that she realized she wasn't attracted to me or guys in general. I tried to comfort her, she ran off in tears crying about how she was going to hell for being gay. (Cruel, right?) Anyhow, she ended up coming out to her parents, who ended up being pretty cool about it and we ended up being "just friends". So that's the story of how I went on a date with a girl that I met on Christianmingle and got friend-zoned so hard she turned gay.
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#67 to #32 - sirowlington (02/16/2015) [-]
Quite amazing, good sir.
Quite amazing, good sir.
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User avatar #76 to #32 - oxymoronking (02/16/2015) [-]
just tell her that, being a cerimonial law, as long as she sees jesus as the son of god, she will heaven do
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#58 to #53 - sillybiscuits (02/16/2015) [-]
It sounds worse than it is. She is actually a pretty cool person. I try not to take the weird **** life throws at me too personally
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User avatar #66 to #32 - thematthew (02/16/2015) [-]
well is she still a christian, because being gay should not stop her from believing in god.
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#69 to #66 - sillybiscuits (02/16/2015) [-]
Last I heard that was the case. Largely in part because her parents didn't try to scare her out of it.
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#14 - zeldamasterace (02/16/2015) [-]
as a christian, despite all of our inner turmoil, almost every other christian i've met agrees that christian mingle is a freaking laughingstock. it's more like an inside joke we have. no one takes it seriously. and if they do... we pray for them. a lot. personally i'd rather take my chances of being rejected IRL before signing up. < MFW i get rejected IRL and almost sign up
as a christian, despite all of our inner turmoil, almost every other christian i've met agrees that christian mingle is a freaking laughingstock.

it's more like an inside joke we have. no one takes it seriously. and if they do...
we pray for them. a lot.

personally i'd rather take my chances of being rejected IRL before signing up.

< MFW i get rejected IRL and almost sign up
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User avatar #57 to #14 - donatelo (02/16/2015) [-]
may i ask why it is a laughing stock?
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User avatar #59 to #57 - englishtallybopper (02/16/2015) [-]
see content
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User avatar #68 to #59 - donatelo (02/16/2015) [-]
well...thats a very small sample, you can find stuff like that on any dating site. my question is why it is a laughing stock, is it because of it being a dating site in general? or does that small sample really reflect the whole
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User avatar #80 to #68 - zeldamasterace (02/17/2015) [-]
part of it is that it is a dating site. and i think the other part of it is that most of the other christians i've talked to about it are young or around my age.
because we're in the springtime of youth thank you guy sensei there's this pressure to be in a relationship, be on our way into a relationship, or at least know how to get in one w/o outside help.
so its almost like the idea of choosing to seek out someone online vs irl is like giving up or throwing in the towel. its like you're saying there's something wrong with you if you go online.
imo i don't really care if someone goes online but there is a ton of stigma attached to seriously going to christian mingle.
again, that just might be the opinion from my age group, but even in my interaction with other christians outside my age group their opinions seem to be roughly the same or similar.
hope that made sense.
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#4 - captnnorway (02/15/2015) [-]
This is some clickbait site right?
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User avatar #11 to #4 - pepemex (02/16/2015) [-]
All sties are clickbait in a way
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User avatar #15 to #4 - zeldamasterace (02/16/2015) [-]
i wish it was clickbait
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User avatar #8 to #4 - carlonord (02/16/2015) [-]
Nah, it's real, just don't bother with it.
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#16 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
******* hate it that so many of my friends that are girls are hardcore Christians and have this incredibly ****** up perception of casual sex.
religion is ******** , the bible is ******** , and waiting for sex with your wife or husband is ******* dumb.
sorry, i just got done spending the weekend with a good friend of mine that im quite certain we have a mutual crush on one another and at the end of the night were over at her house watching netfix, and shes kinda laying against me. long story short religion come up in our conversation and she mentions that she hates it that "people are always pressuring her to break the principles that she lives by" and all i can think of is that i like her, and i had lots of fun, but whats so ******* bad about giving her a night she cant walk straight from the following morning. sex, handled responsibly is one of the most amazing things that any two people can do together. i hate it that religion has turned this amazing, natural, stress relieving activity into a demonic ritual that can anger a god. i bet we all know one or two girls that would do nothing but benefit from a good dicking.
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#43 to #16 - anon (02/16/2015) [-]
We don't believe sex is evil. It's just something that's much more "precious" I guess you could say, and throwing it out to anybody without true commitment (aka, marriage) just seems to cheapen it to us.

