(Part 1 of my rant) Alright. So I'm thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend of 8 months, FJ. First couple months in, it was good. But things have transpired, and her best guy friend is being a total pain. He's made moves(kissed her forehead, held her hand while I was holding her hand), and she HAS told him to back off. But he still sticks around. He has told me that he's willing to wait for her (said this around nearing the end of May-early June). The three of us talked, but she leaned all the way to her friend's side. So I have felt crushed that she'd pick him over me. I gave that ultimatum to her once, but she had said that there were no choices but me in the first place.

But the thing is that she hangs out with him more than me (not to mention her family prefers him as well over me). She says that she'll be busy and what not during the summer, and I understood that. But outside sources have told me that she has been hanging out with him way more. I saw her 4 times out of the entire summer. They have been seen together at least 10 times through out that same summer. It just wasn't fair to me. I tell her that we barely even see each other anymore, and it doesn't seem to phase her.

It seems like their relationship is growing ever stronger, while I'm here taking up space and role as boyfriend. She doesn't tell me anything that goes on in her life, and I do my best to make contact with her, but she just seems disinterested.