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#4458928 - chaosascendingx (05/16/2013) [-]
It seems whenever I get too happy over someone
I beat myself up for it
I think its to not feel crushing disappointment later
i think its a good strategy
User avatar #4458958 to #4458928 - zekeon (05/16/2013) [-]
Works for me.
User avatar #4458955 to #4458928 - theblondefetus (05/16/2013) [-]
It's not a good strategy. It's a mental disorder
User avatar #4458998 to #4458962 - theblondefetus (05/16/2013) [-]
Well then give me an example of it. When was the last time you felt that way about someone?
User avatar #4459012 to #4458998 - chaosascendingx (05/16/2013) [-]
maybe a half hour ago?
User avatar #4459035 to #4459012 - theblondefetus (05/16/2013) [-]
Well elaborate on that. What is your relationship with the person? What led up to you beating yourself up about it?
User avatar #4459073 to #4459035 - chaosascendingx (05/16/2013) [-]
a friend that i thought of a lot
Just talking to them and being a bit too happy about it
User avatar #4459141 to #4459073 - theblondefetus (05/16/2013) [-]
Like a friend who you want to date or just a friend?

I think I'm familiar with the feeling. With me it's usually with someone I start to care about. It starts off good, then I realize I enjoy talking to whoever it is, at which point I feel stupid for liking them because they probably don't really give a damn about me. So I tell myself that we won't get close since I've already made up my mind that they wouldn't want to
User avatar #4459156 to #4459141 - chaosascendingx (05/16/2013) [-]
a friend i would want to date

and yeah that sounds like me
User avatar #4459210 to #4459156 - theblondefetus (05/16/2013) [-]
It's odd how quickly I can pick out this kind of thing now that I've noticed it in myself

If you do feel the same way I do about shit like this, it might be a fear of intimacy. That's why I've narrowed my problem down to.

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Read some of this if you want, it's a pretty good article on it
User avatar #4459260 to #4459210 - chaosascendingx (05/16/2013) [-]
thanks that article was very helpful actually..
#4459294 to #4459260 - theblondefetus (05/16/2013) [-]
I'm glad, that's what I was going for   
   
The standard "I'm here if you want to talk" applies here
I'm glad, that's what I was going for

The standard "I'm here if you want to talk" applies here
User avatar #4458935 to #4458928 - dustypengwin (05/16/2013) [-]
Do you still feel the crushing disappointment?
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