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User avatar #27910 - CampenCarl (09/20/2012) [-]
Alright guys I need some anonymous opinions on something, but I should probably elaborate first.

At about the end of august I got back to my job after being gone for a month because of an accident that put me in for minor surgery I came back and we had this new chef (I worked with her the day before my accident so I didn't get to talk to her since it was thew awkward "I'm new here" thing). We started talking a bit and it turned out we had a lot in common, liked the games, movies, books, anime. We hung out on breaks together and even though I was a dish washer I took every chance I had to leave my area and go over and talk to her. We started getting closer and nights when it was only me and her in the kitchen we'd get kinda touchy (nothing sexual, just hugging and whatnot). It was going really good, I even worked up the courage to ask her out to coffee (which was amazing for me since I have a lot of difficulty with that since my last relationship). Then something happened with her family and she ended up being kicked out of her house and having to move away (her town is 2 hours away from mine and not owning a car makes things hard) it sucked but we still enjoyed our time together before she had to leave. When she moves away suddenly (didn't show up for her last shift) my boss gets pissed and makes up some crap to tell me about her that I wasn't sure was true or not. So I didn't text her at all after she moved away. After about two weeks she texts me and I find out why she didn't show up for work. After a couple days I find out shes coming back for a a day to visit her family. I had to work that day and ended up missing her (I was pissed beyond belief because I wasn't supposed to work that day). Then yesterday I had to go out her way for an appointment to see if I'd need more surgery, after I finished at the hospital (thankfully not needing more surgery. I texted her and she happened to not be working that day, so we decided to meet up.

Will continue in a reply.
User avatar #27919 to #27910 - CampenCarl (09/20/2012) [-]
I made an excuse to my dad that I wanted to stop into a book store before heading home since we don't have any where we live. He dropped me off and went to do his own thing. After waiting outside the book store for a few minutes she pulls up and gets out and we hug and reconnect. I tell her that I needed to go in a get some books before my dad showed up to get me and ask her if she wants to join me. She says okay then turns around back to her car. I wasn't sure why. Then she opens the door and her three year old daughter climbs out, I don't freak out or anything. I was just a big surprise, I had no idea she had a daughter. We go in and I get my stuff and my dads out there waiting for me, so I kiss her on the cheek before I go and tell her that I'll see her again soon hopefully. So this is my dilemma, I really like this girl and she seems to really like me back considering we're taking every chance we get to see each other (and that kiss on the cheek prompting a text a few minutes after I left saying "I hope I get a better kiss than that next time") but her having a daughter is a big thing. I'm nineteen and shes twenty-two, so its kind of a young age to be a dad to someone elses kid. I really think she might be worth it but it could be difficult with a kid involved. The last thing I'd want to to get involved with her then something happen for us to break up down the line then not only hurt her but the kid too. Long story short, I'm really into a single mom.

So, any advice on this little matter?
User avatar #27925 to #27919 - sweetypie (09/20/2012) [-]
if you really like her than you'll love the kid too... and if something happens than i'm pretty sure the little girl will still love you.. if you have a good relationship.. also, singlle moms look for a guy who can not only love them but their kids too.. if that makes sense...
#27933 to #27925 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2012) [-]
dude, stop making these "...." on each comment. its stupid as dauyymn.
User avatar #27927 to #27925 - sweetypie (09/20/2012) [-]
but if she doesn't see that, then her loss..
User avatar #27924 to #27919 - gunboyx (09/20/2012) [-]
Dude no, don't even consider being a father of a child that isn't yours for a woman that could be. I say keep your distance your 19 a huge future ahead of you, lots more to do and your own family. Also your going to get into shit loads of drama that doesn't need you.
User avatar #27913 to #27910 - gunboyx (09/20/2012) [-]
Follow your heart, don't doubt.
User avatar #27914 to #27913 - CampenCarl (09/20/2012) [-]
Hold on, I have more yet XD
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