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User avatar #23836 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
Okay, Advice, I'm transgender (Male to Female) But I haven't really come out yet. The only person who knows is my close friend jamie, who is also trans. I've been wanting to tell my girlfriend this, but I don't know how she'll take it. How do I tell her, guys? Like, what's the best way to bring this up?
User avatar #23844 to #23836 - omnomnipotent (08/30/2012) [-]
is comment #23841 the exact same situation? if so, refer to that as i have answered it.

User avatar #23846 to #23844 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
Yes it is actually.
User avatar #23847 to #23846 - omnomnipotent (08/30/2012) [-]
well like i said, YOU should be the one to tell her. by not telling her, you are essentially lying to her. you cannot have a successful relationship built on lies, mistrust, etc. yadda yadda yadda. just tell her and things will be cool, also don't wait around for your friend to help you, this is your responsibility!
good luck!
User avatar #23848 to #23847 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
Well, the reason I'm bringing this up is because she's been staying at my house. Maybe I should just tell her now.
User avatar #23849 to #23848 - omnomnipotent (08/30/2012) [-]
the sooner the better. do it now if you can. take charge!
User avatar #23850 to #23849 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
Alright. I'll go tell her.
User avatar #23851 to #23850 - queensparkles **User deleted account** (08/30/2012) [-]
Yeah, go tell your girl you're a girl.
User avatar #23852 to #23851 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
Did it.
User avatar #23854 to #23852 - queensparkles **User deleted account** (08/30/2012) [-]
How'd that go?
User avatar #23856 to #23854 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
She accepts me as her girlfriend and she's still in love with me.
#23946 to #23856 - qwertynerd (08/30/2012) [-]
faith in humanity has been restored, tell her she's just that amazing, from me personally, qwertynerd
User avatar #23911 to #23856 - lolme (08/30/2012) [-]
That's cute. :)
User avatar #23860 to #23856 - hopeadope (08/30/2012) [-]
Congrats!
User avatar #23838 to #23836 - freedomreturns (08/30/2012) [-]
Kind of hard to be anything but straightforward. I don't see her reacting differently no matter how you tell her.
User avatar #23840 to #23838 - sexyskeleton (08/30/2012) [-]
Hmm. Okay.
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