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#87629 - proxytoxic (07/30/2013) [-]
Hey Advice, I need some help. Not so much looking encouragement but I was hoping to be able to relate to somebody on here. For quite a few years now I've been in steady avoidance of serious relationships and lately just basic relationships in general. I've noticed that my lack  of enthusiasm in dating is starting to rub some of my  friends the wrong way when they try (unsuccessfully) to set me up on dates. Basically, I'm so focused on independence that I feel like I'm stuck in a rut and can't get  over my own solidarity and standards, which leaves me lonely. This is much harder to put to paper than I imagined, but is there anyone else who felt like I do now? And how do you get over it to make yourself more available?
Hey Advice, I need some help. Not so much looking encouragement but I was hoping to be able to relate to somebody on here. For quite a few years now I've been in steady avoidance of serious relationships and lately just basic relationships in general. I've noticed that my lack of enthusiasm in dating is starting to rub some of my friends the wrong way when they try (unsuccessfully) to set me up on dates. Basically, I'm so focused on independence that I feel like I'm stuck in a rut and can't get over my own solidarity and standards, which leaves me lonely. This is much harder to put to paper than I imagined, but is there anyone else who felt like I do now? And how do you get over it to make yourself more available?
User avatar #87730 to #87629 - smercenary (07/30/2013) [-]
I have Somewhat similar feelings. I've had a girlfriend before but it was just so bad I don't even want to explain it.
I feel indifferent about the whole situation because I'm so unsure if I'll be more happy than stressed in a relationship
#87859 to #87730 - proxytoxic (07/31/2013) [-]
That's like what I'm feeling right now. I can find someone to be involved with but then I start thinking of the pros and cons, I worry if the outcome is worth it, and then I've suddenly talked myself out of a possible relationship.
User avatar #87632 to #87629 - ThePhysGun (07/30/2013) [-]
Feeling the exact same way. Feel lonely but don't care for human contact.

Not much can really be done, as far as I can tell. You can't be forced into wanting a relationship. Try some online friends or something, they help with loneliness without actually having to deal with people.
User avatar #87718 to #87632 - proxytoxic (07/30/2013) [-]
Thanks man, I guess that there's no easy way out of it then. Nice to know that I'm not alone though.
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