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#50357 - N. Korean citizen (01/23/2013) [-]
My boyfriend makes me feel so guilty about my mistakes I want to die
Can someone help me?
User avatar #50581 to #50357 - aclopolipse (01/25/2013) [-]
From your comments it sounds like a classic abusive relationship situation. If you're not dependent on your boyfriend (living in his house, financial dependence, etc.) and you can either support yourself of you have family/friends in the area that would protect you, call off the relationship in a safe place. That means somewhere public where a lot of people can see you, ideally somewhere with police or some sort of security personnel nearby (movie theater, club, public park, and outside a bank are all good places) in case he tries to pull some shady shit.
#50358 to #50357 - denooo (01/23/2013) [-]
Ill do my best miss. Whats wrong?
#50359 to #50358 - N. Korean citizen (01/23/2013) [-]
Thank you.
Background: He's a major hypocrite. Im not allowed to like certain things or talk about them. He doesn't like it if i mention one of my male friends. But he's allowed to talk about whatever he pleases and hangs out with all of his friends both male and female.

Whenever i do say or do something stupid or break one of those "rules" he gets really really angry. He will bring up things to upset me from the past (my past mistakes i mean) and he will say something like " i would never do that to you".
He just goes on and on... It makes me feel like shit...
User avatar #50381 to #50359 - akkere ONLINE (01/23/2013) [-]
One thing you are going to watch out for is any "Honeymoon phase" he might pull - such as getting emotional and saying "you're right, I'm suck a prick", or coming back weeks later with flowers in hand.
It happens, especially with people that are controlling, and they start out by throwing out the rules, but find ways to slowly tract them back in.
User avatar #50366 to #50359 - dubslao (01/23/2013) [-]
Dump his ass.
Throw him on the curve.
He is too demanding and controlling, especially if you want to die.
User avatar #50360 to #50359 - torkildsen (01/23/2013) [-]
Leave him. He's not worth it. Way too controlling and if he makes you feel like shit you shouldn't be with him. You can ask him to stop being so bossy, but it's probably best to be rid of him asap
#50362 to #50360 - N. Korean citizen (01/23/2013) [-]
Thank you... you're right, he is very controlling.
I'm going to talk to him tonight.
Thanks for the help
#50393 to #50362 - denooo (01/23/2013) [-]
Hey i totally missed giving you my advice but just remember to stay strong when talking to him
User avatar #50365 to #50362 - torkildsen (01/23/2013) [-]
No problem
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