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#28507 - N. Korean citizen (09/23/2012) [-]
Would like some input regarding a relationship.
Yes, another relationship post. Get over it.

I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for 2 years.
I don't regret the relationship at all, but I'm getting to the stage where I don't think I actually enjoy her company any more.
I find myself almost avoiding chances to see her and I am quite certain that, were the relationship to progress to marriage, I would not be happy.

Problem is; it works. We don't fight (mostly due to me, as I'm an incredibly passive person and she kind of isn't), we have fun whenever it is that we do hang out, we can share common interests and the sex is pretty good.

However, that lingering lack of satisfaction with the relationship which I can't trace to any particular source remains.
Thoughts?
User avatar #28637 to #28507 - mllerayael (09/24/2012) [-]
its probably a case of you are spending too much time together or you dont have a life outside of the relationship find something that you really enjoy doing and keep her input to a minimum it will give you a chance to have something new to talk to her about (I just got out of a 2 year relationship and we had this problem after a year so i went to uni and suddenly we had stuff to talk about again)
User avatar #28569 to #28507 - shoryuken (09/23/2012) [-]
find another girl first
or you'll regret the lack of pussy
User avatar #28577 to #28569 - jacksterlad ONLINE (09/23/2012) [-]
yeah hes right, line up another girl first do you dont hit a dry patch, plus you can be 'romantic' to the other girl by lying y saying youve left a long term relationship just for her
User avatar #28525 to #28507 - dingdongsingsong (09/23/2012) [-]
The only way to ease pain is kill hope early .. If you stick with this girl just for the heck of it your going to regret it you should let her down easy and fast
User avatar #28512 to #28507 - notsafeforcupcake (09/23/2012) [-]
Probably best to tell her that spark is gone, and it's time to either find it again, or move on.
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