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User avatar #37157 - loopz (11/15/2012) [-]
Hey FJ, I am a 14 year old depressed kid with a bipolar personality. There is a dance this week and the closest I ever gotten to a girl was saying hi. My friends are urging me to go but I keep saying no. If I were to go(which I probably won't), what should I do? I don't know how to talk or to flirt with girls whatsoever. I really need help because my close circle of friends are fading away by my bipolar personality and don't have many friends left.

TL;DR 14 year old depressed kid, dance this week, doesn't know how to talk to girls, friends fading due to bipolar personality.
User avatar #37192 to #37157 - warrenzthehero (11/15/2012) [-]
When I go to dances, I don't interact much. I simply sit there and enjoy the atmosphere. Maybe show my mad dance skills once or twice towards the end.
User avatar #37175 to #37157 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
I have Bipolar as well, it's a serious pain in the ass. I had similar problems when I was 14, but being a girl I really wasn't picked on for not being able to talk to guys.

I gradually pulled myself out of my shell through, with help from my friends and the classes I took in high school (mainly JROTC). Ignore others and do what feels right to you.
User avatar #37176 to #37175 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
I am taking in high school*
User avatar #37179 to #37176 - loopz (11/15/2012) [-]
Thanks for the help, I appreciate it.
User avatar #37180 to #37179 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
Even when you're low, you have to remember that some day you'll be at a high again:)

It honestly gets better.
User avatar #37181 to #37180 - loopz (11/15/2012) [-]
I hope so because it is a pain living like this.
User avatar #37183 to #37181 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
I'm assuming you're in middle school? Around maybe 7th grade I got into the worst depression of my life. Middle school involved my biggest Bipolar lows, but as I made friends and kind-of grew into myself (and out of my awkward years) things started to get better. There were still lows, I just had a better support system:)

What is bothering you the most right now?
User avatar #37347 to #37183 - loopz (11/15/2012) [-]
I am in Grade 9 currently.
User avatar #37366 to #37347 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
My apologies:)
User avatar #37390 to #37366 - loopz (11/15/2012) [-]
It's ok
User avatar #37391 to #37390 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
How are you faring?
User avatar #37393 to #37391 - loopz (11/15/2012) [-]
Decently, school was the same as always.
User avatar #37397 to #37393 - WhattheNorris (11/15/2012) [-]
Not bad then, the best of wishes to you in your future:3
User avatar #37401 to #37397 - loopz (11/16/2012) [-]
I appreciate it, thanks.
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