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#61331 - anon id: 71edb96f
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Okay guys.

I went camping this weekend with 3 other friends, 2 girls and a guy (my best friend for the last 4 years, am close friends with the girls as well).

We all shared a tent, and one of the girls, lets call her Jane, puts her sleeping bag at a right angle to mine, with her head next to mine. I don't think much of it at first really. Anyway, we go to sleep at around 1am, and I wake up at around 2am, to find her holding onto my hand and stroking it, while apparently asleep.

Now, normally I'd be happy as fuck, she's a 9/10, a gymnast with an amazing body. The problem though, is that my best friend, the other guy in the tent, who is lying less than a metre away has had a crush on this girl for the last year and a half. Because of this, I decide to assume that it was an accident, and just her moving in her sleep. So I move my hand away a little, and go back to sleep.

#61332 to #61331 - anon id: 71edb96f
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10 minutes later, I wake up to her kissing me lightly. (Little backstory: I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years a little while back, and so am a bit emotionally 'fragile' and contact was welcome). By this point I'm into it, so I kiss her back and we fool around like that for the next 20 minutes or so. AT THIS POINT, I think my friend wakes up, because I hear him moving around so we both stop and go back to sleep, holding hands and shit.

2 days later and I'm feeling pretty shit. She wants to go further with me, but I know that it will really hurt my friend when he finds out. Pls FJ, what do?
User avatar #61371 to #61332 - Sethorein
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Unwritten code, whoever calls dibs gets first crack, if it takes them longer than half a year then they lose dibs.

The guy spent a year not going for her. How many years are you going to give him? At what point do you think his dibs should wear off? If he has no shot, or is too chicken shit to take a shot, you have every right to pursue a relationship.

If you wanna be nice, be upfront with him. Tell him that its been a year, and ask him if he's serious about going after this girl. If he says yes, give him an ultimatum. Tell him she could be yours if you continue, but you're giving him X amount of days to get his shit together and try to woo her. If he STILL can't manage to win her over it's not your fault anymore. You're just a guy who found a nice girl who likes him. If your friend is too petty to allow you to find romance just because he is incapable that's indicative of HIS lack of character, not yours.
User avatar #61336 to #61332 - xgameloverx
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Is the girl worth potentially ruining your friendship? If not, don't go further with her.
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