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User avatar #27006 - dingdongsingsong (09/15/2012) [-]
I messaged a person that I like ..who never messages me first ...and the lack of self control I have over myself with this person is ridiculous ..now I'm regretting it ..
#27082 to #27006 - Beenfiftyfive (09/16/2012) [-]
I know I'm late, but a lot of girls have the mind set "the guy talks to the girl first" so you did a good job!
User avatar #27126 to #27082 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
BUT I AM THE GIRL D: !
#27160 to #27126 - Beenfiftyfive (09/16/2012) [-]
Well in that case, good job!
User avatar #27166 to #27160 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
it still doesn't change the fact of him not talking ot me
#27167 to #27166 - Beenfiftyfive (09/16/2012) [-]
I'm sorry, it happens.
User avatar #27169 to #27167 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
thanks anyway
User avatar #27054 to #27006 - songemot (09/15/2012) [-]
Don't apologize, or shrink back, or dwell on regret, or supplicate or any of that shit. You've started making your move. Good. Keep calm and keep it going.
User avatar #27128 to #27054 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
But I'm the only one who makes any move !
User avatar #27134 to #27128 - songemot (09/16/2012) [-]
Uh... yeah? So?

It's not like there's one particular person out there who is "the one" for you and you'll both shamelessly fall in love as soon as you meet. Sometimes you have to create attraction. And there's nothing wrong with that.
User avatar #27136 to #27134 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
B..but I'm ok if it doesn't turn out to be a relaxationship being close friends with that person will satisfy me as well but I just don't know how ..,
User avatar #27162 to #27136 - songemot (09/16/2012) [-]
I just now saw that you were the girl.

It's pretty hard to be too friendly in that case unless you're just hideous as fuck. The girls who get my attention the most are the ones who make a point of talking to me.

Don't worry about it. You are far less likely to screw up than you think you are.
User avatar #27163 to #27162 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
i hope your right .....
User avatar #27161 to #27136 - songemot (09/16/2012) [-]
Then it's even harder to fail. Almost any two people be just friends if they're both willing.

Now get out there and be awesome.
User avatar #27164 to #27161 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
you too :D
User avatar #27026 to #27006 - thatguycrow (09/15/2012) [-]
Dont worry about it in the slightest. Just dont come off like a creep. Seriously though you sound so fucking beta right now. I mean, you just messaged someone. Thats all.
User avatar #27027 to #27026 - dingdongsingsong (09/15/2012) [-]
BUT I FEEL LIKE A CREEP D: !
User avatar #27078 to #27027 - Jackimole (09/16/2012) [-]
What the hell are you doing there? You don't belong there!
User avatar #27130 to #27078 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
*slowly walking away from the window...*
#27042 to #27027 - sadawedsa (09/15/2012) [-]
I know that feel bro, all too well
User avatar #27129 to #27042 - dingdongsingsong (09/16/2012) [-]
Constantly being the only one who messages first and feeling hopeless and pathetic ? Oh yeah ...
#27139 to #27129 - sadawedsa (09/16/2012) [-]
Feely feels
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