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User avatar #10880 - atilia (07/07/2012) [-]
I'm debating whether or not to break up with my girlfriend. The thing is that she lives an hour and fifteen minutes away, and we have conflicting work schedules. I love her, but it is just so hard to spend time with her. We talk on the phone every night, but it still tears me apart not being able to see her.
User avatar #11192 to #10880 - chancebell (07/08/2012) [-]
I'm in a long distance relationship right now. My girlfriend lives in Alberta, I live in Ontario, Canada. We talk often, and things are great between us. I love her to death, and I'd never break up with her. Anyway, I don't think you should break up with her for such a silly reason. If you love her, then distance shouldn't be a problem for you.
User avatar #11245 to #11192 - atilia (07/08/2012) [-]
If it was just the distance, I probably wouldn't even be thinking about it. However when you add that to the fact that she's probably just to young for me it makes things harder. She's 18 I'm 22, and I've always been a bit more mature than my age.
User avatar #10908 to #10880 - sweetgreenwolfette (07/07/2012) [-]
I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment. He lives over 5 hours away. But we make it work. If you love her, really love her, don't do it.
User avatar #11035 to #10908 - atilia (07/08/2012) [-]
That's the thing. I do care for her and want to see her happy in every way I can, but sometimes I think that we're just too different. I guess this is just going to be hard with or without advice. Thank you, I'll try to figure out what's best.
User avatar #10902 to #10880 - Noah (07/07/2012) [-]
I had the same problem. My girlfriend and I broke up after About 18-19 months because it was so hard to see eachother
User avatar #10883 to #10880 - boxdrop (07/07/2012) [-]
How long have you guys been together and how long will the situation stay the same?
User avatar #10885 to #10883 - atilia (07/07/2012) [-]
We've been together 8 months now. It was hard since the beginning, but now we both work. I'm Doing 5 days a week and she has no set schedule. I don't think that will change any time soon.
User avatar #10889 to #10885 - boxdrop (07/07/2012) [-]
I was expecting you to say like a month or two not gonna lie. I think at this point its more you gotta look inside yourself and see if its worth it, after 8 months it shouldn't be that difficult of a choice to make, by contemplating breaking up but loving her is just a conflict inside yourself to spare yourself from the sorrow at night. But depending on what happens in the future it could be more devastating if you end it now. If you truly do love her and know that with every fiber of your being then stick it out and you can find a way to make it work
User avatar #11027 to #10889 - atilia (07/08/2012) [-]
Sorry about being so late to reply, I was running late for work. Thank you for the advice. I will be a hard decision to make though.
User avatar #11036 to #11027 - boxdrop (07/08/2012) [-]
No worries my car is dead so i got nothing to do right now but play online. If you really do love her try to stick it out, you can both get diffrent jobs after a little more time together you could get a place together you never know but if you know you deep down its actually love and you wanna keep it then keep it
User avatar #11039 to #11036 - atilia (07/08/2012) [-]
Thank you.
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