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User avatar #43535 - cbobrow (12/16/2012) [-]
Hey everyone
So I started telling people I wasn't a virgin about 2 years ago give or take and I guess it started as a ploy to get some kinda alpha status but in real life I've only kissed 1 girl, held hands with 2, and have only gotten to second base by accident. I really do not like how far it's gotten and I dont like lying to people. Can someone maybe give me an idea of how to tell people that it's all a lie...? I'm 16 by the way if that helps in anyway..
User avatar #43590 to #43535 - imnotkickthecat (12/17/2012) [-]
give her the d
User avatar #43577 to #43535 - tjcomics (12/17/2012) [-]
Could say you're a virgin, but when people ask say its your second virginity? Still a lie, just not as harsh..
User avatar #43543 to #43535 - theantidote (12/16/2012) [-]
Ahh the dangers of lying about sex..Hmm, I would think the best way out of that sort of situation is to not talk about it really (if you want to avoid the potential ridiculing) you can throw in some knowledgeable words but try not to put them from your perspective.
You could obviously own up to it, it all depends on what your friends are like or how deep the lie has gotten.
I used to do it when I was younger, I never owned up to it and never have, I only ever told my first proper girlfriend..so it all depends on your current situation on who you told and there possible reactions, but I suppose you don't want girls thinking you are some sort of whore ^,^
User avatar #43541 to #43535 - xspacemanx (12/16/2012) [-]
Not being a virgin isn't something to brag about. It's too personal and no one really cares because you're a guy if you were telling the truth or not. Stop lying and have confidence and a high self esteem. Those two things are the main things you need for a women. Don't get women to see how far you can go, get women to have someone be there for you. If you get 2000 girls to kiss you but did they mean it? probably not. You need to worry about the 1 that counts and is done out of love. Also, don't search for women. just go places, talk to a lot of people, be friendly, be cool and they will start to show up in your life.
User avatar #43546 to #43541 - cbobrow (12/16/2012) [-]
My friend I've already found the person that I want to be with and have been in love with since the say I met her. She on the other hand had other intentions apparently after giving me false hope for 6 months. But to a 14 year old it was something to brag about.
User avatar #43549 to #43546 - xspacemanx (12/16/2012) [-]
whatever. just saying you're 16. the only thing you should worry about is school, afterschool activities, and maybe a girlfriend. College is main priority because there is a hell of a lot of women there. you're bound to find one that will do you up good.
User avatar #43538 to #43535 - mllerayael (12/16/2012) [-]
i got into that when i was younger and friends with alot of kids older than me i still havent told alot of them :S not because i like lying to them but because the situation where it seems ok to tell them has never came up and i'm not even mates with most of them now.
The way that i considered telling them was to admit it to them one by one and i supposed word would get around without too much hassle it would be embarrassing for a few days before people moved on and found something else to talk about i kinda wish i had just done it back then instead of trying to get people to like me so much
User avatar #43540 to #43538 - cbobrow (12/16/2012) [-]
The worst thing is that I already had a fairly strong social place in my group. I don't know why I did it, but I don't want to be that person.
User avatar #43544 to #43540 - mllerayael (12/16/2012) [-]
if they are your friends they wont really care after you explain it to them and even if they fall out with you it wont be for long i guess its a case of do you consider them good enough mates to understand you?
User avatar #43551 to #43544 - cbobrow (12/16/2012) [-]
That was also 2 years ago.... My life has changed hmm... a shitton since then. I have maybe 1 person I trust, I cut myself off from one of my closest friends because my best friend who I deeply in love with and had stopped our beginning of a relationship because I cut myself off from the girl who I am in love with and she was just to close to her and I couldn't deal, various other stupid shit... So I have no idea where my social standing would sit if I were to tell people now.
User avatar #43552 to #43551 - mllerayael (12/16/2012) [-]
then maybe not tell them i'm not saying lie more but just avoid it why put yourself in such an awkward position for people you dont feel close to?
User avatar #43553 to #43552 - cbobrow (12/16/2012) [-]
Thats the problem ... I have no idea... I guess I wanted in with the people higher up than me.
User avatar #43558 to #43553 - mllerayael (12/16/2012) [-]
I know exactly how you feel but one of the reasons i never came clean to most people was because i simply did not see the point in making life more complicated for myself needlessly, share it with the people who count it means so much more to them than the others
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