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User avatar #55207 - jlanez
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(02/20/2013) [-]
Guys, I need advice. On Saturday me and my girlfriend of three years got into a fight. She hadn't texted me in days, and when she did she wanted a break up. I begged for her to not , and eventually we settled down after fighting with each other. She still only texts me at night. Today I asked her how she was doing, and she said she was dropping some guy off, a guy who has tried to get in her pants for a while. When I asked about him, she got pissed at me for asking about him. I don't know what's going on. I love this girl to death, and every time I ask her now if she still wants to be with me, she says, "I don't know." What should I do now? I'm breaking down, and the last three years were perfect. I don't know how to get her back and make things the way they were before. Please help.
User avatar #55230 to #55207 - winsauceiswin
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(02/20/2013) [-]
you don't know anything solid yet so don't jump to conclusions yet bro! It sounds to me like she's either trying to make you jealous as "punishment" or giving you the cold shoulder out of frustration. chances are she's not thinking about leaving you at all, she's just enjoying the feeling of you begging for her and that's okay. the key here is good communication face to face not through texting. three years is a long time and you two know each other very well by now and should be able to discuss these things. tell her what you just told us; how you want everything to go back, be completely honest and try your best to not be hostile in anyway. im not sure what you fought over but generally after something big like this kind of fight theres a lot of tension after the initial "settling." if you make it through this your relationship will be a lot stronger

basic things to remember:
no concrete evidence so don't assume ANYTHING
face to face communication
tell her what you've told us

source: two yea relationship and i've been in this exact situation
User avatar #55225 to #55207 - misticalz
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(02/20/2013) [-]
If she's cheating on you...Just break it off now dude.