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User avatar #42193 - americantuesday
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(12/11/2012) [-]
Two girls:

Girl A is a close friend of mine who I helped through a breakup. She's confessed to me several times that she has feelings for me, and while the thought's crossed my mind, I never really considered it. Back in August, we considered giving it a shot, but eventually plans fell through and I broke it off. She's a great confidant, we go through similar problems, have similar interests, and really understand one another. I talked to her last week about the whole situation again, telling her of how back-and-forth I've been with feelings for her, and we agreed to try it again. So far, though, no plans have been set in stone. She's told me that she doesn't care if we remain friends or date, so long as we get out of an awkward transition phrase. I feel I owe her some for being dumb about the whole situation, nor do I want to disappoint her. At the same time, I'm not sure whether any feelings that do exist for her are actually there, or I just think they are. Either way, they aren't terribly strong.

Girl B is someone I met last year, but only recently have gotten to know at a better level. Over the summer we went to the local fair, and I can honestly say she was the first person I could honestly say I had feelings for since months prior. I didn't really see her until school started again. I doubted we'd get any closer, but the thought lingered. Now, apparently, it's been determined by the stars (and everyone we know) that we're supposed to be together, and she is aware of the talk, too. The more I hear of it, the more I'd actually like for it to happen. From my understanding, she's down for trying something; and, believe me, I am too. My feelings for her are stronger than any others that may linger.

This Friday I will be seeing Girl A at a birthday party, which may be the "plan" we've been discussing. Saturday, I see Girl B at a Secret Santa party. I am her gift-giver, and plans have apparently been made for us to get closer, if you know what I mean.

User avatar #42304 to #42193 - ifuckingloveguitar
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give both the d
User avatar #42250 to #42193 - imnotkickthecat
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(12/11/2012) [-]
give her the d
User avatar #42206 to #42193 - kobegriffeysanders
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Just forget about what other people want and ask yourself this: What do you want? From what you said, you make it seem like you want Girl B more than Girl A. I would say that, based on what you said, you should go for Girl B.

That's just my two cents on it though.
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