>implying doing both isn't possible.
I work and go to college. I don't have much time for doing other stuff and parties are generally just so exhausting that id rather not do it that much. I very rarely go to parties.
I honestly hate this normie concept because it leaves the impression to others that they are not normal or something is wrong with them.

I generally have specific people I hang out with throughout the week. I find having close relationships with specific people are more important than being known by a bunch of different people who really don't care that much about you.