Besides, we believe it's meant between a man and wife, but we're not going to bite your head off if you're not a christian and you want to have sex anyway.
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User avatar #78 to #43 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
idk....reading the passages from the bible that have to do with sex makes it seem awfully bad. Christians may think it is as precious as you say, but thats a two way street. God seems to despise premarital sex with the same degree he despised murder and theft.

so, to have sex with the woman i love, before we are married. to god, this is the same as murdering that same lover?

i am not an atheist, i truly wish to be convinced otherwise. prove to me that i am wrong.
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User avatar #64 to #43 - dukeofmordor (02/16/2015) [-]
Wow anon, that's.... pretty accurate, good job
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#77 to #16 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
at the end of the day, i guess all im getting at is that until someone can convince me of Christianity, convince me that there is a god, certain things that my culture does will always piss me off.
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#27 to #16 - anon (02/16/2015) [-]
I'm married, and my wife and I have only had each other as sexual partners. You are right that sex is one of the most amazing things that two people can do together, which is why we waited for marriage. Say what you want, but it makes it all worth it in the end.
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User avatar #19 to #16 - civilizedwasteland (02/16/2015) [-]
if you truly enjoy each others company you would wait, but seeing as how you feel so strongly about your differing ideologically you would not be married very long.
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User avatar #20 to #19 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
dude, shes just a friend that i wouldnt mind having casual sex with

im not going to ******* marry her.
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User avatar #21 to #20 - civilizedwasteland (02/16/2015) [-]
then why waste your time?
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User avatar #22 to #21 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
waste my time with doing what?
i can have a romantic fling with a girl and have sex and whatnot and still not want to marry her.

just because you dont get married doesn't mean a relationship isnt worth it.
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User avatar #23 to #22 - civilizedwasteland (02/16/2015) [-]
if all you want is sex and this girl is not giving it to you then why keep any ties with her
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User avatar #24 to #23 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
thats just what im saying.

i like her, i probably have a fair amount of feelings for her.
what the **** is wrong with ******* ?

if i have a meaningful loving relationship with her, that is built on trust and honesty and respect. a relationship that leads to romantic passion. the catharsis of making love to someone you love wont happen because you arent "married"

its ******* ******** .
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User avatar #26 to #24 - stankape (02/16/2015) [-]
So if she's a good friend why not respect her ideologies about sex? Everyone has different ideals, and you're whining a lot about what she thinks is right
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User avatar #73 to #26 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
i do respect her as a person. shes smart, mature, self determined and very independent. she'll always be a friend of mine. but if were mutually attracted to one another, why shouldnt sex happen? because she believes in a fairy tale?
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User avatar #81 to #73 - stankape (02/17/2015) [-]
Yes, just because you don't agree with someone doesn't mean you shouldn't respect their right to believe it. Why is the way you want to live the only right one? Let her do her
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User avatar #84 to #81 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/17/2015) [-]
you continue to miss the point. i can respect someones right to believe in something stupid for a stupid reason and still think that belief is stupid.
just because you have a religious reason to believe something dumb doesnt make it not dumb.

i think the thing i believe in is not dumb because i can rationalize its benefits and prove it.



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User avatar #85 to #84 - stankape (02/17/2015) [-]
And you continue to miss my point that just because you say something is stupid doesn't make it stupid
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User avatar #86 to #85 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/17/2015) [-]
youre right, just because i say something is stupid doesnt make it so. i wonder if my decision to think its stupid is based on facts, evidence, and proof. the only things that matter.

what you say is a two way street, just because you think something isnt stupid doesnt make it not stupid.

btw were getting into semantics here and those discussions never pan out.
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User avatar #87 to #86 - stankape (02/17/2015) [-]
i suppose. just it seems that you should just let this girl live her life how she wants, and if her ideals don't match up with yours, than that sucks i guess
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#88 to #87 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/17/2015) [-]
now there's something i can agree with.

honestly i just posted this to rant and get it out of my system, but what you say holds true.

no matter her reasons or mine, if we disagree to such a point, it sucks to suck but its better to just get over it. people will live their lives the way they want no mater the reasoning.
people are ******* crazy
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#75 to #25 - worldofwarcraftdog (02/16/2015) [-]
your completely right, there's nothing i can hide from you. *sexually frustrated atheist noises*
your completely right, there's nothing i can hide from you.

