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User avatar #37948 - smittdawg
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(11/18/2012) [-]
Okay, I feel uncomfortable posting stuff like this, but whatever, here it goes.

>Me and girl hang out a lot at school
>We obviously know we like each other
>Ask her out
>she says she doesn't want a complex relationship, later she tells me "Stuff can still happen"
>We hang out more
>I kiss her two days later
>We're in drama club, so we went on an all day field trip yesterday (Saturday)
>3 hour bus ride
>we hold hands like all day
>Kiss her on the bus ride back a couple of times (at night)
>cuddle and stuff

But she doesn't want a relationship. I'm new to this whole relationship thing, so can someone at least tell me what we are?
User avatar #37974 to #37948 - JustForTheLulz
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(11/18/2012) [-]
The only person that's replied to you thus far that's worth listening to is Tech. You can decide if my advice makes sense.

It seems like she likes you, but like you said she's hesitant to make the situation official. I think you should ask her to talk about what's going on. Tell her you enjoy spending time with her, like you did at the field trip, and that you also enjoy the cuddling, like on the bus, but let her know that you're confused as to why she won't at least give you a chance on a date. I'd ask her to just go out on one date, to see how things go, so she doesn't feel like she's jumping into a serious relationship too fast.
User avatar #37979 to #37974 - smittdawg
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(11/19/2012) [-]
Yes, that's great advice, thank you. I was actually thinking about asking her what we were tomorrow in school, so I guess I'll just do that. Thank you very much
User avatar #37980 to #37979 - JustForTheLulz
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(11/19/2012) [-]
No problem, best of luck.
User avatar #37954 to #37948 - tropius
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(11/18/2012) [-]
You- Friendzoned
Her- Retarded
User avatar #37953 to #37948 - techketzer
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(11/18/2012) [-]
Every relationship (as in the technical term here) between humans is unique.
Complete strangers on an image board have no hope of analyzing or guessing at what's going on with any accuracy at all.
And you don't want to act on our best guesses, relationships can be tricky enough as they are.

All that's certain is that you like her and she likes you, and that's a big step in the right direction already. Just see where it takes you.