maybe just talk it out and explain that it hurts - #98418599 added by kofro at Advice

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(07/25/2013)[-]

FJ, i feel like i really need someone to talk to. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and everything has been absolutely perfect about our relationship. I really love him but today he told me something that really broke my heart. We're going to college in 2 years and he plans to go in a city that is in the other side of the country, and i am aware that this will ruin our relationship for good, i think that we wouldn't even manage to stay friends. So i'm thinking that, even if it's a very hard thing to do, i should break up with him next year in order to have time to heal, because i don't want to spend my first years of college crying and suffering. Am i doing the right thing?

#86964 to #86947 - samponn

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(07/25/2013)[-]

Thank you both for replying. It means a lot to me. However, i feel that i shouldn't tell him how i'm feeling because i don't want to stand in the way of his happiness. I don't want him to have second thoughts on going to college in that town. I can't be that selfish. I feel that the only thing i can do is to enjoy our last year together, then try to survive seeng him every day knowing that i've lost him,then go to college. I believe that if you love someone you want the best for him.i can't stop crying right now

#86971 to #86964 - fladen

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(07/25/2013)[-]

this does seem like a big deal, and it seems you really do love him.. i dont really know much to say other than, if he hasnt expressed himself, as in. if he hasnt stood up and said "even though ill be far, i still want to be with you" and made it clear, it seems like he hasnt, then maybe you should tell him what you feel. with my ex, i would tell her even if were far away id still be with her, and i meant it. all im saying is, if he hasnt stated anything it can be a warning. and it seems like you really love this guy, i did too with my ex.

#86957 to #86947 - privoxy

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(07/25/2013)[-]

Tell him exactly what you just wrote. He'll understand.