*sexually frustrated atheist noises*
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User avatar #62 to #17 - thematthew (02/16/2015) [-]
as a christian i can honestly say sex is fine, just don't go ******* every chick in the known
universe.

siriously, if she thinks having sex a couple times is going to instantly heavan
block her, then she has a bigger problem than a sevan year ich
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User avatar #83 to #62 - stankape (02/17/2015) [-]
Don't get me wrong, I'm a Christian and Ive had sex and I'm not married, but im not gonna tell someone else how to live their life
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User avatar #82 to #62 - stankape (02/17/2015) [-]
Or maybe she just wants to dedicate her life to what she believes is right, and doesn't really deserve to be judged by a guy that wants to **** her
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#45 to #17 - necrosynth (02/16/2015) [-]
Eh, take a thumb dog. I'm at least agreeing with you (fun part is that I'm Christian).
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User avatar #29 - sanitarysan (02/16/2015) [-]
i am not religions but i can imagine christian singles would be a safer bet than atheist mingle...
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User avatar #30 to #29 - jkrule [OP](02/16/2015) [-]
I'm not too sure on that one. You never know...
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User avatar #31 to #30 - sanitarysan (02/16/2015) [-]
i don't know i have a feeling the atheism + comunity would be there...
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User avatar #34 to #29 - Zaxplab (02/16/2015) [-]
butwai?
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User avatar #36 to #29 - demandsgayversion (02/16/2015) [-]
At least with Athiest mingle, you know your death won't be a sacrifice - it'll just be for fun.
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User avatar #37 to #36 - sanitarysan (02/16/2015) [-]
am i missing out on something fun?
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User avatar #38 to #37 - demandsgayversion (02/16/2015) [-]
I'm not saying sacrifices aren't fun. I mean, nine times out of ten, they involve a volcano, and that's fun.
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User avatar #39 to #38 - sanitarysan (02/16/2015) [-]
that sounds pretty hot...
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User avatar #40 to #39 - demandsgayversion (02/16/2015) [-]
Hot enough to sacrifice steel beams
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User avatar #41 to #40 - sanitarysan (02/16/2015) [-]
nothing is that hot...
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#13 - churchguy (02/16/2015) [-]
Any other Christian singles on this site?
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#49 to #13 - anon (02/16/2015) [-]
Yes.
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#89 to #49 - churchguy (02/17/2015) [-]
k
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User avatar #44 - mikepetru (02/16/2015) [-]
Why the **** is Majin Buu on Christian Mingle?
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#47 to #44 - aproudpatriot (02/16/2015) [-]
That is weird. Considering how Satan is his best friend
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#52 to #47 - kameken (02/16/2015) [-]
Satanists are technically sort of Christians.


Not really.
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#55 - theycallmesatan (02/16/2015) [-]
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User avatar #51 - kameken (02/16/2015) [-]
I think it seems like a sign that you're a bit unsound in your faith to want only to date/interact with others of the same faith.

Like, "I don't want to have sex with an atheist because I might become one if I talk to one". There's nothing wrong with being unsound of faith, it means your mind is at least somewhat open, but sheltering it doesn't seem healthy.

Maybe I'm wrong, that's just what it seems to me.
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User avatar #79 to #51 - Mr Unsmiley (02/16/2015) [-]
Except you're looking at it in a pessimistic way.
People go on dating sites to find someone to eventually marry, especially on Christian dating sites. If they wanted hookups, they'd go to a bar or club.
Not even going into how most Christians ideally wouldn't have sex outside of marriage, but do you have any idea how difficult it would be being married to someone of a different faith? That's just causing unnecessary difficulty, there's nothing close-minded about it.
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User avatar #54 to #51 - slapchoppin (02/16/2015) [-]
or cause you wanna bang those crazy catholic chicks
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User avatar #63 to #51 - shogg (02/16/2015) [-]
I think it's more "I want to date someone with common interests"
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User avatar #10 - ruraidhri (02/16/2015) [-]
I would reck that bitches cuntifix.
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#48 - anon (02/16/2015) [-]
**anonymous used "*roll 6, 1-99*"**
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i'm very good at singles
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#42 - reican (02/16/2015) [-]
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**reican rolled image** tfw no alcohol
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#9 - kinglallak (02/16/2015) [-]
That last one is why Catholic Mingle is better... because Jesus' FIRST recorded miracle was turning water into wine... Why would he want us to not drink if he did that. The only thing that is wrong is drinking to excess to the point that it affects decision making.
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#12 to #9 - churchguy (02/16/2015) [-]
Dear kinglallak, I must protest protestant pun, sorry . Although your theology on drinking is indeed correct and I totally agree, why would Catholic Mingle be better?
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User avatar #18 to #9 - deadlyfoez (02/16/2015) [-]
Puscifer- Sour Grapes (legend of the mix)
" ****** A Jesus! He's Amazing!"

--Puscifer
...FTW
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